A couple of sex questions?!
Question: A couple of sex questions!?
Ok don't laugh at me!.!.!. I know nothing about sex and whats right and wrong!.
I'm 14 and still a virgin so please excuse my dumbness!.
No I'm not thinking about it I'm just curious!.
How do you know when it's right to have sex!?
Condoms: Is it one size fits all!?
How long does it usually last!?
Shave down there or no!?
What should be done about hair down there!?
Do you really bleed after that thing is broken after your first time!?
If so!.!.!. how much blood is there!?
When to do it!.!.!.!. like after you just finished your period is it ok to have sex, or do you wait!? Or is it okay right before!.!.!.or a couple weeks before!?
UGH I'm SOO CONFUSED!
Sex is a really confusing topic!.
Sex poses: are they neccassary your first time!?
Please help me!.!.!. and if you can answer all these questions for me that would be great!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm 14 and still a virgin so please excuse my dumbness!.
No I'm not thinking about it I'm just curious!.
How do you know when it's right to have sex!?
Condoms: Is it one size fits all!?
How long does it usually last!?
Shave down there or no!?
What should be done about hair down there!?
Do you really bleed after that thing is broken after your first time!?
If so!.!.!. how much blood is there!?
When to do it!.!.!.!. like after you just finished your period is it ok to have sex, or do you wait!? Or is it okay right before!.!.!.or a couple weeks before!?
UGH I'm SOO CONFUSED!
Sex is a really confusing topic!.
Sex poses: are they neccassary your first time!?
Please help me!.!.!. and if you can answer all these questions for me that would be great!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Do have anyone close to you, like a mother, you could speak with about this!? If not:
You'll know when its right when you find someone who you have deep feelings for and who treats you the way you believe you should be treated; someone who is just not there for sex, and there are a lot of them so you need to be careful!.
There are various sizes of condoms, but usually the normal size is adequate for the average guy!. Make sure you insist on using one every time unless you are planning on becoming a parent with the man!. Also there are a lot of sexually transmitted diseases you need to be very wary about!. Make sure your partner is 'clean' (see a doctor), and again, use the condom!.
Typically, sex last up 10-20 minutes!. For your first time this may be a lot less, because their may be some pain involved!.
Shaving is absolutely a personal choice!. Most males prefer their partner be shaved to some extent!. For males it seems to be less of an issue!. So this is completely up to you and your partner!.
When the hymen is broken/torn, their will be a bit of bleeding!. This is completely normal, and it should be done very gently!. It is important that you have a partner who understands that this is a delicate and special process!. Make sure its someone special to you who appreciates you!.
Sex poses/positions are not neccessary for the first time!. It should be done in such a way that provides you with the most comfort!. You can worry about different sex poses later, after you get some experience which is hopefully at least 4 years down the road!.
Ultimately, sex isn't something you'll fully understand from talking to someone over the internet!. A parent or good freind would be great to talk to about this!. Dont feel as though you need to rush into becoming sexually active!. Find the right guy and make the right decisions; otherwise, you may make some decision you will regret later!.
Hope this helps!. Dont worry!. It'll all come together for you!. You're just young!. Take it slow!. Dont let anything pressure you into sex, ever!. Only when its right for you, and you fully appreciate the possible consequences of having sex: pregnancy, STDs, emotional issues, etc!.!.!. Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You'll know when its right when you find someone who you have deep feelings for and who treats you the way you believe you should be treated; someone who is just not there for sex, and there are a lot of them so you need to be careful!.
There are various sizes of condoms, but usually the normal size is adequate for the average guy!. Make sure you insist on using one every time unless you are planning on becoming a parent with the man!. Also there are a lot of sexually transmitted diseases you need to be very wary about!. Make sure your partner is 'clean' (see a doctor), and again, use the condom!.
Typically, sex last up 10-20 minutes!. For your first time this may be a lot less, because their may be some pain involved!.
Shaving is absolutely a personal choice!. Most males prefer their partner be shaved to some extent!. For males it seems to be less of an issue!. So this is completely up to you and your partner!.
When the hymen is broken/torn, their will be a bit of bleeding!. This is completely normal, and it should be done very gently!. It is important that you have a partner who understands that this is a delicate and special process!. Make sure its someone special to you who appreciates you!.
