Ladies? question about the pill and sex?!
Question: Ladies!? question about the pill and sex!?
hi!.!.!. iv bin with my boyfriend for over a year and iv bin on the contraceptive pill for the last few months and its really suiting me!. im never late taking it and iv never skipped a day!.!.!. but i still feel the need to use a condom as im adamant on protecting myself from pregnancy!. but the only problem is i get dry really quickly wen we do use condoms and wen we dnt, everythings hunky dory (i make sure he pulls out tho, im a bit paranoid!)!.!.!. do u think i need to use a condom for extra protection even tho im on the pill!? and if so wy do u think i get dry quickly wen we do use one!? could it be the type of condom!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I can totally relate- the same thing hapened to me!. I was so cautious and even though I was on the pill, I still made my boyfriend wear a condom (we're now married and trying for a baby)!. Being on the pill isn't 100% protection, so we always felt the need to use condoms as well as the pill!.
This really really worked for us!.!.!.!. we would have sex, and a few moments before he would orgasm, he would pull out and put a condom on, and then we would finish!. This really worked for us, and the chances of you becoming pregnant from the pre *** is really low because you're on the pill!. By doing this you not only prolong sex, but it allows you to stay wet!. It also minimises the mess!.
Speak to your boyfriend about it, and see if you can come to a decision that suits you both, but in the end, you're the one whose risking becoming pregnant, so make sure you take that into consideration!.
Good luck, and have fun!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
This really really worked for us!.!.!.!. we would have sex, and a few moments before he would orgasm, he would pull out and put a condom on, and then we would finish!. This really worked for us, and the chances of you becoming pregnant from the pre *** is really low because you're on the pill!. By doing this you not only prolong sex, but it allows you to stay wet!. It also minimises the mess!.
Speak to your boyfriend about it, and see if you can come to a decision that suits you both, but in the end, you're the one whose risking becoming pregnant, so make sure you take that into consideration!.
Good luck, and have fun!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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good for you to use condoms and the pill! now thats really taking care of yourself!. i know that condoms sometimes can dry someone out and that the pill can do the same (ive experienced it but i 'grew' out of it)!. i would suggest getting a condom safe lube!.!.!. eros is great! lube can prevent irritation (from dryness) that can lead to things like a yeast infection!. also, bring it up to your gynecologist next time, she/he might change your dosage or find out a better way to help you!. best of luck to you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is no rule that if you are on the pill you shouldnt use condoms!. Smart thinking to use extra protection!. If getting dry is a problem, you can use a water-based lubricant with it, and that should solve the issue!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have heard of countless women who have gotten pregnant on the pill!. I would definately be using a backup plan!.
You could try some personal lubricant with the condoms!. I tend to get dry myself when using them too!.
Another suggestion is to try polyurethane condoms as long as you are sure your bf has no STDs and you are monogamous!. They feel better for the both of you!.
You could also grab the book "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" and get educated on your body's cycles!. That book is great if you are intested in such things!.
There are other options too but I haven't tried them myself to recommend: Cervical cap, diaphram, female condomWww@Answer-Health@Com
You could try some personal lubricant with the condoms!. I tend to get dry myself when using them too!.
Another suggestion is to try polyurethane condoms as long as you are sure your bf has no STDs and you are monogamous!. They feel better for the both of you!.
You could also grab the book "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" and get educated on your body's cycles!. That book is great if you are intested in such things!.
There are other options too but I haven't tried them myself to recommend: Cervical cap, diaphram, female condomWww@Answer-Health@Com
I'm literally in the EXACT same position!. It's far better without the condom because i swear they just suck up all the moisture from down there, but i'm too paranoid not to use them!. The only thing ifound to help was using lube, but we hate it because a) it throws the mood so to speak aswell as using condoms, pill etc, seems like too much hassel just for a bit of fun and b) we think it's too goey etc!. It's a common complaint with condoms i'm afraid!. Maybe change your pill so you have more discharge!. I've changed mine so i get loads and loads more (well it's the same as natural but the pill tends to dry me up by itself) which should help, can't say how useful it is though because we can't see each other for another 4 months :(!.
I need to keep an eye on this post though for moi!. Thanks!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I need to keep an eye on this post though for moi!. Thanks!Www@Answer-Health@Com
the pill is 99!.7% effective, stop being paranoid and use a good lube like astroglide!
polyurethane condoms DO NOT feel better, they don't stretch near as well, they are ONLY for people allergic to latex!. Obviously SOMEONE doesn't know WTF they are talking about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
polyurethane condoms DO NOT feel better, they don't stretch near as well, they are ONLY for people allergic to latex!. Obviously SOMEONE doesn't know WTF they are talking about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
trust me, if you take it correctly and when your meant to, its more then 99% effective but make sure you read the instruction like if your sick or have diarrhoea you have to wait a week for the pill to work!.
i was like that, ive been on it a few months now and had sex, im still abit paranoid, i take it every day at the same time and when i was sick i made sure i waited a week, but after some time you will be more reasured when you get your period!.
im sure your paraniona will go away after a while!. and your probably dry cause your worries, i normally get more wet as i dont like condoms, just relax!.
but if you cant go to the doctors as there is other very effective contraceptives that work well!.
hope ive helped
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p!.s you can still get pregnant from the pre-come!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i was like that, ive been on it a few months now and had sex, im still abit paranoid, i take it every day at the same time and when i was sick i made sure i waited a week, but after some time you will be more reasured when you get your period!.
im sure your paraniona will go away after a while!. and your probably dry cause your worries, i normally get more wet as i dont like condoms, just relax!.
but if you cant go to the doctors as there is other very effective contraceptives that work well!.
hope ive helped
x
p!.s you can still get pregnant from the pre-come!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would say use condoms and the pill just buy some condom friendly lubricant to stop the dry-ness!.Www@Answer-Health@Com