Is this a really good choice(no its not something peverted)?!


Question: Is this a really good choice(no its not something peverted)!?
I am 15!. In 3 years i want to get surgery to not have children!. I love kids but i just find the whole birth process disgusting(in my opinion)(Plus little kids are such a pain to take care of)!. I told my mom about my thought and she said that what if later on in life i want to have kids!. I told her no problem cause i want to adopt!. So here's my question, Should i keep in my mind my idea on getting the surgery or should i just take birth control at age 18!? (please don't answer with answers like children are a blessing from god because i don't believe in god)Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I dont believe in god either!. However I do know that we as girls and human beings change as we grow older!. I remember feeling disgusted about labor and all of that; when i was 13-15; to have a child however as i grew older and got married now im in a phase called nesting-n i just need to have a child of my own!. if i can great if i cant i can adopt-but at least I have the choice!.

i wud say use good birth control measures!. eg take the pill, dont have sex from the 7th to the 17th day of your period to be extra cautious!. now there are measures available at the doctors-its like a female condom-a doctor can place one inside u and i think its good for a few years and you won't concieve!. that way you control the choice!

Be safe! Life is beautiful and savor every moment of it!. ur in a beautiful age!.!.!. the next 5 yrs are the best ones! ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's your body and your decision!.
Yes, have the surgery!.
If you want kids later, you can always adopt!. But, if you don't like kids (like you say), you shouldn't get them!.

With birth control, there is always a small chance of pregnancy!.

Stick to your guns!. It's your decision alone!. Don't let anyone sway you!.
At your age, they will only tie your tubes!. They won't take everything out until you're elderly and it's literally falling out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

when you get surgery like that its called a hemorrhaged they basically remove your uterus so you wont be able to have kids any more but you will still have your period if you feel strongly that you would want that do it!. but you should wait about maybe 5 years in order for you to mature and think about this situation because it is important!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would wait at least until you are in your mid 20's to see you still feel the same way!. I had many thoughts in my head at the age of 15 of what i wanted to do when i turned 18, and most of my views changed!. I see no reason to rush yourself in such a permanent procedure!. Enjoy your teens instead of worrying about such things now, and be safe!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Please keep in mind that as you mature and get older, your opinions as well as your outlook on life could change!. Having your tubes tied is a HUGE decision! There are many other birth control options other than 'the pill'!. Give yourself a little time and perhaps adopt in the meantime!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm not sure that theres a doctor that will do that kind of surgery unless its for a medical condition!.!.!. If you find one, and you feel that way torwards kids, then you probably shouldn't ever have any rather they are biological or adopted period!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think you should wait then jus be on the pill or like me get the shot so much easier its like every 3 months you go to the doc n get a shot piece of cake
and I'm with you on kids are a hassle and exhausting I'm go in to adopt my self ma bey have 1 of my ownWww@Answer-Health@Com

I would waitt, and take birth control
because having surgey at 18 to not
be able to have children is a little much,
but i plan to adopt also, but im just going to take
birthcontrol!. i wouldnt do it, untill your olderWww@Answer-Health@Com

no way stay on the pill your mom is so right your only fifteen things change so much in a couple months and imagine how they can change in say ten years, what if your dream guy wants kids (not adopted) and then obviously wont be with youWww@Answer-Health@Com

no dr will give you this surgery at 18!. take birth control!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i would think about it more!. i mean, its your choice for sure!. but realize that maybe one day the whole world is gonna die off and u might to help rebuild the population!.!. hahahaha im jk! requirements, anyone can get it done!. so dont even worry about it!. dont take birth control because its gonna make you gain weight and become a moody biiotch!. but also, when u go to the doctors at 18 years old and ask for that, he may not do it for you!. theres a lady at my work who is 25 and wants it!. and the doctor was like!.!. u really shouldnt!. so i dk!. but go to cali if you do, you can do anything in that liberal state lol p!.s!. it costs 20k to adopt a baby girl from china!.!. totally f-ed up cuz they just kill em anyway!. but whatever!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm 21 and I don't want children but I'd NEVER have surgery to make it impossible because people change their minds!.

What happens when you find the perfect guy, you want to get married but he wants children and you can't give him that!? There goes mr perfect!.

You are too young to make that decision!. At 15 I want 3 children so you see how you change your mind over time!?

I think it's a bad idea and I think that until you're old enough to really know what you want, just stick to an IUD or the pill!.

I'm not going to tell you what to do but I don't think it's a wise idea!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

wow it definately is a huge decision to make and i wouldn't think about it now when you have so much other things to think of!. i can understand what your mum's saying when she wants you to think about it more deeply but maybe you might change your mind (but it sounds like you know what you want) you probably wouldn't understand raising a child just yet and you don't always have tohave a child the natural way (you could have a c-section) but don't grow up too fast because your still young and don't go trying to make big decisions when at this age your still trying to find out who you are and where your place in the world is!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have a sister who, like you, thought she would never want children!. We had 6 kids in our family and she was the oldest and she thought kids were a pain and not worth it!. She is married, her house is paid off- and now at 34 she has decided that she would like to try to have a baby!. It took her almost 20 years to change her thinking!. My point is, you never know how life is going to change you!. Experiences and exposure to many different things have a way of changing us or helping us to grow!. You have so many things ahead of you- it is too early to make such a life altering decision when your opinion could be so different in 15 years (hard to believe, but remember just about 9 years ago you thoguht boys were gross!) Just be patient, have an IUD implanted so you do not have to think about it, but so that you can change your mind if you want to!. Good luck to you- and by the way, I am not going to tell you babies are a gift from god- but I will tell you that there truly was NOTHING better I could have done with my life than had my 3 little ones!. Take care!Www@Answer-Health@Com

you know, most people would disagree with your decision!. however, I tend to lean toward "wait until you're 25, then do what you want!." most doctors won't tie tubes for anyone under that age!. People don't realize our mass population problem, they like to have kids and be selfish, when there's already a ton of kids out there who could be adopted!.

however, whether you think so or not, you will be a completely different person by the time you are 25, and by then you could change your mind!. I'm not saying you will, but you will be different for sure!. a person's brain isn't even fully developed until they're 19 or 20!. you're not even fully grown yet, even if you feel like it!. Just keep poppin' those birth-control pills and be patient!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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