Sex poses/positions are not neccessary for the first time!. It should be done in such a way that provides you with the most comfort!. You can worry about different sex poses later, after you get some experience which is hopefully at least 4 years down the road!.
Ultimately, sex isn't something you'll fully understand from talking to someone over the internet!. A parent or good freind would be great to talk to about this!. Dont feel as though you need to rush into becoming sexually active!. Find the right guy and make the right decisions; otherwise, you may make some decision you will regret later!.
Hope this helps!. Dont worry!. It'll all come together for you!. You're just young!. Take it slow!. Dont let anything pressure you into sex, ever!. Only when its right for you, and you fully appreciate the possible consequences of having sex: pregnancy, STDs, emotional issues, etc!.!.!. Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
At fourteen, you really shouldn't be thinking about sex!. If you have a older sister ask her, or and older cousins!. I would want my 14 yr old daughter to come to me!. So I would ask my mom, but leave out the part about the positions!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
haha!.
i'm 15 and still ask some of those questions so don't worry!.(:
erm, but i suggest you wait until marriage to have sex!.
please!.(:
you'll regret it if you don't!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i'm 15 and still ask some of those questions so don't worry!.(:
erm, but i suggest you wait until marriage to have sex!.
please!.(:
you'll regret it if you don't!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
How do you know when it's right to have sex!? When you are ready to risk pregnancy!.
Condoms: Is it one size fits all!? - generally, but not always
How long does it usually last!? - sex!? one minute to hours depending on pain, lube, arousal and your partner
Shave down there or no!? - personal choice
What should be done about hair down there!? - trim it if you like, wax or shave (shaving can be a pain)
Do you really bleed after that thing is broken after your first time!? Not all girls bleed the first time, not all have pain either!.
If so!.!.!. how much blood is there!? I don't know, I never bled!. I've read it shouldn't be much, unless you've been torn!.
When to do it!.!.!.!. like after you just finished your period is it ok to have sex, or do you wait!? Or is it okay right before!.!.!.or a couple weeks before!?
You have to really know your cycle if you are trying to avoid pregnancy!. Any time you have sex, you risk pregnancy!. Some girls get preg while on their period!.
Sex poses: are they neccassary your first time!? - no, mostly you want to be comfortable and use a position that brings you the least amount of pain!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Condoms: Is it one size fits all!? - generally, but not always
How long does it usually last!? - sex!? one minute to hours depending on pain, lube, arousal and your partner
Shave down there or no!? - personal choice
What should be done about hair down there!? - trim it if you like, wax or shave (shaving can be a pain)
Do you really bleed after that thing is broken after your first time!? Not all girls bleed the first time, not all have pain either!.
If so!.!.!. how much blood is there!? I don't know, I never bled!. I've read it shouldn't be much, unless you've been torn!.
When to do it!.!.!.!. like after you just finished your period is it ok to have sex, or do you wait!? Or is it okay right before!.!.!.or a couple weeks before!?
You have to really know your cycle if you are trying to avoid pregnancy!. Any time you have sex, you risk pregnancy!. Some girls get preg while on their period!.
Sex poses: are they neccassary your first time!? - no, mostly you want to be comfortable and use a position that brings you the least amount of pain!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
How do you know when it's right to have sex!?
Depending on your beliefs and morals, you might want to wait for marriage!. If not, wait until you're completely comfortable with the guy and trust him completely!.
Condoms: Is it one size fits all!?
No!. There's small, med, large
How long does it usually last!?
Actual sex itself - maybe 15 minutes!. Combining foreplay and afterplay though, it could last a couple hours
Shave down there or no!?
Personal preference
What should be done about hair down there!?
I would at least keep it trimmed
Do you really bleed after that thing is broken after your first time!?
Some people do, some don't
If so!.!.!. how much blood is there!?
It's noticeable, but not a lot at all
When to do it!.!.!.!. like after you just finished your period is it ok to have sex, or do you wait!? Or is it okay right before!.!.!.or a couple weeks before!?
Sex is okay anytime, really!. You can do it during your period, but for obvious reasons most people don't
Sex poses: are they neccassary your first time!?
