About painful sex ?!?!?!


Question: About painful sex !?!!?!!?
so i sort of had sex but it was hurting so much i had to stop but i was wondering, next time will it hurt that bad becuase before even when i was being fingered (sorry about the language) it was really hurting!. do you think it could just be me and its just as far as i go!? cuase also i was bleeding a bit and i figure it was my hymen, do you tihnk i will bleed next time!? for some people, is there jsut a point where it can not go any further and that is why it hurts!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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every woman is different!. i read in one of the woman's magazine that there are woman who has thicker hymens than others, that's why they bleed more than others!.!. and there's also other woman who doen's bleed at all even though they're still virgin!.

i still haven't experienced having sex myself but i'm trying to open up my mind and read alot of articles about!. (honsetly, i'm really scared of having sex, but probably if i get married i will give it a try :-) )!. as for my sister's experience she told me about it, she said it really hurt the first time but after several times they both enjoyed it!. and it's nice to have a great sex eh!? hehehehe!.

i also have alot of friends who told me about their experience and i also asked them the same question!.!. they say if you don't want a painful sex, try a longer foreplay and probab;y use some lubricants!. (and i take note of that) it just takes time, just be patient and "let yourself loose" feel free!.!. and forget about the pain because it'll hurt more if you think that it'll hurt!.!. it's like going in to the dental office (where i work)!.!.!. we have different perspectives about different things but try to open up your minds and try not to think about the negative things of life!.!.!. tell yourself it'll not hurt!. and talk to your bf or husband about it!.!.!. a gyne can also help you with this!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Alright well!.!.
You know you have to be wet before anything penetrates you or it will really hurt!. If you weren't wet, you weren't into it and you were doing it for the wrong reasons!.

My first time having sex hurt so much at first but I decided to just ignore it for like 30 seconds and see what happens!. It stopped hurting after a minute or so but I was still uncomfortable!. Maybe like your 3rd or 4th time you will get used to the feeling!.!.!.

You probably wont bleed the next time!.

Good luck!? Haha :PWww@Answer-Health@Com

if your partner was hurting you and kept going, that's not someone who deserves to be touching you in such an intimate place!. if you were a virgin, it may have been your hymen, but if the digital stimulation (fingering) was too rough, your partner may have scratched you!. make sure you keep your nails trimmed and clean and free of jagged edges and hangnails before you touch yourself, and make sure your partners do the same when touching you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Most of the time you only bleed the first time, it can be differnet for all girls, some bleed a little/ a lot/none, some find it fine/sore!.!. but majority dont find it very relaxed or like they expected so when u get more use of it and relax a little( i presume you were nervous) u will probally find it a lot easierWww@Answer-Health@Com

every girl is different!. usually pain means something is wrong!. or if you have no other std symptoms, maybe its cuz your body is not ready yet!. and your probably nervous and everything!. you need to be comfortable with your partner!. this is why sex is for mature adults!. be safe!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It the fingering was hurting and caused bleeding I think you need to take it a lot slower!. Dont even think about sex yet until you are relaxed, more than likely it will hrt the first time but fingering should not be that painful!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if it hurts inside then somthing is wrong but if it just gets sore around te out side then you are fine you should get checked out to be sure everything is working properlyWww@Answer-Health@Com

You are too young! That's why it hurts!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well i hope hes doing it right! but it could be normal about the bleeding!. and my opinion i dont think that u would bleed next time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you probably just need to get your hymen out of the way, when that's gone it'll probably be fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

u wont probably bleed next time!.!.!.all normal!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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