Why don't I feel right about it and other women do?!


Question: Why don't I feel right about it and other women do!?
I've seen so many questions here about masturbation!.!.!.!. girls masturbating!.!. and it seems like they think it's so natural!.!.!.
Why don't I feel right about it!? I mean, i have done it and feels good, but it doesn't feel right!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Don't pay attention to the negative comments!. I'm the same way!. I'd just feel weird doing it to myself, and I'd just rather have a guy pleasure me!. Maybe it's because the guy I'm with is amazing (lol), but I can't bring myself to be that comfortable with it!.

I don't think there's anything wrong with masturbation!. Hell, I'd be the first to admit that I masturbate!. It has nothing to do with sexual repression (although sometimes religion does play a part in it), some people just want others to pleasure them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's just sexual guilt, unlike men women grew up believing we were meant to be asexual or considered sinful, plus religion takes a very dim view on it, masturbation=less kids=Less members=Lesscash for pastors/priests/rabbi's etc!.!.!.!.Have you ever noticed how a man who sleeps around is called a STUD while a woman who does the same is called a S__T!
Maybe that is why so many women lie or minimize their sexual experience, for example, a guy tells his pals he has had 20 women (when in fact it was 7 counting his cousin) while a woman may tell her pals: Oh I've just had three! When it fact it has been 24 not counting that time she got drunk and lost count!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You probably feel guilty about it right!? That's how I used to feel!. Its probably because women think that its bad for them to masturbate which it isn't!. In fact it's healthy!. It helps reduce stress and lets out the same phermones as you do when you eat chocolate! Interesting right!? And people also think its okay for men and boys to do it because i dont know why, but it is for women too!. we're just not open about it!. After awhile the "guilty feeling" goes away and you just have to remember that almost 90% of women masturbate!. Crazy!. Goodluck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

you likely had a repressive upbringing!. masturbation is a totally natural activity!.!.!.!. but if you are sexually repressed!.!.!.well it's going to seem naughty or nasty!. If it is really bothering you, suggest you see a cognitive behavioral therapist and get working on your issues!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Only you know what feels the best to you, and teaching your partner how to can be the best thing for your sex life! If you are comfortable with him, got for it, only you can control the way you feel about something!
If it feels good, just do it!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hey I don't feel right about it either but its a natural event that takes place with all mammals!. I don't do it often but I have in the past!. Guys tend to be more open to this and feel its OK!. Why!? I guess its due to knowing who you are and feeling good about yourself!. I think each one of us has there own needs and some take matters in there own hand!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You will get used to it!. There is nothing wrong with a little pleasure!. Almost all girls do it and guys too!. It is a natual way of making your body feel good!. Society can make people feel bad if they are mastubating but, it is none of anyone's business what you do in your bed at night!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

There is a stigma out there that people should be ashamed of masterbation!. You're the only one that should worry about it!. Maybe you're not in a place where you can enjoy yourself and your worried about being caught!. Remove all distractions!. Then polish that pearl till she shines!Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's probably sexual hangups you are having!. Sometimes things are inbedded in our subconscious that make us form the feelings we have!. There is nothing wrong with pleasing yourself!.!.and I think if you delve into what your hangups are, you will have more fun with it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If it doesn't feel right than don't do it :) Just because other people like it doesn't mean you have to love it!. Don't worry what other people think!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You probably don't feel right about it because it's not right for you, just don't do it if it doesn't feel right!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it's different for everyone !.!.!.!.I'd rather not do it !.!.!.!.it's just not for me personally !.!.!.but hey, whatever floats your boat !!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

how old are you

some people may like it more than others

dont feel like - oh!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.this is not right!.!.!.!.!.

sometimes it can make you feel better

it takes time to feel right about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ummmm - it is natural & most important it's ok!. but if you don't feel its right then just abstain from doing it at all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if you dont like it, dont do it!. Dont worry too much about other people and follow your own beliefs!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

because you too uppitty snotty just relaxWww@Answer-Health@Com

dont worry about it - some women love it other are not for it
its no big dealWww@Answer-Health@Com





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