How do I reach her?!
Question: How do I reach her!?
My daughter who is 11 and a half years old is getting very rebellious and mean!. She does terrible things!. She pooped in her room and when i asked her why she did something like that she says she doesn't know why!. She attacks kids in school, spits on them and is very disrespectful to authority figures in her school!. She is mildly mentally retarded!. She started her period in September of last year and her behavior back then wasn't anything compared to what's going on with her now!. I have tried spanking, time out, taking priviliges away!. Nothing seems to work with her! I work all the time and barely have a day off, but when i do i spend time with her, and talk with her to see if she will open up t me!. I think she's crying out for help but i don't know how to reach out to her!. What can I do!? Serious answers please! Thanks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Let's see, I used to work with people in similar situations!. Maybe could you stop working!? She needs you!. I was taught to not pay her any attention when she acts like that at home!. Make sure she's in a safe environment though and let her take her actions out!. If she's like this at school, you will have to take her out bring her home and ignore (don't give her attention)!. However, if she does something good!. Praise her!. Really and truly, you need to be around for her!. Believe me you don't want her where I was working!. The other people might treat her mean and hurt her, but also the workers might/will too!. You are going to be her biggest help!. Patient, Patient And Patient is all you can be and all she needs!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
call super nanny and im not joking send her to disapline classesWww@Answer-Health@Com
1!. DO NOT spank her, time-out, take away privleges!. You have to explain to her what she is doing wrong and why it's wrong!. If she is mentally retarded, she requires a lot of your time and understanding!.
2!. Talk to her!. Ask her questions about herself and let her open up!. Ask her why she gets angry, why she hurts others, just ask her how she feels at the time and don't get angry at her!. Tell her it's good to feel those feelings but she has to learn to control them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
2!. Talk to her!. Ask her questions about herself and let her open up!. Ask her why she gets angry, why she hurts others, just ask her how she feels at the time and don't get angry at her!. Tell her it's good to feel those feelings but she has to learn to control them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you need to get her some counseling!. If you can't afford it there are programs you can look into!. If that is not at all possible try getting another adult to spend time with her ans see if she will open up to them!. Sometimes kids just don't feel that they can talk to their parents bringing in another adult may be beneficial!. Good luck to you and your daughter!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all probably dont spank her like i say if u have had your period or older than 8 you are to old for spankins!. Maybe she feels violated or if u have family problems dont let them wiegh her down and let her know she can talk to u about anything just as if u were a friend!. however i feel for you a 11 year old pooping in their room!. Tell her also she cant get away wit this mention the value/meaning of period like being mature good luckl!Www@Answer-Health@Com
much better to consult a doctor!. I think her level of understanding will be assess first and they will explain to you your necessary intervention for your kid!.Www@Answer-Health@Com