Bras and mommy's not the best combo?!


Question: Bras and mommy's not the best combo!?
ok, so yesterday i went shopping at khols with my mom and she asked me if i wanted a new bra(ive has the same style of bra's sience 5th grade, sportsbraish type, no padding) and im like sure, mine don't fit me anymore ( i have grown very much throuought those 3 years) there are no bras in my size in the style that i usually wear!. and i do fit in the padded type because ive worn my friends spending the night ect!. so she goes up and down the isle SQUISHING all of the bras and saying "nope, too much padding" to each one!. she took me out o fthe isle to go and buy shoes!.

i need a new bra, and i need a padded one!.!.!.im poking out of my old ones! and i need more support than these bra's give me now! but i can;t talk to my mom about it!. and even if she bought me a new bra, it wouldn't be padded!. and you are all going to say, just talk to her, but i have no relationship with my mom what so ever!. and she does not intend to make one!.

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Answers:
Its obviously time to start wearing padded bras, not the sports bra type!. My mom was much like this when I was growing up, and im not sure why!. Since you don't have much of a relationship with your mother, or don't feel comfortable talking to her about it, then maybe you should go out with your friends and buy some bras that you actually want!.
Or, just tell your mom that your growing up and you need a bra thats actually going to fit you, not one that a 10 year old girl would wear!.
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Do you earn an allowance!? Could you find some money to just go and buy your own bra!? Or, maybe you have another trusted female family member that you could talk to about this!? Your mom really should allow you to get the bras that you feel comfy in and need!. She's prob just having anxiety about you growing up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe ask your mum for money and say your getting a new bra , as the other don't fit !. Get measured and ask whats suitable for your age and never get a wired one it can damage tissue when your growing !.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well they should make your sportsbra's in any size because my breasts are not small and their the only kind of bra's i will wear!. But if its due to the padding that she will not buy them try to reason it out like this bra is gonna make all the guys look at my breasts so no!.!.!.!.but this one over here has a little padding but if i get cold guys wont be starting at my breasts!.!.!. A little padding is always a good thing but try them on to make sure you feel comfortable with that bra, that it gives you support, and that it's for thoe reasons only!.

My children will never purchase anything such as push-up bra's and jelly bra's with my money either im not telling them to go have sex so i can understand your mothers point as well!.!.!.Just explain to her that you really need a bra and try working out an agreement on what you can getWww@Answer-Health@Com

Talk to one of your girlfriends & see if they have an extra bra they dont like or just dont wear much!. If it fits then youll know your bra size that way!. Or you could get a tape measure & measure right below your breast 1st, then measure your breast if its 1-2 inches more then the number from under your breast thats an A if its 2-3 inches more thats a B if its 3-4 inches more its C & so on!. If you have money you could always check out ebay!. Or other online auctions like the ones on livejournal!. Most of the girls on the livejournal auctions are teens who pay with consealed cash so you wouldnt even have to have paypal or a bank account!. I hope this helps!. good luck


http://community!.livejournal!.com/auction!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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