My new g/f wants to have unprotected sex. She tells me that she is on the pill -!
Question: dont do it... you have no idea if shes has an STD or not... and its not worth the risk... if she keeps pushing for it and you dont want to, than you need to find someone else who will respect you
... if you have only been together for 6 weeks and you are not comfortable enough to talk to her about STDs than you arent ready for sex... you NEED to be able to openly talk about sex, STDs and the possibility of pregnancy in order to actually have sex because those are all things that are a direct result of sex... and if you have to ask that question on here, you are not ready... all you would need to say is "do you have an STD?... I want us to go get tested together first"... if you're not able to say that to her face, you are not ready
Answers: dont do it... you have no idea if shes has an STD or not... and its not worth the risk... if she keeps pushing for it and you dont want to, than you need to find someone else who will respect you
... if you have only been together for 6 weeks and you are not comfortable enough to talk to her about STDs than you arent ready for sex... you NEED to be able to openly talk about sex, STDs and the possibility of pregnancy in order to actually have sex because those are all things that are a direct result of sex... and if you have to ask that question on here, you are not ready... all you would need to say is "do you have an STD?... I want us to go get tested together first"... if you're not able to say that to her face, you are not ready
tell her to take a test proving that she doesnt have std and then do her
You still need to protect yourself from stds. Besides, for all you know she could already have a bun in the oven and try to say you got her pregnant. Not cool.
You tackle the problem about STDs by telling her you both need to be tested so that you can go into this relationship protecting one another. If she refuses I would run.
do you want gonorrhea?
use a condom no matter what.
be like heelllzz yeahh muh niggaaa
just believe her
if she gets preggers, its NOT your fault
coming from a female.. i would ask to see the pills... you need to look out for yourself and not get her pregnant.
well if you are asking this question on here then, don't do it. you are unsure for a reason, trust yourself
Don't trust her. Lots of women will lie about that just to try to get pregnant. If you aren't ready for a child then you need to make sure you are protected. Don't rely on just her for protection.
Yikes.. don't do it! you will thank us later!
remember that the pill doesn't stop STDs
Tell her that you don't want to risk an STD
Don't. She might be on the pill, but lots of girls get pregnant using birth control pills, and then you know what they say?? "Honey I'm pregnant, and it's YOURS! Pay up." And then you have 18 years worth of bills for something she reassured you of. If you don't want kids, then don't do it without a rubber.
My advice would be to say no. The prevention stats are better with both to begin with and short of time and tests it is really hard to know where somebody has been.
Tell her you dont trust pills. they are very unreliable
If you are not sure that you are ready to have sex with her without a condom, then dont. And if she has a problem with that then tell her that you dont want to have sex at all!! Dont do anyting you dont want to do.
i would do it, rubbers take away all the feeling, for her and you
ALWAYS use a condom, unprotected sex is not a good idea in a new relationship unless you WANT a baby. So please, use protection.
The pill is not a 100% effective. I have two friends that were conceived when there mothers were using birth control. Always use a condom. It also helps prevent the spread of STD's and AIDS/HIV.
use spermicidal lube, but pullout at the end if you really want to help avoid a bad situation.
statistically the pill is more reliable then the condom, but its better use both.
be sure she doesnt have vd, is lying about the pill or something
Unprotected sex is not cool. Don't do it. Ask her to prove it.
Don't risk it. you guys will end up pregnent or get am std. You should always use protection. the pill is not 100% protective and doesn't protect you from sexually transmitted diseases. You should definatly talk to her about this. Be safe.
just tell her that you don't want to do it. and if doesn't understand than you should just tell her that the relationship wouldn't work, because if you guys did unprotected sex, your lives could lead you in the wrong direction
run
DON'T. It's not worth the risk. Next, she'll be asking you to "shack up" with a 'baby' and 'not be married'.
Furthermore, if she is asking that request of "you", it makes me wonder how many others she's asked that same request to.
DON'T.
defintley go get her tested because no matter what she says and how believeing it might be there are just some people out there that lie about having std's or sti's. Its for your own safety.
And also the pill isnt 100% accurate so i wouldn't always rely on that. Because some girls sometimes forget to take it or take a break for a little and than it happens...pregnancy.
So ya Just think about it.
Even if she is comitted to you / loves you a lot ( or vice versa ) you better protect both of you against any unwanted pregnancy, if not AIDs.
do it! and if she will pregnant.. you'll have a baby! (if she does not want to have a baby, it's her fault!)
no no no dont do it whats wrong with her and how long have you2 been togeather idk but dont do it
Take her to a clinc, have her tested for STDs, and have her prove to you she's on the pill. Even then don't have unprotected sex.