How do you know when you ready?!


Question: How do you know when you ready!?
This is just after another question i posted earlier!. I'll summarise it!.!.!.don't enjoy sex, had it way to youn at age 14 and now in 18 and simply don't enjoy it!. Im not a lez and do like the guy im with now!.

If it is because im not ready then how do i know when i am!?!.!.!.is it one of those things you just know!?

I sound like such a 'silly little girl' type but still!. The next time i have sex i want to enjoy it other than feeling its something i just have to do!.

Or do some people never enjoy it!?
Again!.!.!.could it be was i did it when i was 14!?

Thanks in advanced!.!.!.this is something i cant talk about with mates or anyone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
you know you're ready when you stop wondering if you are!.!.!. when you look at the person you love and every single part of you wants to be with them!
it could take a very long time, but the important thing is not to rush it!. you can't enjoy sex until you are comfortable with having it!.
i believe that everyone can enjoy sex with the right partner, at the right time!. believe me, the wait will be worth it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you know when you know!. no one can tell you!.
it'll be completely spontaneous!.
if you're having sex now with someone and you're not enjoying it, then it could be because he just plain isn't good in bed!. try doing something new!.

either that, or just don't have sex!. why do something you don't even like!?
sex should never be a favor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I was 15 when I lost my virginity, and I still enjoy sex, and I'm almost 19!. It could just be you, and that's fine!. You shouldn't change for anyone, especially not a man!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You shouldn't of had sex at 14 then, maybe you were smaller back then and it caused some damage!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It might just be that you don't enjoy sex as much as some other people!. That's all you, and there's nothing wrong with it!.

Personally, I think being ready has nothing to do with that mushy-gushy love stuff!. Definitely it helps to be emotionally invested in the person you're having sex with, you need to trust them to take care of you and care about them enough to take care of them!. But I think being "ready" for sex is being responsible enough to take control of your sexual health (birth control, regular check-ups/std testing, etc) and being able to handle yourself in the event that you should get pregnant or end up with a disease!.

I realize this isn't a popular opinion, but that's my 2 cents!. I hope it helped even a little bit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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