Is it me or is my husband playing around?!
Question: Is it me or is my husband playing around!?
I've been noticeing when we have sex its takes him a long time to ejaculate & sometimes he hardly gets it in & its over with a lot of seman & i'm left "holding the bag"(nothing for me)!.Why is this,is he messing around & using up his seman or just that I dont turn him on!?I'm afraid to ask him!.And he continually wants to have anal sex but the last time it kinda hurt & i;m wondering if this is natural or is it classified as sodomy!?We have been married 12 years & everything else seems normal but i'd like to get some answers on this before it causes us any problems!.I'm kinda uneducated about all this because its always been taboo around the household!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
it maybe that he is interested in trying different things but to afraid to ask you!. sodomy is more a legal term these days, but it is anal and oral sex see http://en!.wikipedia!.org/wiki/Sodomy
maybe you should try talking to your husband about what he wants and what you want and you may find it makes things much better!. As for natural, sex is natural its nothing to be embarrassed about and there is no rule book, whatever your both comfortable with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe you should try talking to your husband about what he wants and what you want and you may find it makes things much better!. As for natural, sex is natural its nothing to be embarrassed about and there is no rule book, whatever your both comfortable with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It may be that you are not having it enough, and he may be masturbating to releive the tension!. He may be too scared to ask you for more!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I agree with the first answer & would like to add that you may want to bring more fun into the bedroom!.
Men don't always respond sexually in the same way every time they have sex!.
It's the same as with women, just because you take a long time to orgasm that doesn't mean you were off boinking someone else!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Men don't always respond sexually in the same way every time they have sex!.
It's the same as with women, just because you take a long time to orgasm that doesn't mean you were off boinking someone else!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't know what to think of this business of ANAL sex!. Sometimes I think men are bi-sexual and feel if they have sex with their female partner (anally) then it means they are not gay, but I have to wonder, especially if they prefer it!.
If you don't like anal sex tell your partner no!. It's your body and if you don't like it tough for your partner!.
If he's cheating, well he's cheating!. Not much you can do about it!. If he's suddenly "changed" after all these years (his sexual habits) then something has spurred the change!. Either he is watching porn and that is deviating his sexual preferences or he has perhaps had an affair (with a male or female) which has changed him!.
If you want to know ASK HIM and tell him how you feel!. He will either fess up or back off and get it somewhere else!.
If he is cheating do you still want him!? I know I wouldn't!.
If you're not into that kind of sex, you'll end up hating it and faking it and resenting him and hating him!. So either way you lose right now!.
If it's just a matter of ejaculation too fast or too slow, many things can affect that in men so I wouldn't worry about that single fact but if you suspect something your instincts are usually right!.
Take your (sex) life back one way or the other!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you don't like anal sex tell your partner no!. It's your body and if you don't like it tough for your partner!.
If he's cheating, well he's cheating!. Not much you can do about it!. If he's suddenly "changed" after all these years (his sexual habits) then something has spurred the change!. Either he is watching porn and that is deviating his sexual preferences or he has perhaps had an affair (with a male or female) which has changed him!.
If you want to know ASK HIM and tell him how you feel!. He will either fess up or back off and get it somewhere else!.
If he is cheating do you still want him!? I know I wouldn't!.
If you're not into that kind of sex, you'll end up hating it and faking it and resenting him and hating him!. So either way you lose right now!.
If it's just a matter of ejaculation too fast or too slow, many things can affect that in men so I wouldn't worry about that single fact but if you suspect something your instincts are usually right!.
Take your (sex) life back one way or the other!Www@Answer-Health@Com