Scared to have my hymen broken?!
Question: Scared to have my hymen broken!?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a long while now and the other day he was going to finger me but we were interrupted!. I know it's coming now but I'm scared because I'm pretty sure that my hymen still isn't broken!. This means that it's probably going to hurt and bleed right!? For me, I think it might be embarrassing! Also my hymen covers the opening almost completely, how will he know what to do!?
Is there a way for my hymen to be broken before!? Will it hurt that badly!? How much does it bleed!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Is there a way for my hymen to be broken before!? Will it hurt that badly!? How much does it bleed!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Look, foreplay shouldn't ever HURT!. And this should not hurt either, or bleed, unless he's decided he's going to do it "just like in the porn movies", which would be an inexcusable thing to do to someone their first time!.
So you don't wait to see how he thinks he ought to go about it!. You TELL him to be extremely gentle, and if it hurts, make him stop!. Period!. A man has no sexual feeling in his fingers, so the only point of doing that at all is to make YOU feel good!. Putting up with pain is a waste of your time and his!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So you don't wait to see how he thinks he ought to go about it!. You TELL him to be extremely gentle, and if it hurts, make him stop!. Period!. A man has no sexual feeling in his fingers, so the only point of doing that at all is to make YOU feel good!. Putting up with pain is a waste of your time and his!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
honestly dont worry bout it too much it wont bleed for long and you will be ok,its not like u gonna dieWww@Answer-Health@Com
It's not a big deal!. It hurts and you won't be able to sit right for a while!. If you don't know where the penis goes, you shouldn't be having sex in the first place!. And FYI, I waited until marriage and I didn't bleed when it happened!. It just hurt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If it is worrying u so much, go to a doc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
aw dont worry about it!. its seriously not a big deal!. and it mite not break but if it covers almost the whole thing it will prob!. b broken if he does it hard enoughf!. and it dosnt hurt that badd!. it feels like a pinch kinda and it will not bleed alot at all!. so dont worry about it=) and you shold tell him to that your hymen didnt break yetWww@Answer-Health@Com
time changes from woman to woman!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well actually you really don't know if it hasn't brokin or not, it can break from many thing that you wouldn't even be aware of!. Of course it hurts when you have sex for the first time!. Maybe you should try and save it a little longer, I'm not sure how old you are but if you don't know what to do then I'm pretty sure you don't need to be having sex! Its really something special, you should try and save it for the man you plan to marry! Oh and alot of women don't bleed, I didn't and noone I know did either! What ever you do be sure you get on birth control and use condoms, Id hate to see you in the pregnancy section two months from now!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can have your OBGYN pop your hymen for you if you want too have it broken before you do whatever with your boyfriend!. It's painful for some, pain-free for others, some claim it doesn't hurt one bit and others claim it was painful for them, everyone's different!. Once again, it bleeds for some people, and other people don't have a drop of blood; everyone's different!. Good luck & just relax and don't worry about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you have ever rode a bike, horse riding, swimming or gymnastics it will already have been broken!. If you think it covers the opening almost completely I would see a doctor as you should not be able to see it unless you do an internal examination - have you ever used Tampax!. It will not hurt and unlikely to bleed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
As a matter of fact, if you're the athletic type, it may have broken already and you may not have felt it!. let him be genlte and then "pop" it at once!. It will feel like a prick of a needle and it's over!.Www@Answer-Health@Com