I think that I'm asexual but how can I change it?!
Question: I think that I'm asexual but how can I change it!?
My fiance and I are in love and we've been together for 3 years, 2 1/2 of those years being in a sexual relationship!. I've never had the sex drive that he has had!. I don't find men sexually attractive and I don't find females attractive!. I mean I can say, "yeah, he's good looking" but I do not find genitals attractive or even the idea of sex!. I have problems getting self-lubricated for sex and I cannot orgasm without help from myself!. I need some answers and I need some help!.
Is this normal!? How can I change it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Is this normal!? How can I change it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Are you depressed or stressed out!? I'm not a doctor but I know from experience that other things can really impact your feelings towards sex!. When I started feeling better about myself, I became more interested in sex and found men to be attractive again!. Hope it helps!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well its not normal, seeing as like!.!. 3 quarters of the population are sexualy attracted to other people but its not un heard of!.!.!. You could probably change it with will power but I''m not really sure!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe you don't really love him!. Find someone else to "love"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you will be what you are, no matter how you try to change this, the trouble nowdays is, we feel always obliged to please other people instead of ourselves dont we!? maybe you are not with the right person, if you are not happy doing what you do, then you must change this, for your own sake!.When you say you have to pleasure yourself to get lubricated, then this is not a natural thing!.think about it!. The sexual act should be natural and normal, also personally, i think sexual activity is all in our minds, if we dont fancy it at that time, then no matter what we do, its just not going to be pleasurable for us!.Also remember!.when we love someone, we dont always fancy them that way, you,ve got to lust them as well!. Lifes a funny ole thing is,nt it!? you,ll get through this believe me,it happens to us all at some point in our lives!. good luck lol!.Www@Answer-Health@Com