I NEED SO HELP [FOR REAL]....?!


Question: I NEED SO HELP [FOR REAL]!.!.!.!.!?
MY CURRENT BF ANS i HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 6 MONTHS AND HE HAS ALWAYS HAD A BAD HABiT ACCUSiNG ME OF CHEATiNG!.!.!.WEN iM REALLY NOT!.!.!.!.HE ALSO HAS MADE A HABBiT WITHiN THA LAST MONTH OR SO OF DUMPiNG ME[[WITHiN A MONTH iT HAS BEEN ABOUT 6 TiMEz]] i DONT KNOWHAT i SHOULD DO BECAUSE i REALLY CARE ABOUT HIM BUT i TIRED OF HIM DUMPiNG ME!.!.!.AND HE HAS BEEN TELLiNG ME WHO i CAN AND CANT BE FRiENDz WiT AND iM TO DOMiNANT TO LET ANYONE TELL ME WHO MY FRiENDz CAN BE!.!.!.]]BY THA WAY iM 16 YEARz OLD!!!!]]Www@Answer-Health@Com


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this happened to me at 16 just like you, all exactly the same, but i wasted 3 years, was brutally beaten several times, verbally abused, and i can never get those years back!. trust me he will not change as much as he tells you he will!. it will get worse i promise!. you need to dump him and he will try to convince you not to, he will make promises and try to pull you back in so he can keep control of you!. if he wins you back that means he is in control, because you made a decision and he changed it!. you need to be strong now or you will be weak forever!. dump him, forget him, get rid of him, don't go back!. find someone else that is not controlling and lets you have whatever friends you like!. please trust me on this i have been there and it had ruined my life!. if you need someone to talk to please feel free to e-mail meWww@Answer-Health@Com

Those kind of relationships are unhealthy and not fun to be in, tell him he needs to have more trust in you and you dont like him bossing you around telling you what to do, if you guys want a healthy relationship there hast to be trust in order for it to work, breaking up 6 times in one month is crazy especially if your not even cheating, my friend use to have a boy friend like that, things got really bad and it ended badly!. Tell him he needs to change his paranoid ways, I dont think thats very healthy and i think you should end it but if you really both really care for eachother im sure you both can work it out, so go and talk to him! Good Luck =)Www@Answer-Health@Com

no guy should ever control you and thats what he is doing!. he may be insecure, but he shouldnt take it out on you!. also, he may think that because you are going back to him that you are desperate and cant live without him!. talk to him and tell him how you feel and that trust is a major part of any relationship!. if he cant trust you, then you have no relationship!. he cant control you or who you are friends with and if he loved you, he wouldnt try to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He sounds WAY to possessive!. Those are some of the early signs of abusive mates!. I would get rid of him, he's bad news, you don't want to get stuck in a relationship that your to scared to get out of because of his actions!. You are 16, BE A KID once you hit 18 there is no more being a kid!. Trust me, its a rude awakening! Be friends with whoever you want to, leave it to your parents to pick your friends not your dominant boyfriend!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

well what i would do is dump the guy! do u really care about i guy that dumps you 6 times in one month!? don't waste your time! try to find another guy who is committed to your relationship! if you really like him i guess you could talk to a counselor!. but in my experience i've dumped many guys before i found my perfect bf and we are going on 18 months! hope this helps! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

break up with him this time and keep it that way!. He's trying to control you especially by telling you who you can and can't be friends with!. Dump him now or it will get worse!. It may seem hard now, but you don't deserve this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Type normally, please!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe he dumps you because you TyPe LiKe ThIs!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

lose him or you will be doing this the rest of your life w/himWww@Answer-Health@Com

If he keeps doing this u should show ur self respectWww@Answer-Health@Com





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