Well, your first time you're going to be in a position!. Just experiment, there's tons of themWww@Answer-Health@Com
Depending on your beliefs and morals, you might want to wait for marriage!. If not, wait until you're completely comfortable with the guy and trust him completely!.
Condoms: Is it one size fits all!?
No!. There's small, med, large
How long does it usually last!?
Actual sex itself - maybe 15 minutes!. Combining foreplay and afterplay though, it could last a couple hours
Shave down there or no!?
Personal preference
What should be done about hair down there!?
I would at least keep it trimmed
Do you really bleed after that thing is broken after your first time!?
Some people do, some don't
If so!.!.!. how much blood is there!?
It's noticeable, but not a lot at all
When to do it!.!.!.!. like after you just finished your period is it ok to have sex, or do you wait!? Or is it okay right before!.!.!.or a couple weeks before!?
Sex is okay anytime, really!. You can do it during your period, but for obvious reasons most people don't
Sex poses: are they neccassary your first time!?
Well, your first time you're going to be in a position!. Just experiment, there's tons of themWww@Answer-Health@Com
when its right to have sex you will know but you asking this you know your not ready!.
condoms no not a 1 size fits all
how long does it last any where for 3 mins to 1 hr
but the regrets last for ever!.
yes you bleed after depends a few minutes to a longer period!. and sex can cause pregnancy so you might not have a period after!. and you are to young wait till you are 18 and old enough to rent adult movies then you will learn about all the positions!. but you need to smarten up on stds and all that before even acting on itWww@Answer-Health@Com
condoms no not a 1 size fits all
how long does it last any where for 3 mins to 1 hr
but the regrets last for ever!.
yes you bleed after depends a few minutes to a longer period!. and sex can cause pregnancy so you might not have a period after!. and you are to young wait till you are 18 and old enough to rent adult movies then you will learn about all the positions!. but you need to smarten up on stds and all that before even acting on itWww@Answer-Health@Com
1!.)I think you will know when the time is right, but right now is defitnetly not right!.
2!.)No there are different sizes of condoms for a male, they arrange in small medium large and x-large!.
3!.)time length it really depends on the guy and how experienced he is!.
4!.)its up to u if u want to shave or not, some guys like it trimmed up or shaved but dont just do it for them!.
5!.)same as number 4
6!.) yes
7!.) it should just be alittle bit of blood!. just depends on the girl!.
8!.) u can really do it anytime just make sure u are safe about it!. because you can also get pregnant anytime!.
9!.) no just go with the flow, whatever u feel comfortable with doing!.
but i still think u r too young to be worring about it right now, but I use to have a mom that i couldnt talk to so i know how hard it is!. if u dont feel comfortable talking with parents!. but i would still try and ask them on more of the detailsWww@Answer-Health@Com
2!.)No there are different sizes of condoms for a male, they arrange in small medium large and x-large!.
3!.)time length it really depends on the guy and how experienced he is!.
4!.)its up to u if u want to shave or not, some guys like it trimmed up or shaved but dont just do it for them!.
5!.)same as number 4
6!.) yes
7!.) it should just be alittle bit of blood!. just depends on the girl!.
8!.) u can really do it anytime just make sure u are safe about it!. because you can also get pregnant anytime!.
9!.) no just go with the flow, whatever u feel comfortable with doing!.
but i still think u r too young to be worring about it right now, but I use to have a mom that i couldnt talk to so i know how hard it is!. if u dont feel comfortable talking with parents!. but i would still try and ask them on more of the detailsWww@Answer-Health@Com
One of you last statements was the BEST on you said!. !.!.!.you are 14 y/o and want to know all these questions!. !.!.you said that "Sex is really a confusing topic"!.!.!.to adults who are old enough it's not confusing!. But to a person your age it might be so that means that you are not ready for it!.!.!.Maybe this is a conversation that you should be having with your mother!. Here on the internet is asking al these questions might not be the right place!. The questions you asked are goo!.!.!.but I think that a parent is the best person to talk about this type of personal issue with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well ur only 14 so no wonda u hav all these questions! don't forget u r only young so u have many experiences ahead of u!
