Young and possibly pregnant! Plz no lectures just advice PLEASE kthx?!
Question: First of all, im almost 16. My birthday is april 29th. Okay, I know i'm young, shouldn't be having sex, but i don't want any lectures. Anyways i think i may be pregnant, i try to keep the dates of when i have sex, so that if i somehow do become pregnant i will more than likely notice. Ya know? I'm not on any type of birthcontrol and my boyfriend usually c.ums inside of me like 7 out of 8 times. Well, my last AF was February 29th - March 4th. And since then i've had sex on March 7th, 13th, 18th, 22nd, 26th, 31st, april 4th, and 9th. Anyway my period never came, But on the 2nd of april i got ONE TINY SPOT of brown discharge[along w/ some cramps]. Now its the April 14th and i still haven't had my period. I took a cheap pregnancy test On April 11th and it was a negative. But i heard there was like this implantation bleeding and you have to wait 2-3 weeks after that to get a positive. i've had horrible leg cramps & headaches at night. What are the chances of me being pregnant ?
Answers: First of all, im almost 16. My birthday is april 29th. Okay, I know i'm young, shouldn't be having sex, but i don't want any lectures. Anyways i think i may be pregnant, i try to keep the dates of when i have sex, so that if i somehow do become pregnant i will more than likely notice. Ya know? I'm not on any type of birthcontrol and my boyfriend usually c.ums inside of me like 7 out of 8 times. Well, my last AF was February 29th - March 4th. And since then i've had sex on March 7th, 13th, 18th, 22nd, 26th, 31st, april 4th, and 9th. Anyway my period never came, But on the 2nd of april i got ONE TINY SPOT of brown discharge[along w/ some cramps]. Now its the April 14th and i still haven't had my period. I took a cheap pregnancy test On April 11th and it was a negative. But i heard there was like this implantation bleeding and you have to wait 2-3 weeks after that to get a positive. i've had horrible leg cramps & headaches at night. What are the chances of me being pregnant ?
Are you on any kind of birth control? Did you make him use a condom? There is a DARNED good chance you are pregnant if you use no birth control at all. If you take a home test, dont take a cheap one. Pay for a good one like First Response. If in a week you still don't have a period, you are going to need to tell your mom to take you to the doctor.
And for the love of God, PLEASE use birth control!!! You are 16 years old! Do you REALLY want the responsibility of raising a child for the next 18 years when you are only a child yourself? You will miss out on your entire youth!!!!!!
You need to go to a Clinic for pregnant
teenagers, and get tested, over the
counter tests are sometimes inaccurate
and can cause problems. Medical
examination will give the right answers.
Well, i hate to hear such young girls getting pregnant, it's really sad. i think from this day forward you should keep you damn legs closed! You most definately sound pregnant =/ and your 15 for goodness sake. I know you said no lectures but i really don't care, you need them. Someone needs to tell your parents/guardian. You aren't mature enough to have a baby and not too mention WAY TOO YOUNG!! But besides all that, if you are pregnant you better grow up and take care of the little one. he/she shouldn't be punished for something their parents did.
If you are having unprotected sex, you are going to get pregnant.
You do know there are really no safe days.... Just less likely days and the 7th and 13th are VERY GOOD days.
Take another test. And get on something or have him wrap it up, or close the legs. You are a mother just waiting to happen.
No Lectures??? If you were my daughter I would be furious at you that you knowingly and yes I mean knowingly are trying to get pregnant. What did you think would happen if you had sex unprotected? I hope for the sake of any child that you may conceive that you are NOT pregnant because apparently you have no self control or interest in your own well being..... How do you expect to care for a child at 16 years old? If by the grace of God you are Not pregnant please get on birth control..... That it...
Hey. I'm not going to lecture you. My friend has been in the same boat as you. Kenya is 20. Her oldest son was born when she was 14 years old. She gave birth to twin boys when she was turning 16 and a girl when she was almost 18. She's lucky though. her babies are all from the same man and they are getting married after she gives birth to her soon-to-be daughter.
You need to wait a couple of weeks and then take a home pregnancy test. Take more than one because you may get a false positive or, very very rare, a false positive. If they say that you are, there is no way in hell you are going to be able to hide your pregnancy from your parents. If you are, don't let your parents and peers and friends or boyfriend pressure you into doing something you don't want to. Take care of yourself. If you are not pregnant, get some birth control.
The Best Of Luck To You
my god, if you are that uneducated not to use ANY type of birth control you shouldnt even be doing it!!!! Do you really want a kid at 15 years old? There is a very HIGH chance you are pregnant, and if he comes inside of you every time you are probably most definatly pregnant. You are the luckiest person I know if you arent. My advice is to take another test every week untill you know for sure you are/arent. Or you could always go to the doctors. Go on Birth control please, I suggest Nuvaring. If you cant talk to your parents about that kind of stuff than go to a planned parenthood. Your boyfriend should know better too...where the he// does he think babies come from?
i think you need some birth control and to be honest you are rather stupid. buy a better pregnancy test like more expensive and go to the doctors =]
good luck and get some proper contraception
in this day and age there should not be unwanted pregnancy in MEDC's.