Ok...embarrasing and bit inapropriate....so...over 18's please!?!


Question: Ok!.!.!.embarrasing and bit inapropriate!.!.!.!.so!.!.!.over 18's please!!?
i'm not a teenager so no sarcastic or rude comments please!. ok!.!.!.me and my partner have been having some troubles in the bedroom area!. in an attempt to get things started, everything is well!. but when push comes to shove!.!.!.mind the pun!. his penis keeps on slipping out (im not speaking about the condom)!. how can we keep the process going!.!.!.(any advice)!. suspecting it might be due to the lube condoms (unfortunately!.!.!.we cant dispense of them)!. any other advise would be appreciated!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Has it always been like this, or did these problems just start!? If it's always been like this, it might be an issue of you two just not aligning quite right in the positions you've tried!. If this is the case, be creative and try some others!. Also, try some different condoms -- it might be that they are TOO lubed!. Maybe you can get some unlubed version and use your own lube so that you can determine how much is needed!. If you do this, though, check the boxes closely because some lubes are not good to use with condoms and can cause breakage!.
If this is a new problem, it might be that he's not getting hard before penetration!. Could this be the case!? Is he having a hard time getting it up!? In that case, it is very common to have it slip out!. If this is the case, work on stimulating him more before he enters and take it slow -- don't go for penetration until he's fully erect!. On the other hand, if this happens at the end of sex, after he's had his orgasm, then it could be that his penis is going down too fast!. In that case, it's very common for it to slip out!. If he comes really fast and then goes limp before you're done, have him try penetrating earlier!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you are talking about changing positions, take it really slow!. Learn which way to roll, or how to move together!. My husband and I have mastered going from position to position without him coming out!. It takes practice but it's totally worth it!.

If you are talking more about just intercourse, again take it slow and tell him to find the point of where he may be coming out and train him not to go past it!. It may not be "fun" sex at first, but getting over little hurdles like these are so worth it!

also, there is no such thing as too much lube! :o)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ride on top of him, maybe with him sitting up and your legs round his waist or let him take you from behind 'doggy-style' with you kneeling on all fours, maybe with your head down!. This does help if he's a bit shorter!.
Check out 'A girl's guide to 21st century sex' 11pm on Channel 5, Thursdays, it's really informative!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it doesnt sound like he is packing much down there!.!.!.srry its true!.!.!.but no matter how much he packs he should try to stablize himself in a position that he tries to keep as much of him in u!.!.!.i used condoms before with lube and me and my bf NEVER had a problem!. i think both of u need to experiment more with it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm 18!. & I don't think my boyfriend has ever fallen out!. So i don't think its normal!. It may be something he's doing, (maybe going too hard!?), try ribbed or rippled condoms!.
my next suggestion is one for guys with smaller tools then others!.!. try putting a pillow under your hips so they are a little higher then the rest of you!. that should make two things: him go in deeper and him not come out (hopefully)!.
Hope this helps!

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your position could be a big factor!. If you are doing it missionary and it slips out, try doggie or even better try scissor style!. That will ensure your parts are as close as they can!. You can always put your hand down there and guide it plus it adds an extra long canal!. EnjoyWww@Answer-Health@Com

You could try a differnt sexual position!. I have had the problem before!. To solve it we tried man on top, with deeper penatration!. It helps and is wonderful for the most part!. Sometimes if you do it slower it helps too!Www@Answer-Health@Com

you can get on birth control!. and also try new postions!. and you can go on top if that helps!. and you can aslo tell him to not go as highWww@Answer-Health@Com

I'm guessing he has a small penis!. Just tell him not to pull out so far!. The problem is technique!. I guess you two will just have to practice to get it right more!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Try the woman on top, that may give you a little more control and less pressure on him!.!.!.relax, it shouldn't be the condoms!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I agree with Mary D!. My bf doesn't have the largest penis in the world so that happens to us often!.

To Nikki-- WTH does birth control have to do with this!?!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't know (sorry!!) but why exactly is this embarrassing and inappropriate!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hey, you're a step above me, so I can't offer any help!. But I wish you both the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think this is normal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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