Afraid of loosing virginty...help plz?!

If youre having to ask and your worried then the simple answer is youre not ready, i find it especially hard to believe that being age 22 you dont know what happens where sex is concerned but I'll tell you anyway!. After lots of foreplay of you both kissing and touching each others body etc, when you are turned on enough and "wet" and READY he will insert is penis into your vagina!. Its different for everyone but mostly itll feel tight and there will be some discomfort or pain especially if you dont use tampons or have never inserted anything into your vagina - this is just your hymen breaking, there might be some blood and its fine!. Tell him to go slow and be gentle and if you want to stop thats ok too!. You should be able to talk to your boyfriend about his!. All i can say is get yourself on the pill, buy extra safe condoms and lube (waterbased!!) and when the moment comes make sure you do pleanty of foreplay and to put the condom on and pleanty of lube and relax as much as you can!. The more turned on you are the better and easier it will be, especially setting your mind at rest knowing your protected from pregnancies and STDs because youre using the pill and condoms!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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A friend of mine used a condom AND bc and she still got pregnant!. I would assume that is one of those extremely rare cases, though the best way to make sure that does not happen is to stay away from sex all together!. But if you're making the choice to, my first time, I don't remember any pain, however every person is different!.
I always say that the funniest part is getting it in, so take your time and don't rush!
Make sure that you're comfortable and it shoudl be an enjoyable experience!
As for the morning after pill, I would say take it only in an extreme case! Anything that messes with your body like that, I'd think it's just better to stay away from it as long as you can!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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No matter what form of birth control you use or how many types of birth control you use at the same time, there is still a chance to get pregnant!. The only thing that's 100% effective is abstinence!. I would recommend going on the pill or some other hormonal birth control (patch, ring, shot, etc!.) AND use a condom!. There may or may not be a little pain associated with it!. If your hymen is still intact, there will likely be a little blood!. It will be awkward!. And it's possible you won't find enjoyment in your first time!. For many girls, it takes practice for their nerves to wake up to realize the good sensations sex brings!. Just keep open communication with your partner!. If you are having any real pain, tell your boyfriend!. Have him slow down or stop moving, to allow for your body to adjust to having something new inside!. If you feel you need to stop altogether, that's ok too!. Sex will not be like what you see in porn videos!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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If you use a condom properly but no pills then it is almost impossible to get pregnant!. You may want to look into the pills for the future though, if sex is going to become a regular habit ;) You'd only need the morning after pill if the condom broke or slipped off or something like that, which, if you follow the instructions that come with them and do it right ought not to happen!.

It will hurt, not going to lie, but not too badly, and only really for the first time (or maybe two)!. Make sure your boyfriend gets you ready with plenty of foreplay, and goes at your pace!. Its a cliche, but tell him to be gentle and go slowly!. Remind him to look into your eyes and tell you he loves you! The skin will break (there may be some blood, don't worry) and then poof, you won't be a virgin anymore!. Good luck! And smile, sex is supposed to be fun!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Everyones saying it hurts!. And you bleed alot!. I think it depends on your body and i'm not the only one who thinks this!. It's a different pain!. Yeah it hurts, things that big aren't meant to go up there and be bashed around!! So your body has to adjust to it!. It's more of an uncomfortable hurt!. The bleeding is like the show of your period!. LITTLE AMOUNT!!!. Pretty much the best advice i can give you is make sure you relax your body and your well lubed up!. If it hurts tell him to slow down!. Just - and i know you've probebly heard this before - make sure you want to!. It's not all glory and a lot of woman i talk to either regret it or are very emotional afterwards - it's normal for a female to do this!! The pill is 99!.9% safe IF it is taken properly!. But use condoms if you want to be protected froim STD's!. Morning after pills are bad for your body so only take them if you are absolutely sure you could be pregnant!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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hi, there are many factor that you will become pleasure sex :1-you have become relax ,2-u and your bf do make love very good in a romantic enviroment and masage your breast 3-your bf use from lubricant condom because you will be comfortable at first time ,dont need after morning pill you used from condom and you will not be pregnant !.3-may be you will have littel pain and blood that is normal and it isnt hard ,that is easy with good feeling ,pleasure for both,good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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I don't remember it hurting so much the first time, but i didn't have a Hyman(i lost it years ago in a bike crash)!. I was unsure of what to expect also!. I just used a condom it seemed to work fine but there's high possibility I'm now pregnant but i have had unprotected sex once too!. All i can advise is that you relax it will hurt more if your tense!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Not yowon't get pregnant it wearing a comdom, unless it splits but you can buy the morning after pill for

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