Ladies - Sex Q for you!?!
Question: Ladies - Sex Q for you!!?
Okay so ive only just started having sex (yes im old enough, use contrceptives and lots of foreplay) and last night i decided to try going on top, however when i did it felt like my insides(in tge bottom of my stomach and back) were being pushed and squashed to the bottom of my back and was so uncomfortably that i couldnt carry on being on top!.!.!.of that makes sense!? What was this!? Will it go away in time as i keep having sex and getting used to it!? Thanks :) xx
EDIT: This wasnt my first time, it was the 4th!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
EDIT: This wasnt my first time, it was the 4th!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
had EXACTLY the same problem my first few times!.!.!. feels like its poking at ur tummy from underneath i no what u mean!. about a year on im ALOT more comfortable on top, i think ur insides just become more accustomed to it!. so no worries, it will go away after a little while!. i promise! ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com
okay when you have sex and its one of your first few times being on top can be kind of difficult!. Sometimes your not hitting it just right or being on top you can cramp up and you cant get anything through and it hits your cirvix!. A lot of time when girls have a problem being on top its only because they are not used to it!. I personally can not be on the top because i just dont have the right body structure for it!. To know for sure you might want to ask a doctor!. I hope this helped!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ive been having sex for several years nad still some times still have this problem all you need to do is pull it out and put it in, ina differant direction, ummm liek instead on sitting right on top try sliding it in from the front!. i hope you can understand what im saying!. good luck
oh and another thing you can try is moveing your hips around in a circle until it gets comfortable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
oh and another thing you can try is moveing your hips around in a circle until it gets comfortable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your perinium must still stretch some, that is why it is a little painful at first when he goes in!.
As for the pressure, that will also come right but when you have a full colon it will feel like that also!.!.!.
Try to take an enema some hours before sexWww@Answer-Health@Com
As for the pressure, that will also come right but when you have a full colon it will feel like that also!.!.!.
Try to take an enema some hours before sexWww@Answer-Health@Com
Yeah it will pass, these kind of things always feel a bit uncomfortable, I have been with my bf for 7 yrs and when I am ontop it still feels a bit like its gonna come out of my stomach lol!. Try to bare with it and just move slowly and u will find it doesnt feel too uncomfortable xWww@Answer-Health@Com
I'm older and have been having sex for years and it's still uncomfortable for me to be on top!. I can start out on top but have to switch!. It hurts my lower stomach also, I'm tall but I am short waisted so I assumed that was the reason!.
Good Luck :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good Luck :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
The age old question!.!.!.lol
Straddle him, lean your back toward his feet and as he enters the shaft of his penis should be at the bottom of your vagina and as you move up toward him it will adjust automatically and that's it!.
have fun and be safe!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Straddle him, lean your back toward his feet and as he enters the shaft of his penis should be at the bottom of your vagina and as you move up toward him it will adjust automatically and that's it!.
have fun and be safe!Www@Answer-Health@Com
try arching your back forward (as in moving the front of your body closer to his)!. this will increase the length of your vaginal canal and hopefully get rid of that uncomfortable feeling you have been experiencing (which is probably his penis hitting your cervix)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if i were you, I'd try it again!. if it still feels this way a second time, I'd go to the doctor to see if any thing's wrong!. it's not supposed to feel that way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
All these answers make sense!. But what could help is if you empty your bladder before- cos your bladder could be pushing against your stomach!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it is probably his penis hitting your cervixWww@Answer-Health@Com
1) There are girls with the same problem than you!. In most cases it is a question of technique rather than physical features!.
2) Try facing your partner, leaning forward!. Put your hands on or adjacent to your partners' shoulders!. Put your knees beside his chest!. Only now slide on very carefully and try to control the movement closely!. Do not let yourself just "fall to the bottom", but slide only on-and-off partly and carefully!. This way you can control easily and comfortably how deep the penis enters your vagina!. Repeat sliding off and re-entering a little bit, e!.g!. the tip of the penis or half of the penis!.
3) Please note that the boy will feel particular pleasure in the moment of entering you!. The tip is the most sensitive part of his penis!. Do not get the feeling that you are not doing "the real thing" if you are sliding on carefully!. The real thing IS this sliding on and off!.
4) And yes, the more often you do it, the more you get used to it!. But control and technique is the key to success here!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
2) Try facing your partner, leaning forward!. Put your hands on or adjacent to your partners' shoulders!. Put your knees beside his chest!. Only now slide on very carefully and try to control the movement closely!. Do not let yourself just "fall to the bottom", but slide only on-and-off partly and carefully!. This way you can control easily and comfortably how deep the penis enters your vagina!. Repeat sliding off and re-entering a little bit, e!.g!. the tip of the penis or half of the penis!.
3) Please note that the boy will feel particular pleasure in the moment of entering you!. The tip is the most sensitive part of his penis!. Do not get the feeling that you are not doing "the real thing" if you are sliding on carefully!. The real thing IS this sliding on and off!.
4) And yes, the more often you do it, the more you get used to it!. But control and technique is the key to success here!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yeah i would say that is completely normal!.!. to be honest he could have a big dick too!.!.and thats what happens lol but i wouldnt stay on top the whole time thoe, there is one way you can do it while bein on top but it wears out your legs super quick but its fun!.!. like sit like you are gunna be on top, but instead of resting on the bottom portion of your knees!.!.!. almost crouch/stand where your feet are flat on the bed but your butt is almost by your ankels and support yourself on top of him by puttin on hands on his legs its almost like sitting on your butt with your knees up by your face ( but then spread your legs (cuz he has to be under you) and then lift your up so he can be inside) you'll figure it out! but that way you can control how deep he goes so it doesnt poke your stomach cuz it makes you wanna puke then :PWww@Answer-Health@Com
hmmm go to the doctor and tell him/her what you are feeling , and there tell you what is going on!. I have't had this experience so I really dont know!. I aint that much help on this topic sorry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com