Shameful secret... need help please!!!?!
Question: Shameful secret!.!.!. need help please!!!!?
My best friend shared to me a very shameful secret and I really want to help her since that secret has been very distractive in her life!.
ok!.!.!. uhm, her so-called ' singit ' and lower vagina are dark!. Shes quite fair so when you look to it, its obviously darker!. "Its such a shame!", she told me!. and I agree to her with that!. I mean, for several reasons, that is indeed shameful!. Like, how can you wear bikinis!? or how would you make love to your boyfriend if your so depressed about having those dark 'singit' that you wont be able to carry a lights on sex!?
So, could you guys give me a product that could lighten her complexion in that part of her body!?!?!?
!.!.a product that really works!. and if possible, support that with scientific information please!.
Need your help!. ^_^Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok!.!.!. uhm, her so-called ' singit ' and lower vagina are dark!. Shes quite fair so when you look to it, its obviously darker!. "Its such a shame!", she told me!. and I agree to her with that!. I mean, for several reasons, that is indeed shameful!. Like, how can you wear bikinis!? or how would you make love to your boyfriend if your so depressed about having those dark 'singit' that you wont be able to carry a lights on sex!?
So, could you guys give me a product that could lighten her complexion in that part of her body!?!?!?
!.!.a product that really works!. and if possible, support that with scientific information please!.
Need your help!. ^_^Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
that is in NO WAY shameful!. she should love her body for what it is and you shouldn't think any less of her for it either!. what do you think people with giant birthmarks on their FACES do!? people shouldn't look down on them for the way they look!. first of all, wearing a bikini should not show her vaginal areas!. and as for guys!.!.!. they don't care!. you'd have to search pretty hard for a guy who gives a crap if it's darker down there!. and if they do care, she's got the wrong guy!.
if you're still so superficial that you think so poorly about your friend's NATURAL skin and she still feels uncomfortable about it even though there is NOTHING shameful AT ALL about it, tell her to go to her doctor and ask!. that's the only way to be completely safe!. they can send her to a good dermatologist who can help!.
since i don't think that anything i can say will change your mind and i know it's important to feel comfortable with your body, i'll try to help anyway:
http://www!.southbeachskinsolutions!.com/!?!.!.!. is a lightening gel made specifically for "sensitive areas"!.
that should do her fine!. if it doesn't change, tell her to see her doctor and ask about something more professional!. make sure whatever cream you choose doesn't have hydroquinone and kojic acid; they can result in severe side effects!. most vaginal creams have these in them, so make sure to look at the ingredients! once she starts bleaching, she needs to follow a strict pattern of hygiene!. don't forget to wash thoroughly and wipe the chemicals inside out!.
you can also call your local tanning/waxing salons and ask if they do vaginal bleaching, but that's a little more awkward than putting a cream on by yourself!.
first and foremost, you need to be a good friend and tell her it doesn't matter if she's darker down there! if she still feels uncomfortable, THEN tell her these things!.
good luck and i hope whatever she does, she can finally love her body!Www@Answer-Health@Com
if you're still so superficial that you think so poorly about your friend's NATURAL skin and she still feels uncomfortable about it even though there is NOTHING shameful AT ALL about it, tell her to go to her doctor and ask!. that's the only way to be completely safe!. they can send her to a good dermatologist who can help!.
since i don't think that anything i can say will change your mind and i know it's important to feel comfortable with your body, i'll try to help anyway:
http://www!.southbeachskinsolutions!.com/!?!.!.!. is a lightening gel made specifically for "sensitive areas"!.
that should do her fine!. if it doesn't change, tell her to see her doctor and ask about something more professional!. make sure whatever cream you choose doesn't have hydroquinone and kojic acid; they can result in severe side effects!. most vaginal creams have these in them, so make sure to look at the ingredients! once she starts bleaching, she needs to follow a strict pattern of hygiene!. don't forget to wash thoroughly and wipe the chemicals inside out!.
you can also call your local tanning/waxing salons and ask if they do vaginal bleaching, but that's a little more awkward than putting a cream on by yourself!.
first and foremost, you need to be a good friend and tell her it doesn't matter if she's darker down there! if she still feels uncomfortable, THEN tell her these things!.
