Scared...Girls only please!?!


Question: Scared!.!.!.Girls only please!!?
I'm a virgin and I'm trying to figuire out the most I can
Me and my boyfriend almost you know!.!.!.did it
and It scares me!.He's a virgin too!.
We know to be safe with it
but I don't know all the facts about sex
I really love this guy and I know he loves me
so can you tell me any good facts that I should know!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You never get to know everything :D

Well, I'm going to go against all these people telling you to "wait until you're married" and just say "wait until you feel ready and comfortable"!. Marriage doesn't have anything to do with it (not for me, at least)!.

First time is scary, and it will be more awkward than romantic or sexy (but it will get better, I promise ;) )!. It is *very* important that it happens with someone you trust and feel very comfortable with, or it will feel wrong and you'll regret it!. But just trusting someone doesn't mean you should have sex with him!. Do you feel ready!? Do you really want to do it!? If so, then I think it's ok for you to do it!. Otherwise, wait!. Believe me, you don't want to do this too soon!.

So, if you decide to go ahead with it, know that the first time can be quite a trip!. Tell him to go slow, and to give you time to adapt before starting to move (otherwise it will hurt)!. If he's careful and you're both patient it should be ok!.

Also, don't make an agreement like "we'll do it tonight"!. Just let it happen, don't force it on you!.

And of course, don't do it without protection!

Whatever decision you make, good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you believe that you are ready, both physically AND emotionally, to deal with the responsibility of having sex before you're married, then go for it!. However, don't do it because you feel that it's "time" to do it!. Evaluate the pros and cons of having sex before you're married as well as find out the answers to any questions you have about sex before taking that step because you can never take it back!. Finally, and this is the most important step of all, do what feels right for YOU, not you're boyfriend, as you will have to live with the choices you make for the rest of your life, not him!. Virginity is a virtue in which many people are eager to give away yet want returned to them once it's gone!. Think it out first!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

There aren't really any facts!.!.!.but if you are scared, dont do anything, if you start to feel relaxed and want to, then go for it, you love each other, so married or not, you are not just having sex, you are showing your love for each other, which is more that alot of people can say (not aiomed at anyone in particualr) so you have nothing to worry about!. I was scared on my first time, and second for that matter, but just remeber, its your body, wait untill you are ready!.
xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com

My honest opinion is that you should save sex for marriage!.

Can you ever imagine yourself telling your future spouse on your marriage day, "Dear, I'm sorry I'm not a virgin on our wedding night!. I hope you still understand that I love you and that I want to spend the rest of my life with you!." Do you think your spouse will have any respect left for you if he has remained a virgin!?

If you have more than one sexual partner in your whole life then what makes your future husband any different from one of them!?

If this guy is really the right one for you, you'll end up marrying him!. You can have sex then!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Dont see hes the best guy I can tell your still young if your obviously scared to say have sex instead of did it!. If your not ready to give this guy everything then dont!. You guys can do other things that dont involve intercourse dont let love rush something your not sure of doing!.!. I regret losing my virginity to soon you'll wanna look back on the years and be happy with your decision believe me! just wait!. You'll know your ready when you dont have questions like these!.!.!.
And always always ALWAYS BE SAFE love isent worth putting your body at riskWww@Answer-Health@Com

The only good advice I can give you is wait until you're married!. Your virginity is not something you can get back and it's quite possible that you will regret if you don't wait, because he's probably not the one you will spend the rest of your life with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wait until you are married and save yourself for your husband, you will be so very glad you did!.
Wether you know this or not premarital sex is a definate sin in the eyes of God!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ideally you should wait till you are married, and your first time will be 100,000,000 times better, but if you cant wait that long, then use protection = condom!. let nature take its course you wont relay enjoy it first time anyhowWww@Answer-Health@Com

honey i'm 40 & i dont know all the good facts yet!
dont do anything until your really really ready
can you talk to your mum!? we're not all ogres :)Www@Answer-Health@Com





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