How bad does it hurt the first time you do it?!
Question: How bad does it hurt the first time you do it!?
I'm really nervous and scared--Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It didn't hurt me one bit!.!.!.
Unfortunately she didn't feel a thing either!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Unfortunately she didn't feel a thing either!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When I lost my virginity, it wasnt painful, perhaps slightly uncomfortable, but not like the horror stories we hear!
But its important you are with the right person, that what made my experience better i think!. I had known the guy for a long time, and we had been dating a long time, so we were completelyat ease with each other!. Also he knew i was a virgin, so took things very slow and gently!.
I think if your partner knows you are a virgin, they will be the same!. He should respond to you, tell him if it hurts, and stop and try again!.
Maybe use lube, as you may be nervous, and so wont provide enough lubrication of your own!.
Spend plenty of time on foreplay to be relaxed and at ease with on another!.
Also, be clear about what protection you are using before start, so you both know its safe!.
If at any point it feels wrong, stop!. You can always try another time!
Dont be scared, if this is the right person,the right time and the right place, you will be fine! Have fun!Www@Answer-Health@Com
But its important you are with the right person, that what made my experience better i think!. I had known the guy for a long time, and we had been dating a long time, so we were completelyat ease with each other!. Also he knew i was a virgin, so took things very slow and gently!.
I think if your partner knows you are a virgin, they will be the same!. He should respond to you, tell him if it hurts, and stop and try again!.
Maybe use lube, as you may be nervous, and so wont provide enough lubrication of your own!.
Spend plenty of time on foreplay to be relaxed and at ease with on another!.
Also, be clear about what protection you are using before start, so you both know its safe!.
If at any point it feels wrong, stop!. You can always try another time!
Dont be scared, if this is the right person,the right time and the right place, you will be fine! Have fun!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I dont think that it necessarily hurts, I would just say that you will not enjoy it !
Having real sex, takes a lot of time, having an orgasm and really enjoying with your partner the act is not something that you will experience in a month or 2!.
With time you will know and understand what I am talking about!.
I do suggest you to do it with someone that loves you a lot and that you love too of course, please dont do it just because you are feeling pressured, you will regret it the rest of your life !
trust me!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Having real sex, takes a lot of time, having an orgasm and really enjoying with your partner the act is not something that you will experience in a month or 2!.
With time you will know and understand what I am talking about!.
I do suggest you to do it with someone that loves you a lot and that you love too of course, please dont do it just because you are feeling pressured, you will regret it the rest of your life !
trust me!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's natural to be nervous!.!.!.that's a big step in your life that you're considering, after all!. But when you've decided that it's time, the best thing you can do is remember that it's something that people have been doing since forever, and though there may be some pain, most of that comes from the fear you feel, and not the actual action you're about to take!. So, relax, and you've won half the battle!
And on top of that, remember that you've got the support of all your friends and contacts on Y!A, who'll be right behind you all the way, anticipating right there with you, and ready to applaud your bravery, and jump right in, too!.!.!.
!.!.!.with those thumbs-up!. You can do it, it'll be fine!.!.!.go ahead and post your first answer!Www@Answer-Health@Com
And on top of that, remember that you've got the support of all your friends and contacts on Y!A, who'll be right behind you all the way, anticipating right there with you, and ready to applaud your bravery, and jump right in, too!.!.!.
!.!.!.with those thumbs-up!. You can do it, it'll be fine!.!.!.go ahead and post your first answer!Www@Answer-Health@Com
My first time was with my boyfriend, and it was his first time also!. So there wasn't really an issue about who's needs are being met before another's!. Neither of us knew what we were doing at first, haha!. But just take it slow, make sure this person is who you WANT to lose it too, first!. And make sure you are positive they are going to take it slow and go with your comfort level!.
And it doesnt really hurt, its just uncomfortable!. Honestly, I didnt start to enjoy sex until like the 3-4 time I had it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And it doesnt really hurt, its just uncomfortable!. Honestly, I didnt start to enjoy sex until like the 3-4 time I had it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't remember it hurting at all actually!.
However, I was a young adult by then!.!. so it may be different as a teenager!.
EDIT: Huh, I got a thumbs down for saying it didn't hurt!.!. go figure!.
Also I was thinking!.!. if you use tampons or are very athletic!.!. you may have already broken the hym so you may not even bleed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
However, I was a young adult by then!.!. so it may be different as a teenager!.