good luck and i hope whatever she does, she can finally love her body!Www@Answer-Health@Com
yes! u know we all r embarrassed about dark insides!!!
seriously! a guy won't even care what color the thing is!. why do u think they don't make products for it! as long as it's a vagina he won't care!.!.!.seriouslyWww@Answer-Health@Com
seriously! a guy won't even care what color the thing is!. why do u think they don't make products for it! as long as it's a vagina he won't care!.!.!.seriouslyWww@Answer-Health@Com
This is not shameful for one thing!.!.!. don't agree with her on that!. Reassure her that everyone looks different in some way or another down there!. I had a similar problem: I thought the skin over my Clitorus hung down too far!. So, as embarrassing as it was I asked my gynecologist!. And she talked openly to me about it and made sure I knew it was normal!. I would definitely suggest she go see a gyno and just ask blatantly!. They don't get embarrassed about stuff like that and who would know better!? They look at different ones all day every day!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
How is that shameful!?!?!?!? She shouldnt care what others think and it doesnt mean that her b/f want has sex with her unless its some kind of Std i wouldnt worry about is Trust me being a guy it wouldnt matter if she is white and her vigina is black if i love her it wouldnt matterWww@Answer-Health@Com
Anything that you would put on your face etc to lighten skin could not be used on the sensitive skin of the vagina!. And what the hell is a singit!? And btw guys would not care about something as trivial as that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This is not shameful!.!.!. i can guarantee that millions of other people have the exact same darkness!.
Some men like it btw!.!.
If she is really bothered by it!.!. which i wouldnt be!.!.!.there are some places that bleach the area for you!.
but theres seriously no need!.!.
P!.S you should be more supporting as a friend too!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Some men like it btw!.!.
If she is really bothered by it!.!. which i wouldnt be!.!.!.there are some places that bleach the area for you!.
but theres seriously no need!.!.
P!.S you should be more supporting as a friend too!Www@Answer-Health@Com
umm what is a singit!? I don't really think it will be that much of a problem!. First of all her bikini shouldn't be showing any of her vaginal area and during sex, it probably won't be that distracting, worse case scenario-turn the lights off!. She might try some of that cream that lightens stretch marks and stuff!.
By the way this isn't shameful!. A shameful secret would be her being hurt or abused by somebody or something else serious, not something shallow as this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
By the way this isn't shameful!. A shameful secret would be her being hurt or abused by somebody or something else serious, not something shallow as this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is nothing that will change lighten the color of the skin that can be bought over the counter!. Your friend will have to speak to a local doctor about a bleaching cream applied by the doctor!.
Your friend should not be so concerned over a slight discoloration of the skin in that area!. Most women's vagina's are slightly darker!. But again if this is a problem to her, she needs to go to a doctor and explain her concern to the doctor!.
There is absolutely nothing shameful about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your friend should not be so concerned over a slight discoloration of the skin in that area!. Most women's vagina's are slightly darker!. But again if this is a problem to her, she needs to go to a doctor and explain her concern to the doctor!.
There is absolutely nothing shameful about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
What guy would actually care!? If he gets to see it at all, the color is really going to be the last thing on his mind!. I understand about the bikini problem, though!. Copy and paste this link:
http://www!.medhelp!.org/forums/WomensHeal!.!.!.
I googled it, and found this!. Read all of the entries, they have seriously helpful points of view!Www@Answer-Health@Com
http://www!.medhelp!.org/forums/WomensHeal!.!.!.
I googled it, and found this!. Read all of the entries, they have seriously helpful points of view!Www@Answer-Health@Com
What's shameful about it!? It's just skin - every person's body is different and there's no standard for how it "should" look!. Why else would we all come in different colors and shades on the rest of our bodies!? I can't imagine any man would really care all that much about what shade the skin is - and if he does, he isn't worthy of your time or attention - or why you wouldn't be able to wear a bikini!. Plus, that's an area I definitely wouldn't want to put any harsh chemicals on, assuming that there is a product that would achieve the effect you're looking for!. That's some very delicate skin and the potential for irritation or infection makes it even less worth it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com