What do you mean thats my job???!
Question: What do you mean thats my job!?!?!?
So my b/f and i have been on the rocks lately!.!.!.!.!.!.And were totally outta sync in our sex life!
recently had a fight and he talked about the fact that we hadnt had sex in a week and about how i hadnt "gotten him off"!?!?
i told him that i wasnt in the mood and that he didnt try to get me in the mood!.!.!.
So then i asked him if he ever masturbates and he said NO !.!.!."thats why i have a g/f"!.!.!.!.
!.!.!.So my question!.!.!.
If your in a relationship is it always on your partners shoulders to "get you off" all the time!? DO you still masturbate if your in a relationship!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
recently had a fight and he talked about the fact that we hadnt had sex in a week and about how i hadnt "gotten him off"!?!?
i told him that i wasnt in the mood and that he didnt try to get me in the mood!.!.!.
So then i asked him if he ever masturbates and he said NO !.!.!."thats why i have a g/f"!.!.!.!.
!.!.!.So my question!.!.!.
If your in a relationship is it always on your partners shoulders to "get you off" all the time!? DO you still masturbate if your in a relationship!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
No it is not!. If your boyfriend wants to have more sex than he needs to understand that many (most!?) women don't just want sex at the drop of the hat!. He needs to work at getting you in the mood (foreplay) and foreplay does not just include right before the action!. Foreplay is something that is done throughout the day, for example--him treating you with kindness and respect and giving you nice gestures (whether it's opening a door or bringing you flowers or telling you that you are beautiful)!. It is also healthy to have both a sex life with your partner as well as a private sex life with just yourself!. I am guessing that he probably does masturbate on his own and made that remark to make you feel guilty about not wanting sex whenever he does!.!.!.but sex is also an emotional experience for women and if the relationship is on the rocks than many women would not feel like having sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i have been with my fiance for 3 years now!.!.!. and yes i still masterbate!.!. i dont know if he does!.!.!. but i do and he is ok with it!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Are you married!? If you expect a mutually exclusive relationship, remember why guys settle down!.!.!.!. Part of it is to have regular sex!. Shallow as it seems, that is just most guys!. If you are exclusive, only hold out for a really good reason!. All it does is frustrate him if hes being a good boy and doesn't get laid!. If you're not exclusive, then to hell with it!. But don't give in if he isn't being a good boy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He is just hiding behind the screen " i dont do that " he is trying to make you feel better sounds like ( I have a girlfriend that I like , and keep around to have Sex with and dont need to masterbate ) , sounds like your taking it too seriously , especialy seems its you that is putting him off not the other way around!.
Remeber this is a BF not a husband ,and he can leave you if he wants with no strings, your relationship at this point is temperary !. Be nice !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Remeber this is a BF not a husband ,and he can leave you if he wants with no strings, your relationship at this point is temperary !. Be nice !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Absolutely not!!!! You should only have sex when you both want to!. Otherwise it loses its passion and becomes more like a chore than anything!. Think of it this way, if you were in the mood and he wasn't do you think he would give you sympathy sex!? Probably not!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have been with my husband for 7 years and we still find ways to please eachother and ourselves !.!.he does his thing and i do mineWww@Answer-Health@Com