I'm a Virgin and.....?!
Question: I'm a Virgin and!.!.!.!.!.!?
I've been with my boyfriend for one year and 3 months!. And we haven't had sex yet!. We r both virgins!. We both want to take it a step further and have sex, but the only thing is, that I'm too scared!. I think it might hurt REALLY BAD! And I'm scared!.!.!.!.so does anyone (particularly females) have any advice at what I might expect!? Or if I'm over reacting!? ThxWww@Answer-Health@Com
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not to scare u but it hurts like hell!.!.!.when i lost mind i didnt imagine that it wld hurt as bad as it did!.!.!.the way i lost mine was the guy was sitting down an i was straddling him on top!. that way he cld push into me an when it hurt really bad i cld pull up!.!.an then we wld go back at it!.!.!.it took a wile for the guy to get inside me!.!.!.but just imagining i think that wld b the easiest way to do it so that ur tech!. in control on account u ahve all the pain in it!. so if i were u thats how i wld do it!.
and the hurting thing!.!.i hope this doesnt scare u away from doin it!.!.!.cuz it is really good when u love the person!.
also it will still hurt the next few times u do it!. and even still blead the next time u do it!.
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and the hurting thing!.!.i hope this doesnt scare u away from doin it!.!.!.cuz it is really good when u love the person!.
also it will still hurt the next few times u do it!. and even still blead the next time u do it!.
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If you're not ready, then you're not ready!. Use some one-fingered gloves when you do it, though!. Thanks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you second think it, you're not ready!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well u might not be ready if your worried about the pain but if your going to go through it let him finger you first!. it helped me alot wen i lost my virginity a month ago!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
get married before u have sex or otherwise, ur screwed with your parents if they find out if u pregnant!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are not ready yet!.!.!.!.!.!.wait you will know when the time is right :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
you could use lube!.!.!. that would help!. just make sure he goes slow at first!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you're scared don't do it!. When you're ready it will just come!. I personally think people should just wait until they're married!. Only because your virginity is the best gift you can give to that special man!. It's something that you'll never be able to get back once you lose it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I say good for your guys!. I think it is great that you are both still virgins!. I would continue waiting if you feel uncomfortable about it!. Yes it does hurt and is very uncomfortable which is why you should wait until you know he is the oneWww@Answer-Health@Com
It is very scary, only do it when you are ready!.
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Depending on him it is going to hurt!. No way around it!. Use protection, some lube, and relax!. You will get use to it and it will get great it just takes timeWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well I think that it is way to early to be habing sex!. You may break up and then your viginity will be wasted on some guy!. If your gonna do it, do it with a husband!.
P!.S!. It does hurt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
P!.S!. It does hurt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No, of course your not over reacting it's your first time and on your first time you always over react!. But trust me it doesn't hurt it feels good, think about it, it must feel good if people are always doing it and guys are obsessed over it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes it does hurt, quite badly the first few times!. But after a while is goes away and it was worth the initial discomfort!. Don't rush anything if you don't feel ready yet!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well how old r u first of all and if i were you i would not because you could get aids if you have sex with anyone else after him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it would really help to know how old you are , but if it is right it will be worth the wait and the minor discomfortWww@Answer-Health@Com
I can clearly tell (from what you've written) that you are not ready, I f I were you I'd think about it some more and make your decision a little later!. If he cares for you, believe me, he will eat!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 8 months and we almost had sex last time i was at his house but i was a lil nervous!. your not over reacting, alot of girls are like us!.!. just take your time!. i heard the first time hurts but after that its cool!. we've done other stuff so i dont think it will hurt much for mee!. maybe just get the first one over with!.
