Why do some women have orgasms during sex and some dont?!
Question: My Girlfriend never has a orgasm during sex, and even though she's never had a problem from this- because I still take care of her needs after were done having sex, still i dont understand it. She has it when their is oral involved, and if were fooling around and stuff, but never during sex it self. Is this normal? or is she or myself just not doing it right or something? Maybe most women dont have orgasms during sex and its just TV hype that makes us think they do.
Id like to mainly have the females point of veiw on this one, but ill take any answers though.
Note im not a new person here, i just created a new name account for this question, to prevent personal embarresment.
Answers: My Girlfriend never has a orgasm during sex, and even though she's never had a problem from this- because I still take care of her needs after were done having sex, still i dont understand it. She has it when their is oral involved, and if were fooling around and stuff, but never during sex it self. Is this normal? or is she or myself just not doing it right or something? Maybe most women dont have orgasms during sex and its just TV hype that makes us think they do.
Id like to mainly have the females point of veiw on this one, but ill take any answers though.
Note im not a new person here, i just created a new name account for this question, to prevent personal embarresment.
My wife never has a orgasm unless im messing with her down their during sex. But with intercourse only, never.
She's fine with it too, as long as i make sure she gets her before we call it quits.
As far as playing with her clit during intercourse, you can try it, but its very difficult for most positions and keep you consintration on the sex part too.. Just go with whats working for you and her.. Dont worry about any changes unless she or you want or discuss changes. She may be like my wife and enjoys laying their after sex knowing shes getting hers while relaxing.
my 2 cents.
MOST women cannot orgasm through intercourse. This is because the main sexual organ, the clitoris, is not directly stimulated during intercourse. Nearly all women need direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Maybe she will be able to orgasm during sex if you play with her clitoris DURING sex.
usually its the guys fault most girls do get orgasms during sex someone isnt doing something right try some new positions and moves
Thats totally normal, just stimulate the clitoris at the same time as having sex. Everybody is different and/or you may not have just got the G-spot yet, ask what she wants you to do (within reason! hahahaha) and you may get it sooner or later ;] good luck and have fun!!
Some women have less sensitive clitoris then others. Maybe it depends on position. It sounds like she benefits from direct stimulation instead of indirect. It's normal in the sense that everybody's set up different and what works for one lady may not work for another one.
TV. . .well, you can't really use tv as a realistic model for anything. TV rarely shows guys not being able to get it up or being premature (unless it's for comedic purposes).
Just play around. Experiment with positions and toys and all that fun stuff. Maybe you have to use fingers or a toy while having intercourse. And that's okay. It's not a commentary on your abilities or hers.
A really good book to read together is "Guide To Getting It On!" by Paul Joannides.
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