1!. ur the only one to know when it's rite to have sex!. n u shudnt do it until ur ready! don't let anyone pressure u in2 havin sex b4 u r ready cuz u will 4get it!.
2!. ther r more than one size of condom!. teh regualrs are small, regular and large!.
3!. it can last until u both r satisfied or until ur partner is satisfied nyway! lol!
4!. if u want to shave down ther then it's up 2 u! hweva if u hav a boyfrend then i would ask his opinion on it 2 cuz sum boys prefer it 2 be 'clean' and others dnt! but if u shave it b4 u hav a boyfrend jst beaware of the fact wen u do hav a boyfrend ur goin 2 hav 2 warn him that ther is nothing down ther b4 u giv hima shock!
5!. it depends wat problem u hav! u can jst tidy it a bit so it's more let's say presentable!
6!. some people do and some people don't! hweva sum ppls 'hem' is brocken b4 they have sex due to all sorts of things, for example if u hav bin hit ther or u've done foreplay etc
7!. ther wudn't b a lot of blood jst a spec to be honest
8!. you can hav sex wen eva u want! hweva to be honest it wud b beta not 2 hav sex wen ur on ur period cuz it's not very nice!
9!. people generaly go the normal position which is missonary!. wher the boy is on top of the girl!.
hope that helped xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
1!. ur the only one to know when it's rite to have sex!. n u shudnt do it until ur ready! don't let anyone pressure u in2 havin sex b4 u r ready cuz u will 4get it!.
2!. ther r more than one size of condom!. teh regualrs are small, regular and large!.
3!. it can last until u both r satisfied or until ur partner is satisfied nyway! lol!
4!. if u want to shave down ther then it's up 2 u! hweva if u hav a boyfrend then i would ask his opinion on it 2 cuz sum boys prefer it 2 be 'clean' and others dnt! but if u shave it b4 u hav a boyfrend jst beaware of the fact wen u do hav a boyfrend ur goin 2 hav 2 warn him that ther is nothing down ther b4 u giv hima shock!
5!. it depends wat problem u hav! u can jst tidy it a bit so it's more let's say presentable!
6!. some people do and some people don't! hweva sum ppls 'hem' is brocken b4 they have sex due to all sorts of things, for example if u hav bin hit ther or u've done foreplay etc
7!. ther wudn't b a lot of blood jst a spec to be honest
8!. you can hav sex wen eva u want! hweva to be honest it wud b beta not 2 hav sex wen ur on ur period cuz it's not very nice!
9!. people generaly go the normal position which is missonary!. wher the boy is on top of the girl!.
hope that helped xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
If you are going to ask people on the internet then we may as well be honest answering you!. Lol, you don't worry about sex right now!. It is too complicated!. Condoms are generally a couple of sizes!. It is important to use the right one because it can break if it is not the right size!. You have to pull it down (it is rolled like a sock) over his penis then pull the little air pocket at the top a little loose because without that when he comes, the condom may break and you may get pregnant (Like I have four times)!. There are two reasons women shave, and I don't believe taking it all off is healthy!. Pubic hair is on us to protect that hole from getting dirt in it!. However, in this day and age we are very clean creatures and shaving cause men don't like our curlies in their faces is popular!. You can go to a salon and get a bikini wax!. Brazilian bikini wax is probably statistically most wanted by men!. Sex poses, that is like taking pics!? No!. Do not ever let someone do that!. Poses like something you do!.!.!. I don't know what that is!. Sex lasts until he comes or until one of you tire out, lol, as it seems for me these days!. Don't have more than your body can handle!. There should not be too much blood when you lose your virginity!. It should not be like a period but maybe spotting for a couple of days!. I do not recommend having sex while you have your period for young people, although older men don't seem to care, because they want sex more than they can wait!. It is too messy and at first I think you should just focus on making habits while you do that!. One wash your vagina a little first!. Wash well after!. Pee immediately after sex, both you and your mate!. It may or may not help get some of the foreign body out!. You should never bleed after sex!. Once you start, start getting annual pap smears!. If you live in Canada there is a vaccination for HPV you need to consider since it's free here, now!. Then once you can think about this stuff as easily as I can and multi-task it into a routine, you are at an age you can have sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com