whatever you do, do it because you want to, not because your pressured into it!. sex is a big step!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
whatever you do, do it because you want to, not because your pressured into it!. sex is a big step!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First tip is to relax (Easier said than done) Make sure you are 100% ready!. Each persons '1st time' is different!. Personally for me I didn't find it a painful experience!. Practice makes perfect, don't expect it to be magical and amazing, because it may not be!. It will however be a special moment so don't rush into anything!. And just for good measure always practice safe sex!. You'll be fine! xWww@Answer-Health@Com
This is a difficult question to answer without knowing your age!. If you are under 18 years it will hurt REALLY, REALLY BAD!. If you are over 18 it will hurt less if you are relaxed, in love and ready!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you have to do it when your ready and if your not sure about it then maybe you should wait a little bit longer!.!.!.!.sometimes it hurts alot and sometimes it doesnt!. it all depends on the person so if your really ready you would be able to tellWww@Answer-Health@Com
its quite painful
it will hurt probably the first 10 time u have sex
bt i was really numbWww@Answer-Health@Com
it will hurt probably the first 10 time u have sex
bt i was really numbWww@Answer-Health@Com
k i kno this sounds really gross and it kinda is, but take little things and work you way up to it and when u r ready, make sure u "warm up" have fun!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to be sure you bf knows that your first time you guys might not even have full sex!. Get lots of lube, a lubed condom may help, and make sure the lube you get is compatable with condoms!. I recommend Astroglide!. You may also want to think about getting on birth control before having sex just to prevent any condom leaks!. Condoms CAN and DO leak EVEN IF THEY DON'T BREAK!!! You need to go slow and start with lots of foreplay, oral sex, etc!. Then after you are very turned on try intercourse, but usually you being on top is best so you can control how deep he goes!. You may not even be able to go all they way the first time or two!. You might want to even start with fingering!. Try 1 then 2 then 3 and so on!. This will help stretch you some!. Just so you know!. Full intercourse is not what is most pleasureable to a woman anyways!. Mostly, oral sex is!. There is no reason for you to jump into having full blown intercourse!. Also, be sure you guys really love each other and are devoted to each other!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When you are ready, and not before, go slow and take your time!. Have him start with his fingers, one, then two, to get you used to it!. When he uses his penis it may hurt a little your first time, especially if his is very large!. If it hurts at all the pain won't be bad, and it won't last long!. If it hurts too much, make him stop!. You can also experiment with vibrators so that you can get used to it!. Lubrication can also be very helpful!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you are not ready!.!.!. then DO NOT do it!. you will just regret it!. your first time needs to be very special!. and of you do choose to have sex make sure you are on birth control AND wear a condom!.!.!.!. i got pregnant when i turned 16 and trust me it was the hardest thing i have ever done!!!!
oh yeah if you do not know about birth control its really easy to get!.!.!.!. and your parents do not have to know!.!.!.!. just go to a clinic or your doctor and they will give it to you for free!!! it is against the law to tell your parents!.!.!.!.!. so make sure you get it BEFORE you have sex!.!.!. :)
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oh yeah if you do not know about birth control its really easy to get!.!.!.!. and your parents do not have to know!.!.!.!. just go to a clinic or your doctor and they will give it to you for free!!! it is against the law to tell your parents!.!.!.!.!. so make sure you get it BEFORE you have sex!.!.!. :)
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Don't do it!!! I seriously regret it now that my mom found out! Even though he's still with me I'm afraid he'll leave me, because I wanted him to be my first and only!. So don't!.!.!. And yes! IT HURTS BAD!!! Even the second time and the third!.!.!. Be safe if you are going to but you might be allergic to latex so!.!.!. Yeah there's a lot of things to worry about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Honestly, if you have to second guess yourself then you are not ready!. To answer your question, it does not hurt, i will assure you that the feeling will be weird for you seeing it will be your first time!. Be cautious though, since yo are a virgin you might bleed!. Ever heard of "pop your cherry"!? It doesn't affect all girls, but just be cautious!. You don't want blood everywhere!. And if it his first time as well he is just as clueless as you are! Don't think about just go with the flow!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's hard!. And disgusting!. And it might break his penis!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Expect lots of pain and agony!. It'll be the worst day of your life!. And even if you're a virgin, expect to get AIDS!.
Have a nice day!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have a nice day!Www@Answer-Health@Com