This is going to be a weird one... I would appreciate any help I can get! :)?!
Question: This is going to be a weird one!.!.!. I would appreciate any help I can get! :)!?
This is my first question and I don't really know how to go about asking this or who will answer!.!.!. but I've been browsing for a while and I've seen some pretty weird ones so I thought I might as well ask!.
After dating for two years and breaking up before I left for college (9 months ago), my ex-boyfriend and I are still really close!. I am going to see him a week from Tuesday and we will probably end up having sex, but it was extremely painful the last time we tried!.!.!. I'm a very small girl and he is quite large down there!. The last person I slept with besides him was a lot smaller, so while it still hurt it wasn't as much of a problem!. At this point it's almost an impossibility for my ex to fit at all!.
What I am wondering is if there is any way that I can make myself not as "tight" by next Tuesday!. I don't really feel comfortable putting any foreign objects in there, so I know this is a bit of a hopeless case but I thought I might as well see if anyone has any suggestions!. Thanks!Www@Answer-Health@Com
After dating for two years and breaking up before I left for college (9 months ago), my ex-boyfriend and I are still really close!. I am going to see him a week from Tuesday and we will probably end up having sex, but it was extremely painful the last time we tried!.!.!. I'm a very small girl and he is quite large down there!. The last person I slept with besides him was a lot smaller, so while it still hurt it wasn't as much of a problem!. At this point it's almost an impossibility for my ex to fit at all!.
What I am wondering is if there is any way that I can make myself not as "tight" by next Tuesday!. I don't really feel comfortable putting any foreign objects in there, so I know this is a bit of a hopeless case but I thought I might as well see if anyone has any suggestions!. Thanks!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Firstly you need to relax and stop worrying as this usually blows a problem out of proportion!. Next if he uses condoms he may need to change the brand as you may need ones that are extra lubricated, and you can use KY Gel along with those!. And finally if you are too dry when he penetrates this will cause pain it could be that you need more foreplay!.!. And yes you are correct it is not a good idea to insert foreign objects into your vagina unless they are specifically designed for that use!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think there is really anything you could do except use lubrication!. KY makes some good ones!. I am a very small person as well, and I never encountered this problem before!. Your body size doesn't really have anything to do with how big your vaginal opening is!. If you are finding sex painful, despite lubrication, you might want to call your doctor and get checked out because that can be a sign of a more serious condition!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your vagina is basically a big muscle - so nothing will stretch you out of shape, it always goes back!. The only advice i could offer, would be to relax, be in the mood and use some lube - try not to be tense from worry because of course, that will make matters worse!Www@Answer-Health@Com
why are you being so dumb and sleeping with your ex!?
he's your EX for a REASON!.
thinking like this is why there are so many STD's, cases of teen pregnancy, and HIV/AIDS!.
this is one of the dumbest questions ever!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
he's your EX for a REASON!.
thinking like this is why there are so many STD's, cases of teen pregnancy, and HIV/AIDS!.
this is one of the dumbest questions ever!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just have a few drinks beforehand!. That should relax you enough!.
Get some "personal lubricant" from a drug store!. That will make everything much less painful!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get some "personal lubricant" from a drug store!. That will make everything much less painful!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can't make yourself bigger down there so don't try!.
Do use lots of lubricant (like KY jelly) and stop if it hurts!.
If this in a continuing problem go get checked at the OB doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do use lots of lubricant (like KY jelly) and stop if it hurts!.
If this in a continuing problem go get checked at the OB doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hey,
i am 34 years old i been with 3 men my whole life and i have had 3 different sizes average{6and a half inches} my children daddy} a little smaller than average {5 inches}2nd guy i lived with for 4 years and my boyfriend now i live with he is 8 inches and very round i have had 3 children and i am veryyyyyyyyyy small it hurts so bad i cant hardly walk afterwards and it cuts me down there tring to get it in so i know what you are going thru my only advice to you because there is not much you can do is go to the drug stoe and get some ky jelly and put it on yourself for a couple of days before he gets there and the night he gets there make sure you use it if you and him are really close let him know that you need a little more than forplay !.i am sure he would rather have it a little slippery than for him to go home with dry put-put burns on him !.my boyfriend said it was like a job f!.!.!.!.!.!. me
if you want to talk a little more i can tell you some other things to make yourself feel better !.!.you also need to know that when us women are tight we must by all means really be horny before we have sex !.!.!.!.my e-mail is suzie!.cline@yahoo!.com and if you have goggle talk i do 2 my name is suziequezy@gmail!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com
i am 34 years old i been with 3 men my whole life and i have had 3 different sizes average{6and a half inches} my children daddy} a little smaller than average {5 inches}2nd guy i lived with for 4 years and my boyfriend now i live with he is 8 inches and very round i have had 3 children and i am veryyyyyyyyyy small it hurts so bad i cant hardly walk afterwards and it cuts me down there tring to get it in so i know what you are going thru my only advice to you because there is not much you can do is go to the drug stoe and get some ky jelly and put it on yourself for a couple of days before he gets there and the night he gets there make sure you use it if you and him are really close let him know that you need a little more than forplay !.i am sure he would rather have it a little slippery than for him to go home with dry put-put burns on him !.my boyfriend said it was like a job f!.!.!.!.!.!. me
if you want to talk a little more i can tell you some other things to make yourself feel better !.!.you also need to know that when us women are tight we must by all means really be horny before we have sex !.!.!.!.my e-mail is suzie!.cline@yahoo!.com and if you have goggle talk i do 2 my name is suziequezy@gmail!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com
I know others are saying you cant make yourself bigger but you sorta can in my experience not for long but like a day or so!. I am an average girl but I seem to have a SUPER tight vagina and I noticed that if I used a dildo that it would "loosen" me up a bit, but in about 2 days I am super tight again!. A dildo isnt really a foreign object so maybe you could try that, it will get your vagina used to having something a little larger in it!.
But I would also suggest using a lot of lube and trying to relax because if you dont it will just hurt more!.
And I do agree with the couple of people before me, if it still hirts after lube and such I would get checked by a doctor because I have heard of a condition where you can be too tight!.!.which I found surprisingWww@Answer-Health@Com
But I would also suggest using a lot of lube and trying to relax because if you dont it will just hurt more!.
And I do agree with the couple of people before me, if it still hirts after lube and such I would get checked by a doctor because I have heard of a condition where you can be too tight!.!.which I found surprisingWww@Answer-Health@Com