Anorexia ***Help please***?!
Question: Anorexia ***Help please***!?
So I stuggle with anroxia!. But when I do eat, I eat a granola bar, yourgt, crackers!. Maybe 1 dinner a day!. That is if i'm with friends or family other then that I don't eat a whole meal!. Right now, i feel like i'm eatting to much!. In 3months I have lost over 20pounds!. I have little side effect of it, like cold hands and feet, hard feels like it is working alot harder, dizzyness and lossing my hair!. ***Please if you do answer PLEASE be nice*** I want to stop and i'm working with a therapist and a doctor (it just has been awhile since I have been in) I don't telling you them meaning behind it but please don't judge!. I have been molested and raped and I feel if I get skinny and then they will not see me, then I one get hurt!. Since my power has been taken over then, this way I still have power somehow!. I started off cutting then self medicated and now a eatting disorder!. Thank you all for your help!. Take care
The thing is I was not fat to beagin with I'm 5'2 and I weighed 130!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The thing is I was not fat to beagin with I'm 5'2 and I weighed 130!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
My heart goes out to you!. I have never had a eating disorder but I have had friends that have struggled with food!.
From my understanding they have more to do with control then they do with physical appearance!. It seems like you understand this already!. But try to remember that anorexia can be addictive behavior!.
The only way to overcome a an addiction is to admit that you have a problem (I think you have done this) and then to stay healthy you need support!. Support can be in the form of a group, family, friend or a therapist!. Make sure it is someone that can be there with no judgment!. If you have no support you will almost certainly relapsed!. This might be why you have been having problems lately, cause you have stopped going to your therapist!.
Another aspect to overcoming addiction is viewing yourself as worth saving!. Don't think that any of the abuse you have endured is your fault or that you have not worth loving!. If you cannot love yourself then you will not fight to save yourself!.
Please reach out to others for the support!. Love yourself to find the motivation to get healthy so you can live a long healthy life and realize you are not alone in this daily struggle you face!.
EDIT--I don't think that it has anything to do with will power but value that you have for yourself!. Another thing is that I don't think that rape and molestation is just a bad memory!. It is a event that can change you and is one of the most horrible things a girl or woman can go through!. Please don't let people get to you!. They just don't understand!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
From my understanding they have more to do with control then they do with physical appearance!. It seems like you understand this already!. But try to remember that anorexia can be addictive behavior!.
The only way to overcome a an addiction is to admit that you have a problem (I think you have done this) and then to stay healthy you need support!. Support can be in the form of a group, family, friend or a therapist!. Make sure it is someone that can be there with no judgment!. If you have no support you will almost certainly relapsed!. This might be why you have been having problems lately, cause you have stopped going to your therapist!.
Another aspect to overcoming addiction is viewing yourself as worth saving!. Don't think that any of the abuse you have endured is your fault or that you have not worth loving!. If you cannot love yourself then you will not fight to save yourself!.
Please reach out to others for the support!. Love yourself to find the motivation to get healthy so you can live a long healthy life and realize you are not alone in this daily struggle you face!.
EDIT--I don't think that it has anything to do with will power but value that you have for yourself!. Another thing is that I don't think that rape and molestation is just a bad memory!. It is a event that can change you and is one of the most horrible things a girl or woman can go through!. Please don't let people get to you!. They just don't understand!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think that working with your therapist will really help you!. I hope that everything works out for you :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
No matter how skinny u get ppl can still see you!. i eat like all the time and its hard for me to understand how ppl can hardly eat like that!. i eat 2 slices of toast for breakfast and juice then i have like cookies or chocoalte sometimes b4 lunch then for lunch i have alot then i eat all day until dinner and then after dinner i have icecream sometimes!. i have eaten like that my whole life and i am healthy and a good weight!. 48kg and i am 14!. i'm not judging u!. u seem to have had a hard time but remember there's always someone worse off than u!. just leave the past behind you and move on!. think about it this way, the ppl who have hurt u will be satisfied by u hurting urself and by u helping urself and getting better will make them see how strong u are!. there r ppl who love u and care about u so don't hurt urself!.
