Doctor looks in private parts?!
Question: Doctor looks in private parts!?
OMG! please help!
i have a doctors appt!. tomorrow, with some male doctor i dont know, im a 13 yr old female
the thing is all my friends have had their annual exam already, and my mom is NOT changing the date, or the fact that hes male! all my friends say the feel your boobs, ask you to take off your shirt so they can check (UR PARENTS STAY IN THE ROOM WITH THEM WHILE THIS HAPPENS) tell u to take off your underwear, and look 'down their', but i want a female docotor! please help, idk what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i have a doctors appt!. tomorrow, with some male doctor i dont know, im a 13 yr old female
the thing is all my friends have had their annual exam already, and my mom is NOT changing the date, or the fact that hes male! all my friends say the feel your boobs, ask you to take off your shirt so they can check (UR PARENTS STAY IN THE ROOM WITH THEM WHILE THIS HAPPENS) tell u to take off your underwear, and look 'down their', but i want a female docotor! please help, idk what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
OMG! I'm so sorry! Make sure it's a girl!. I don't even think a man is ALLOWED to!. I don't think you take off your shirt!. But they do feel!. And they feel down there!. But you don't remove your undies!.!.
At least that's what my friends have said! LOL!. Just wear a pad like normal!.!.!.Or tampon!. Whichever!.
ADDITION: Your mom sounds strict! And my biggest fear is shots too! Woww! LOLWww@Answer-Health@Com
At least that's what my friends have said! LOL!. Just wear a pad like normal!.!.!.Or tampon!. Whichever!.
ADDITION: Your mom sounds strict! And my biggest fear is shots too! Woww! LOLWww@Answer-Health@Com
unless theres a serious problem with your health such as fear of breast cancer under NO CIRCUMSTANCES should the doctor feel your breasts do not let this happen! and unless your sexually active and havin a std/smear or whatever test UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES should the doctor look or touch ur vagina! do not let this happen! u can insist on a female doctor and they have to give you one-just talk to your mother, and ur goin for a injection-no injection requires you takin all your clothes off!.!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like BS!. Why are 13 year olds going to the gyno!? Unless you're sexually active, there is no need to go at that age!.
EDIT: If you aren't going to a gyno, and just going for your regular physical- they won't look at your boobs or private parts!. It will just be the same as your last physical!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
EDIT: If you aren't going to a gyno, and just going for your regular physical- they won't look at your boobs or private parts!. It will just be the same as your last physical!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know how you feel , i went to a male doctor 2 times for female reasons - and never again i felt so uncomfortable when they did a breast exam ,etc!.so now i only go to females!. just tell your mum you really feel uncomfortable going to a male!. good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have the same problem I have been on my period for about a month and my mom is taking me to the doctor!.!.!.!.!.I am SO scared!.!.!. I guess we will just have to suck it up :(!.!.!.!.!. My aunt is a reproduction doctor and said that its just their job!.!.!.but who wants that job!!!!!! Hope you get through your dilemma and I hope I do too!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, there isn't anything that we can do but to tell you to tell your mom you are not comfortable that a man is going to look at you!. Try to convince her to change the doctor!. It doesn't take much to change the doctor!. Hope this helps!.!. And good luck!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have a mature serious talk with your mom about your fears of having a male doctor examine you!. I don't blame you for being nervous about that!
If you're on your period, you should cancel the appt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you're on your period, you should cancel the appt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can request a female doctor!. If your mom is too embarrassed to ask for one, you can tell the doctor yourself before he begins!. You can also tell the nurse!.
Where do you live, in Canada!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Where do you live, in Canada!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
To physicians you're just anatomy!. And they''ve seen all kinds!. Hair is nothing new to them!. Boobs are just fat!.
The examination is to see if you are healthy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The examination is to see if you are healthy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
im pretty sure if ur a girl u automatically get a woman doctor 2 chk u up where as a guy gets a male doctor!. Well at least at my doctors!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
your probaly just going for a checkup they wont do any of that stuff calm down it will be ok trust me you dont go to a doctor like that till 18Www@Answer-Health@Com
my friend im soooo sorry your so upset! the guy sees like 100 vajayjays a week!.!.!. yours wont be any different! and also as long as you get done what you need, who really cares what the doctor thinks!? you shouldnt! the doctors really dont think anything of this, but our embarassed minds cant seem to get over it! im 14 and i was supposed to get some sort of sh*t exam lol but refused since im the biggest chicken ever!. the gyno is what the doctor is called!. everything will be okay, i promise you! =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
above all you need to realize that this man is a doctor, and he is just there to make sure you are healthy!. if you really can't get your doctor changed, then just remember, he is a doctor!. he is a professional!. and most of all, he has seen it all!. looking at private parts probably don't even phase doctors after a while!
you can ask your parents to leave the room too!. i know my mom doesn't stay in the room when i have physicals!. i would not like my mom in the room if the doctors examining my areas ha!.
and if you are on your period, tell the doctor!. they probably won't look then!. instead, they could just check everything else, and you could schedule an appointment for next week or something and ask for a female doctor that time! also, if you think of any questions between now and then (or if there are just questions you would rather as a female doctor) you could ask then!.
hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you can ask your parents to leave the room too!. i know my mom doesn't stay in the room when i have physicals!. i would not like my mom in the room if the doctors examining my areas ha!.
and if you are on your period, tell the doctor!. they probably won't look then!. instead, they could just check everything else, and you could schedule an appointment for next week or something and ask for a female doctor that time! also, if you think of any questions between now and then (or if there are just questions you would rather as a female doctor) you could ask then!.
hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am guessing this is a gyneacological exam that you are getting!? If not, then he will not be venturing to your genitalia!. If so, he's probably seen hundreds of patients who have had nerves much like yourself!. Gynaecologists aim to have exams over with in about 15 minutes, you're young, so chances are you won't be getting a pap or anything like that!. You'll be fine!. You aren't the only one who will have gone to a doctor's appointment with ungroomed pubic hair and on your period!. He's a professional!. Your parents stand behind a curtain if they are in the room with you and so they can't see anything!.
If it's not a gyno, then he won't be examining your vagina!. The closest he'll get is perhaps checking the pulse near your pubic bone (you have underwear on while he does this), the closest he gets to your boobs is to check your breathing!.!.!.You have nothing to worry about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If it's not a gyno, then he won't be examining your vagina!. The closest he'll get is perhaps checking the pulse near your pubic bone (you have underwear on while he does this), the closest he gets to your boobs is to check your breathing!.!.!.You have nothing to worry about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com