Ladies, help me get my boyfriend tested!!?!


Question: Ladies, help me get my boyfriend tested!!!?
I know it was a mistake, but neither of us got tested (stds) when we first got together!. Now, we have been together like a year and a half and sleeping together for awhile now!.

I trusted him then, but now I trust him less and less!. and I want him and me to both get tested!. But its sort of uncomfortable because!.!. well, its been so long!. How do I bring this up to him and get him to go with me to get tested!!?

PS- i KNOW it was stupid so ya dont' have to tell me that!!Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Okay, first of all you're going to need to stop having not only unprotected sex with your boyfriend -- but any sexual contact whatsoever until you both get tested and learn your status!.

I've been where you are!. I was in a relationship for a long time, and then found out that he was sleeping around behind my back!. Now in my case, we were having safe-sex!.

But my concern was whether or not he had been having protected sex with these other women that he was with behind my back!. And in spite of the fact that we were using condoms, there was no guarantee that I wouldn't end up with Genital Herpes, Chlamydia, etc!.

Condoms are 98% effective and that 2% that isn't covered is enough of a gap to catch anything from a partner who is not being monogamous!.

So I broke things off with him, and had myself tested, and happily, I am fine!.

Don't worry about him -- just worry about YOU! Call your OB/GYN or go to a clinic and get yourself tested as soon as possible!. They will test you for every STD, including HIV/AIDS!.

Good luck and I wish you well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Quite simple!. You give him an ultimatum - no more sex until he gets tested, you go with him and see it is done, see the results and ensure he is treated for any infection!. You cannot afford to take chances even if you use condoms!. It is not just AIDS, but conditions like chlamydia which do not always have very noticeable symptoms but can cause sterility in women!. And of course you must be tested at the same time!.
Do not delay and above all, be firm!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

say, "hey, i went to get my pap smear the other day, and the nurse suggested that i get tested for STDs, since i told her that i did not do so when i began this relationship!. i think this is important; she's right, most STDs have no signs, and either of us could have one without knowing it!. i'm sure we're both fine, but let's just go together and get it out of the way just to make sure!."Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you should know that you should always use protection, no matter what!. But when you need to talk to him, just say!. "Lately I have been thinking we should get tested, just for safety reasons!. It would make me feel more comfortable!."Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just muster up the courage and ask him! It's never too late to be smart!. Besides, if he won't, chances are he's probably hiding something!.!.!. Good luck, lady!Www@Answer-Health@Com

im with cheetah!. but another way might be to say u want to take out life insurance, which would require a hiv test!.!.!.most creative i can getWww@Answer-Health@Com

If you are really serious about it you need to just talk to him!. If he really loves you he should understand it is just for your guys health!. Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

damn getting the old q tipWww@Answer-Health@Com





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