good luck
btw how old r u!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
good luck
btw how old r u!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
hunny i will not judge u and to anyone that does thats just wrong!. u have been hurt so i can see why u hurt yourself however this isnt helping u!. please try not to do this anymore because people love you so much they care about and really want you to get better! if u keep this up in the future it can cause u not to be able to have children unfurtunatly because eating disorders stop your period!. slowly start eating your way back to health!. im sure u wanna feel invisable but u cant:(
i lost my grand father because he molested my two sisters and idk yet if he did to me!., also my friend has pasted away and i have been discriminated against ans my sister almost drank herself to death!
however im still going because i know deep down im here for a reason and though i must carry the weight of the world to my shoulders god helps me!.
also death is my fear each day it makes my cry! y take away your life!? where do u go have u lived early on before!. well i dont wanna know those answers yet! and niether do u
please please get better i care:( i hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i lost my grand father because he molested my two sisters and idk yet if he did to me!., also my friend has pasted away and i have been discriminated against ans my sister almost drank herself to death!
however im still going because i know deep down im here for a reason and though i must carry the weight of the world to my shoulders god helps me!.
also death is my fear each day it makes my cry! y take away your life!? where do u go have u lived early on before!. well i dont wanna know those answers yet! and niether do u
please please get better i care:( i hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok you are not the only person in the world who has had bad stuff happen to you!.
im in the same boat as you but i know that i have to look after myself because people only give a certain amount of time to you and they dont really care about what youre going through!.
with all the bad **** in my life i would be able to go out and do several mass murders and other stupid things and still feel justified by the amount of bad things that have happened to me over my life!.
WAKE UP, if you want to be a happy healthy person then you need to change the way you think!.
get over the past and start living in the now!. you know you dont want to kill yourself or you already would have!. the things you do are for attention and people are more likely to ignore you if you are like that!.
this is not a bad comment to you, i just want you to know that you have to control everything and make your life what you want it to be!.
good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
im in the same boat as you but i know that i have to look after myself because people only give a certain amount of time to you and they dont really care about what youre going through!.
with all the bad **** in my life i would be able to go out and do several mass murders and other stupid things and still feel justified by the amount of bad things that have happened to me over my life!.
WAKE UP, if you want to be a happy healthy person then you need to change the way you think!.
get over the past and start living in the now!. you know you dont want to kill yourself or you already would have!. the things you do are for attention and people are more likely to ignore you if you are like that!.
this is not a bad comment to you, i just want you to know that you have to control everything and make your life what you want it to be!.
good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well, first of all : STOP STRESSING OUT ABOUT IT !!! It's good that you're working with a therapist and a doctor, but what you really need is the willpower!. All they can do for you is to open up the door; you need to walk in on your own!.
Also, don't let the past get to you!. Personally, I've had some bad memories myself!. You need to tell yourself that IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT! Don't let others get to you either because only you can change who you are!.
Don't let weight be an issue to you!.
For me, I'm one of those super metabolism people!. I am 5'1 and only 95 lbs!. I've been made fun of, teased, verbally harassed!. I've been told to eat more (but I eat alot) and I'm always skinny!. After a while, I realized I shouldn't change myself because of how others saw me!. I think you should think that way too
I hope this helps!. =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also, don't let the past get to you!. Personally, I've had some bad memories myself!. You need to tell yourself that IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT! Don't let others get to you either because only you can change who you are!.
Don't let weight be an issue to you!.
For me, I'm one of those super metabolism people!. I am 5'1 and only 95 lbs!. I've been made fun of, teased, verbally harassed!. I've been told to eat more (but I eat alot) and I'm always skinny!. After a while, I realized I shouldn't change myself because of how others saw me!. I think you should think that way too
I hope this helps!. =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok i speak for every guy no guy wants to bone a twig get some meat girl dont be worriedWww@Answer-Health@Com