I am 15 my boy friend want to have sex , I am afried due to pain and pregnency t!


Question: I am 15 my boy friend want to have sex , I am afried due to pain and pregnency then how to go about!?
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You are young and dont let this boy take your beauty and innocence away!. He is young too most likely and at that age all guys are immature and they just want to fit in and feel like their accepted among their male friends so hes bound to tell people about it and it will ruin your rep for sure!. I am 20 and i would give anything to go back and not have sex with the guy that i thought i was seriously in love with!. No one likes a slut! they will call you names and stuff in school!. Besides he and other guys will like you much more if you dont have sex with them because your hard to get and you respect yourself!. honesty you should not be worrying bout sex right now you should be worrying bout your schoolwork!. believe me i made those mistakes and dropped out of school and everything!. i did go back and get my diploma but i didnt get to graduate with my friends or anything!.!.!.it was all a blur back than but now its really sad!. luckily i never got pregnant like 7 of my close friends in highschool!. Dont do it if you dont want to!. And if you do always always wear protection!. Under NO CIRCUMSTANCES will there not be a condom!. GoodluckWww@Answer-Health@Com

just do it, pain is pleasureWww@Answer-Health@Com

Whatever you do DON'T DO IT if you are feeling pressured!. It's not worth the risks!. You are still very young and are not ready to take on the responsibilities of what it may intale!. You need to really sit and talk to him, if he can't understand how you feel then leave him!. If he cares about you he will stop buggin about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't do it until you're completely ready, and make sure you love him and he loves you!. If you tell him you aren't ready, he will understand if he loves you at all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would make sure your 100 percent ready!. Sex feels good yes and it can be a little painful at first!. I would wait it out!. SEx is drama!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

then obviously your not ready, theres alot to consider, how long have u been with ur boyfriend and how old is her!?
you are a little young for sex and if i were you i'd be saving it for a better time, you know your ready for sex when your not scared at all, get regulated on the pill and also use condoms!. sex is fun and it should be fun not scary!.!.!.my advice is wait but overall its your decision, xoxoWww@Answer-Health@Com

Both those things are easily dealt with!. You can't avoid the pain, the first time always hurts a little but it's not that bad!. Make sure you are really into it because it will be easier for him to enter you!. I also heard that if you put a pillow under your butt (in missionary position) it makes it better for you!. And if your bf wears a condom you should be safe from pregnancy (if it breaks you can get the morning after pill)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

15 and sex!.!. what do you want me to say!?

it's normal in some country, it's not in some too!.

anyway!.!. if eventually you choose to have sex, play a safe one, okay!? you don't want end up with regrets, do you!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

dont be a fool!.!.!. save yourself for your husband!.!.!. and dont listen to the other idiots who say to go ahead and take that first step!.!.!. let me tell you it's a doozy!.!.!. your not up to this yet!.!.!. and if you go ahead and do it then asking this question will be pure folly!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Dont do it!. If you're feeling pressured that means you're not ready!. Give yourself time until you feel more confident about it!. If your bf really likes you than he'll have patience!. Just wait, sooner or later you'll find that waiting is better than starting things off badly!. If you don't want to listen to good advice, then just get protection!. They sell it in any store around the corner!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you are in the UK it is illegal to have intercourse before the age of 16 and your boyfriend could be prosecuted for this!. Also don't be in such a hurry to jump into bed with him at 15years of age it is probably a relationship that won't last and boys being boys if you sleep with him he will tell his mates and before you know it you will have a reputation!. Also before you think of having sex you must get yourself some contraception go along to the local Family Planning clinic this is a free confidential service and much better than an unwanted pregnancy which often leads to abortion!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The best thing to do is wait until you really want to have sex and it doesn't need to be anytime soon!. Losing your virginity is a much nicer experience when you feel you are more comfortable with your body, the person you are with and the actual act of having sex doesn't seem like such a questionable experience!. I'm 24 and I didn't have sex until I was almost 19 years old!. And I'm so happy I waited!. Having your sweet innocence still, when you are older is a very respectable feeling!. I never let anyone I was dating in highschool pressure me into having sex with them, nor was I ever afraid of them leaving me!. Because it's highschool, and if one boy doesn't make me happy and he doesn't think I'm making him happy!. Well, there's always another highschol boy!. :c) Making out is a lot more fun anyway, you won't get kissed like then when he's trying to figure out how to have sex!.

:D hope everything works out for yaWww@Answer-Health@Com

If you are worried about pain and pregnancy then you shouldn't have sex yet because you are still very young, one day when you are not so worried about these things then maybe you can try it, you will know when you are ready!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

No one can stop you from having sex with your bf!. Only yourself can say "YES" or "NO"!. Ask yourself "Are you Ready for Sex!?", "What's the implication or risk when engaging in pre marital sex!?"

Judging from your statement saying that you are afraid of pain and also pregnancy, I can say that you don't really understand the meaning of having sex!. In other words, you are not ready yet!. So why you want to have sex when you don't even know how to prevent pregnancy!? There's sure some pain when you engaged in your first sex encounter!. It's unavoidable!. If you worry about being pregnant then don't engaged in any sex until you are aware of the responsibility and consequences of having pre marital sex!. Sex is not a game remember that!. It involves emotions, responsibility and consequences!. At your age are your ready to shoulder it!?

My friendly advice to you is be patience and have more knowledge about sex before engaging in sex!. It's best to have the knowledge first rather than having it from your mistakes!. You decide!.

Good luck and be wise!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you are afraid of the pain, you aren't ready to have sex!. Get on birth control or use condoms!.

The first time can be painful when the hymen breaks upon penetration!. There can also be some blood!. Not all girls bleed and not all have pain!. I never bled but there was a lot of pain!.

For some, the first few times might make you feel sore, as it's been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubricated, or if the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready!.

Relaxing, foreplay, (oral sex, more foreplay



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