I have a problem, please help me??!!boobs and pervy old men?!
Question: I have a problem, please help me!?!?!!boobs and pervy old men!?
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i have aproblem in which i have quite large boobs and im very top heavy!. Im 14 years old and i sometimes get pervy men leering at me!. It not like i flaunt them or anything just whatever i wear people just seem to stare a lot!.
Also if i do wear something that wont reveal clevage on somebody else it will always reveal a fair amount on me! Soemtimes girlslike "o god she god her **** out" and m like well do you want me to wear a roll neck or something!.
please help me think of things to try and deter people from looking at my boobs too much
thanks btw im a 34e
it just really gets me down that some really nice tops that i want i cant get becuase they would be too small!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i have aproblem in which i have quite large boobs and im very top heavy!. Im 14 years old and i sometimes get pervy men leering at me!. It not like i flaunt them or anything just whatever i wear people just seem to stare a lot!.
Also if i do wear something that wont reveal clevage on somebody else it will always reveal a fair amount on me! Soemtimes girlslike "o god she god her **** out" and m like well do you want me to wear a roll neck or something!.
please help me think of things to try and deter people from looking at my boobs too much
thanks btw im a 34e
it just really gets me down that some really nice tops that i want i cant get becuase they would be too small!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I know how you feel, I am also very large, and it was the worst when I was your age!. The good news is it gets easier as you get older; as the other girls around you fill out and you become more familar with your body it will be easier!.
Def!. get a minimizer bra!. Also, wearing dark tops helps pull attention away!. I like wearing cool skirts with interesting prints to draw attention away from my top!.
I've also been known to spit on men, give them the finger and be a real b*tch, but I don't think its good to reinforce that kind of negative energy!.
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Def!. get a minimizer bra!. Also, wearing dark tops helps pull attention away!. I like wearing cool skirts with interesting prints to draw attention away from my top!.
I've also been known to spit on men, give them the finger and be a real b*tch, but I don't think its good to reinforce that kind of negative energy!.
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know how you feel!. When I was your age I had large breasts for my age!. Men always thought I was older than I was and would always stare!. I always tried to wear sports bras to help minimize them!. It helps a little!. When you get a little bit older you can get a breast reduction if you want to!. I know it's hard, but all I can say is try to hang in there!. Things might get better as the rest of your body matures!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
it's attitude!. I'm a lot bigger up top than you are and I've never had men looking at them in the street, and it's not like i hide them either, hell i've even tried to get them looked at an it's never happened!. If you act like you think they're gonna look then then will!. Stare them down and they'll be too scared to look!. get a wonderbra (and at 34E you have that option, they don't make them in 38JJ so i can't) and flaunt them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get a minimizer bra!. You will have to buy clothes that fit your boobs and have them altered to fit the rest of you, or just find a seamstress to make your tops for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
your hormones will balance out over your life and change the size of your boobs a bit, relative to the rest of you!. HOWEVER, a friend of mine got a breast reduction at 18!. Is very happy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
when you go for a bra fitting, make sure they get the right size bra for you!.!.!.then start buying bigger shirts!.!.you can always get them tailored!.!. and layer tank tops underneath shirts!.!.!. that will help conceal your boobs a bit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
try to be happy with yourself and wear clothes and underwear that flatters ur figure!. try to ignore nasty comment and stares!.
hope this helps, gud luck!!!
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hope this helps, gud luck!!!
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just make sure to cover as much as you can or wear more then one shirt to make them look a little smallerWww@Answer-Health@Com