Masturbating/Sex question?!


Question: Masturbating/Sex question!?
Ok so whenever i do either after wards im completely turned off and im just DONE!. I dont want anyone touching me or anything!. I do mind if me and my boyfriend just lay there but I just get almost closterphobic!. Is this normal or does this happen to anyone else!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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i have heard this from a lot of friends!. i guess it really depends on a lot of things!. first, are you really in love!? i know that's a horrible thing, but sex is connected to love (unless you're like samantha from sex and the city!lol!) you know what i mean, it's physical and emotional!.
second, it could be psychological!. you have to ask yourself how you really feel about sex or orgasms!. and about your partner!. maybe even ask yourself about how you feel about yourself!.
i don't think there's anything wrong with you or this situation, just trying to tell you some reasons as to why it's happening!. if you and your boyfriend are ok with this, then he's a keeper! otherwise, talk it over, you'll figure it out!. good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm always sweaty and hot after sex and my husband and I give each other a nice kiss and say I love you and just lay there holding hands!. When we were first together about 10 years ago, we would lay cuddled up for a while, but as the years went by and we got more comfortable with each other, there weren't any hard feelings or obligations to cuddle afterward!.

I think this is fine as long as your boyfriend or partner isn't left feeling used or unwanted afterwards!. Even just holding hands or crossing your legs over each others can add a little closeness without actually having to be draped over each other!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

theres nothing wierd about that!. i do the same thing!. and by the way, based on one of the other posters answers!. i am very in love with my boyfriend and we are comfortable with eachother!. i think its a natural instinct kind of thing, i mean, in nature when yorue done with your mate, why would you want to keep them around, your sex drive is gone and theres no more need to be lovey dovey, so its nice to have them there but you dont want to touch!.
least, thats my take on itWww@Answer-Health@Com

I don't know if this is what you mean!.!.!.!.!.but yeah when I'm "done" i'm like oh my god don't touch me!. Like everything just feels so sensitive and i just dont' want to be touched at all, like I need to wait til my nerve endings aren't so sensitive!?
Maybe you're talking about something different!.!.!.!.lol but I don't think its abnormal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well you might feel guilty LOL or you may have thoughts in your mind that are disturbing you!. next time, try thinking of sexual and erotic things afterwards and just see if it helps:D good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

well i think that you probaly dont like havin sex or your just doin things with the wrong person and you get cranky easily rite well anyways if you wanna chat just rite back !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You should just relax afterwards and "play" with whatever you have a little more!.!.!. just relax and take it easy!.!.!. ;-)Www@Answer-Health@Com

2 point for me sure yea it normallWww@Answer-Health@Com

there is nothing wrong with that, once you get yours!.!.!.its over, that is usually the way guys are right!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com





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