Sex while menstruating?!
Question: Sex while menstruating!?
I get really bad cramps during that time of the month and i don't want to do anything, let alone have sex!. My girlfriend insists that we do it and it literally makes me ill!. It's painful and it's disgusting!. I think i'm having psychological problems with the thought of getting my period and then having sex, however she doesn't understand that i find penetration painful when i'm on!. Is there anything which i can take!? please reply - i feel as though i'm going madWww@Answer-Health@Com
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I'm sorry, but it sounds as though your girlfriend is forcing you to have sex when you quite obviously do not want it!. There's a word for forced sex!.!.!.
I think you should be thinking about getting away from someone so disrespectful and selfish that they would put you through the act of penetration when you have expressed your pain!.
At least 30% of women in same sex relationships have been subjected to lesbian rape!. Many of them go unreported as sometimes it entails coming out to family and friends, as well as disbelief by the authorities who deal with the case!. If you have been sexually abused then you need to get away!. You probably don't even realise that what she is doing is wrong, because you are so adament to please her!.
Believe me hon i am speaking from experience!. I was in an abusive same sex relationship also and i had to leave for my own sanity and life!. I'm a Muslim convert now and my life has never been better!. I'm not saying that you should give up your lesbian lifestyle at all - so please do not misunderstand me (i did what i had to do) , however take good care of yourself and find yourself another girl who seriously loves you and treats you better!.
Good Luck hon
Peace
xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
I think you should be thinking about getting away from someone so disrespectful and selfish that they would put you through the act of penetration when you have expressed your pain!.
At least 30% of women in same sex relationships have been subjected to lesbian rape!. Many of them go unreported as sometimes it entails coming out to family and friends, as well as disbelief by the authorities who deal with the case!. If you have been sexually abused then you need to get away!. You probably don't even realise that what she is doing is wrong, because you are so adament to please her!.
Believe me hon i am speaking from experience!. I was in an abusive same sex relationship also and i had to leave for my own sanity and life!. I'm a Muslim convert now and my life has never been better!. I'm not saying that you should give up your lesbian lifestyle at all - so please do not misunderstand me (i did what i had to do) , however take good care of yourself and find yourself another girl who seriously loves you and treats you better!.
Good Luck hon
Peace
xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
BELIEVE ME!.!.!. I know that we all occassionally do things for our loved ones that we'd rather not!. Sometimes we grin and bear things because we love them and want to give 'em want they want!.
Lots of folks have sex while on their period, but if you find it "painful and disgusting" then midol may alleviate the painful but, but you're still left w/ the psychological hangups on it being gross!.
I applaud you trying to endure things for your lover, but if she persists in having you do things that are painful and clearly unpleasant for you, then she's the one w/ the prob!.!.!. not you!.
What you need to do is find yourself a brand new, compassionate lover!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Lots of folks have sex while on their period, but if you find it "painful and disgusting" then midol may alleviate the painful but, but you're still left w/ the psychological hangups on it being gross!.
I applaud you trying to endure things for your lover, but if she persists in having you do things that are painful and clearly unpleasant for you, then she's the one w/ the prob!.!.!. not you!.
What you need to do is find yourself a brand new, compassionate lover!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
normal to feel this way actually!. many women dont want sex during their period!. many women also find it uncomfortable or painful due to the hormone irregularties that are occuring!.
best thing to do is talk to your doctor or ob/gyn about this!. talk to your doctor first, suggest birth control as many women use this to make their periods lighter and easior to handle while being ready if you have a sex crazed boyfriend or husband!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
best thing to do is talk to your doctor or ob/gyn about this!. talk to your doctor first, suggest birth control as many women use this to make their periods lighter and easior to handle while being ready if you have a sex crazed boyfriend or husband!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
obviously shes a ******* girl if she has her period!.
anyway, its completely normal!. i actually think its strange your girlfriend wants to have sex during your period, my boyfriend and i did once, and we both thought it was gross!. but everyones different!. but she should respect your choice not to have sex when you dont want to!. if shes pressuring you into it you should tell her how you feel!. maybe you can do like mutual masturbation or something!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
anyway, its completely normal!. i actually think its strange your girlfriend wants to have sex during your period, my boyfriend and i did once, and we both thought it was gross!. but everyones different!. but she should respect your choice not to have sex when you dont want to!. if shes pressuring you into it you should tell her how you feel!. maybe you can do like mutual masturbation or something!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ummm well you would think your partner being a girl would understand how you feel cause she has monthly curses too!. Maybe you could just tell her you will satisfiy her needs and she can make yours up after your over your period!. and if she still insists on you to be involved fully then you need to find a different girlfriend cause she doesnt really care for you if she is forcing you to do something you don't want to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If YOU have an issue with it, then YOU don't have to do it!. It IS a free country after all, and you do NOT have to do anything with YOUR body that YOU are opposed to!.
If your girlfriend insists then she really does NOT care for you at all and is being exceptionally selfish!. Next time she gets uppity about it, just walk out and don't look back!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If your girlfriend insists then she really does NOT care for you at all and is being exceptionally selfish!. Next time she gets uppity about it, just walk out and don't look back!Www@Answer-Health@Com
wait r u gay or somthing because ur picture is a girl and you have a girlfriend any way might want to include that uh well you need to tell her sex isnt worth doing it if it's gonna make me feel uncomfortable i won't have fun and you'll just sit there trying to knock me up but it won't workWww@Answer-Health@Com
so your a lesbian!.!
its up to you whether you do it or not!.
penetration should not be painful,even whilst menstruating!. Sounds like your issue is 'sex while having monthly cycle!? hmmm!.
If you dont wanna do it, dont!.!.!.!.!.
Your partner needs to respect that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
its up to you whether you do it or not!.
penetration should not be painful,even whilst menstruating!. Sounds like your issue is 'sex while having monthly cycle!? hmmm!.
If you dont wanna do it, dont!.!.!.!.!.
Your partner needs to respect that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
just tell your girl friend!. it a no no!. you should do nothing that your uncomfortable with!. and you need to sit down and sort the problem out!. good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
try links OK i a man but got 5 daughters
http://www!.menstrual-cycle!.info/!.!.!.
http://teenadvice!.about!.com/od/factsheet!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
http://www!.menstrual-cycle!.info/!.!.!.
http://teenadvice!.about!.com/od/factsheet!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just don't have sex while you're on your period :/ Simple as, it's not very pleasant and you clearly don't enjoy itWww@Answer-Health@Com
You can grow a backbone and tell your girlfriend "NO"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Thats very normal, just say No!.Www@Answer-Health@Com