Sex and lonliness?!
Question: Sex and lonliness!?
I've been with this guy for a few months now and i've figured out that if i feel lonely!.!.!.then go and have sex i feel OK afterwards!.
Having sex makes me feel loved in a way- i know he probably doesnt love me but still!.!.!.
(i'm not a slut and don't go sleeping around or anything)
I also self harm (i know it's not a good thing to do so don't need lectures) but this gets rid of horrible emotions, lonliness mainly, in the same way!.
Is having sex to make you feel less lonely an ok thing to do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Having sex makes me feel loved in a way- i know he probably doesnt love me but still!.!.!.
(i'm not a slut and don't go sleeping around or anything)
I also self harm (i know it's not a good thing to do so don't need lectures) but this gets rid of horrible emotions, lonliness mainly, in the same way!.
Is having sex to make you feel less lonely an ok thing to do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Well no its not an okay thing to do but many do it!. It would be your form of therapy like the self-harming!. I know, I am/was a burner!. The problem with having sex to feel better is you get no real affection from the other person therefore you can get caught up in it and be in "love" with them or just really like them when they just are wanting to have sex with you and then you get hurt!. Another problem is STDs and pregnancy!. Any of this can occur, even if you are using some form of birth control, things do happen!.
So, as I understand your forms of therapy you should really consider replacing the sex with something a little less harmful and hurtful!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So, as I understand your forms of therapy you should really consider replacing the sex with something a little less harmful and hurtful!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sex increases the endorphines in your brain and makes you feel better!. You can eat a LOT of chocolate and get some of the same feelings and weigh 300 pounds!.
I suggest that you talk to a counselor about this and see if you can work things out!. You need to find out why you feel lonely!. Check out some of the web sites below for more info!.
So is it normal to feel better after sex!. Yes it is but the question you have to ask yourself is why are you feeling lonely!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I suggest that you talk to a counselor about this and see if you can work things out!. You need to find out why you feel lonely!. Check out some of the web sites below for more info!.
So is it normal to feel better after sex!. Yes it is but the question you have to ask yourself is why are you feeling lonely!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes!. You shoudln't sleep around for sex!.!.!.and you said you don't!. You shoudln't use this guy for sex either!.!.!.but since you're in a relationship!.!.!.
You need to find other ways to make yourself feel happy and wanted, but sex does make people feel wanted and it does make them feel closer to their partner!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to find other ways to make yourself feel happy and wanted, but sex does make people feel wanted and it does make them feel closer to their partner!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well no, sex is great but there is definately a problem with your relationship!. i think you should talk with him and see if its a good idea to continue with it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No it isn't!. In a sense, it is a form of low self-esteem!. You want to have sex to feel wanted!. You don't need to treat yourself that way!. Know your self-worth!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
it's not okay
you can
contract sexual
diseases
also
you can obtain
an unhealthy addiction!.
try to find friends
or get a pet
or date
instead of self harming
things
if u ever need to talk email
meWww@Answer-Health@Com
you can
contract sexual
diseases
also
you can obtain
an unhealthy addiction!.
try to find friends
or get a pet
or date
instead of self harming
things
if u ever need to talk email
meWww@Answer-Health@Com