EDIT: Huh, I got a thumbs down for saying it didn't hurt!.!. go figure!.
Also I was thinking!.!. if you use tampons or are very athletic!.!. you may have already broken the hym so you may not even bleed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok it hurts thats because your vagina is not open, it will hurt also for even up to the next three times you do it!. The penis, invading will cause it to stretch and hurt, because it is like forcing some thing in a small place!.!. so there will be pain!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
For me- It hurt like a *****!. It took about 20 minutes just for him to be all the way inside since we kept having to stop!. It's really nothing to be scared of though!. So long as your guy actually cares about you and how you feel, it's well-worth it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Its not as bad as everyone makes out chick,
i was really scared & nervous,
its a slight tingerly pain,
for me eneyways, everyones diffrent, just try 2 relax and go with it, tell your partner or whatever to take it easy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i was really scared & nervous,
its a slight tingerly pain,
for me eneyways, everyones diffrent, just try 2 relax and go with it, tell your partner or whatever to take it easy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I really hate to ask, but, do what exactly!?
Insulin injection!?
Home dentistry!?
Do it yourself appendectomy!?
Brain surgery!? No problem with that one!. Simply hit yourself over your own head with a large hammer!. When you hear a loud crack, your in!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Insulin injection!?
Home dentistry!?
Do it yourself appendectomy!?
Brain surgery!? No problem with that one!. Simply hit yourself over your own head with a large hammer!. When you hear a loud crack, your in!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, you may or may not agree depending on your views!. But I got drunk the first time I did it so that it would not hurt!. But if you think sex is sacred and you are saving yourself for marriage, then maybe you shouldnt listen to me!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have heard from my friends that it hurts really bad!. Only because your vaginal walls aren't stretched and when the guy puts his penis in, it stretches and hurts!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it doesnt hurt!.
im 14!.
i did it first wen i was 13!.
it didnt hurtt!.!.
it will onyl hurt A LITTLE if ur not h!.!.!.!.or!.!.!.ny
but if ur wet enough t feels good and doesnt hrut trust me take it from someone whos bee nthrew itWww@Answer-Health@Com
im 14!.
i did it first wen i was 13!.
it didnt hurtt!.!.
it will onyl hurt A LITTLE if ur not h!.!.!.!.or!.!.!.ny
but if ur wet enough t feels good and doesnt hrut trust me take it from someone whos bee nthrew itWww@Answer-Health@Com
Relax and don't be scared!.
It's different for everyone, because everyone has a different tolerance for pain!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's different for everyone, because everyone has a different tolerance for pain!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The first time it happened to me it hurt like a Mother !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!!
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You need to relax!. Best way to do so is with someone who can sympathize and take things slow, making sure that your needs are met before his are!.
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OMG! It hurts sooooooo bad! Don't do it!. Jesus says NO NO NO! Wait, what are we talking about!? Is this a question about sex!? In that case toughen up and take it like a man!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Idk, stabbing someone's eyes out or cutting off their limb must hurt but then again, I wouldnt know!.
Heh heh heh, sneaky sneaky!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Heh heh heh, sneaky sneaky!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have never been with a virgin so idk sorry! Maybe you should get on top and do all the work otherwise he might hurt you if he does all the work!Www@Answer-Health@Com
always lube your veggies before sucking them in!
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Yeh lube and relax!.
It depends on the person
It wasn't too bad for me
I would recommend you have some alcohol in you though
lol
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It depends on the person
It wasn't too bad for me
I would recommend you have some alcohol in you though
lol
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it only painful until your *** get numb from the bleeding!.
it will be very messyWww@Answer-Health@Com
it will be very messyWww@Answer-Health@Com
OMG I heard it hurts so bad you won't be able to hear for a week after it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The first time I had to watch the WB it hurt a lot!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Look, just yank it off and be done with it!.
We'll be in the cellar when you're finished!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
We'll be in the cellar when you're finished!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It depends, use lots of lube and relax!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Not if you do it right, didn't hurt me!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It didn't hurt at all until she tried to stick that pointy!.!.!.!.!.!.!.never mind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have no clue I'm a virgin and proud!Www@Answer-Health@Com
just relax you will be fine its worth itWww@Answer-Health@Com
i've never done it!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.well, this one time in prison!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com