Question for mature women only please?!
Question: Question for mature women only please!?
I know that every vagina looks different, but I really hate the way mine looks!. I just think it is very unattractive!. I have a large/longer clitoris and because of that it is very sensitive!. I hate it when my boyfriend tries to look at it because I am so self-concious about it!. It's been this way my entire life and I put sex off for a long time because of it and when I finally did start having sex I became even more self-concious of it!. I know it sounds very silly, but I was just wondering if any women out there can relate!? or if this is something I can get fixed!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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ok im 22 so i dont know if that qualifies as mature but!.!.!. yeah my clitoris is a bit larger than normal too and very sensitive so it took me awhile to learn how to masturbate without hurting myself!. Anyway my inner labia are larger than my outer labia and women seem to think that it is ugly!. But i have a boyfriend and lots of guy friends and they all think that the inner labia being longer than the outer labia is the ideal vagina because it is more overtly sexy!. And they dont seem to have a preference regarding clitoris size!. Also my boyfriend says that he has never met a vagina that he didnt like lol!! I dont think men are very fussy about the look of your lady parts!. I think my vagina is fabulous and so should you ! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you have surgery to minimize the size of your labia, cutting will also damage the nerves!. You don't want that!. Please don't compare yourself to porn stars as they have lots of cosmetic surgery and pictures are airbrushed, cropped, etc!. In ancient times, the vagina was considered holy and beatiful, like a rose!. In fact, the rose is symbolic of the vagina in Paganism!. That is exactly where the term "de-flowered" came from ( a reference to losing one's virginity)!. Take pride in the fact that your bf loves the beauty of you!. And you are supposed to be sensitive down there!. If other women tell you they are not, then they have their own sexuality issues and are denying themselves the full pleasure of making and sharing in love!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had a similar problem !. My lips makes mine look a bit off as well and i was extremely self conscious!. Overtime i have learned to love it and live with it much better than i did before!. However when i first start having sex with someone new the issue tends to rear its head again!. I become self conscious and it would create an issue till i realize that my boyfriend does not care , and i even realize that by not focusing on it sex is much better!.
I think that if its really that huge of an issue , you should look into labiaplasty, or perhaps even see someone about working on ways to cope/ accept it!. No one would know what you really need better that you do!. I think that you will be fine and i hope what ever the choice, that you become happier and enjoy sex to the MAX!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think that if its really that huge of an issue , you should look into labiaplasty, or perhaps even see someone about working on ways to cope/ accept it!. No one would know what you really need better that you do!. I think that you will be fine and i hope what ever the choice, that you become happier and enjoy sex to the MAX!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
These days just about anything can "get fixed"!.
But I think you are just overly self concious!. It is probably fine!. I am a surgical nurse and have seen MANY women!. We are all different!. There is NO perfect textbook vagina!. I know that's not what playboy would have us believe - but it's true!.
Embrace your body!. You are not silly!. If it is something that you really want to change!.!.!. find a plastic surgeon that SPECIALIZES in that area!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But I think you are just overly self concious!. It is probably fine!. I am a surgical nurse and have seen MANY women!. We are all different!. There is NO perfect textbook vagina!. I know that's not what playboy would have us believe - but it's true!.
Embrace your body!. You are not silly!. If it is something that you really want to change!.!.!. find a plastic surgeon that SPECIALIZES in that area!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't know that I give it as much thought as that but I will tell you that I, too am very self-conscience when my husband looks down there!. It amazes me why they'd "want" to LOOK! :)
I don't know about getting it altered!. Probably could but it may not seem as odd to someone else as it is seeming to you!. It is probably just a matter of self consciencness, like we all have in many areas of our lives!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't know about getting it altered!. Probably could but it may not seem as odd to someone else as it is seeming to you!. It is probably just a matter of self consciencness, like we all have in many areas of our lives!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Vagina's are not supposed to be all that cute!. Mine's an ugly monster but it does the job!.
Be happy with what was given to you!. If you are not, get it fixed!. You have choices!. Choose to love and accept it or choose to fix what you don't love!.
Good luck my dear!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Be happy with what was given to you!. If you are not, get it fixed!. You have choices!. Choose to love and accept it or choose to fix what you don't love!.
Good luck my dear!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had a bicycle accident that created a clot!. After the softball size clot healed I was/am left with extra tissue!. It is severly deformed to me!. Hub says its fine!. I also didn't want him looking at me!. If you are miserable then get it fixed!. The only reason I haven't is financially it isn't feasible!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why do you think 'it' is sometimes called, "bumping uglies!?"
None of them are exactly pretty!.
It a matter of function, not visual attraction!.
Forget it!.!.!.
Its not something you should really worry yourself about!.
Why you looking anyway!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
None of them are exactly pretty!.
It a matter of function, not visual attraction!.
Forget it!.!.!.
Its not something you should really worry yourself about!.
Why you looking anyway!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
yes if u really wanted to you could fix it!.!.!.!. But first let me just say that most women find their vagina unatractive!.!.!. However u should know women see their parts ALOT diffrent then men do!. So any guy who really likes you will most likely love ur vagina even if you dont!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes, I feel related I don't like how my octopusoi(it's french) looks like, and you can fix with surgery, but loose sensitivity and pleasure during sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i dont know if you can get it fixed or not but one of the lips on mine are saggy i find i gross to look atWww@Answer-Health@Com
I would talk to your gyno about it!. Just remember that Everyone is their own worst critic!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well im actually a gyno and if you send me a picture a can tell u solutions to change itWww@Answer-Health@Com
if it really bothers you, you could look into labiaplasty!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
just be happy with who you are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think all vaginas are ugly
but I guess that means I'm not gayWww@Answer-Health@Com
but I guess that means I'm not gayWww@Answer-Health@Com
Honestly!.!.!.!.i think that you're lucky to have such a sensitive clit!.!.!.because its better than my situation of barely having a clit!.!.!.LOL mine is just really short and i barely get any sensation because of its length!.!.!.So i say leave your body the way that it is!.!.!.and plus i bet you get multiple orgasms because of it!.!.!.!.and i say let your boy friend take a look @ it!.!.!.i know that he will love it especially if he loves you and besides he's a man and men like Vagina no matter how it looks just as long as its clean!.!.!.thats all i say!.!.!.yea it bothered me for a while that i had such a short clit but now im learning to except it!.!.!.!.well good luck to you babe:)Www@Answer-Health@Com