When should i tell her about my STD?!


Question: When should i tell her about my STD!?
I've been in a kind of courtship with this girl for two weeks!. So far, its all over the phone and internet because we live on opposite sides of the country right now!. But she really likes me and she says that as soon as I move back home (in about a month) she wants to start a relationship, including sexual activity!.

So far, we've been really open with each other and gained each other's trust!. But there's one thing I haven't told her yet, and that's that I have an STD!. It's anal warts for those of you who must know!. Yes, I know, its pretty gross!. Its a medical problem for me and its something I've been consulting doctors to get rid of but so far I still have it!. Its not necessarily the end of the world, and the doctors say the risk of spreading it to a partner is low if we take precautions and just avoid any contact with the skin in the area of the anus (its only located there!.!.!.not on the penis)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I think you should tell her as soon as you can work up the courage to do so!. Tell her everything you have told us and see what she wants to do from there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

how old are u and what r the chance you are going to meet u need to tell her b4 u meet how the heck did u get thatWww@Answer-Health@Com

Shell think your an even bigger man if you tell her
My brother doesn't tell anyone that he has herpes, what an asholeWww@Answer-Health@Com

better sooner than later!.!.!.!.do not have any relations until you tell herWww@Answer-Health@Com

I would tell her the sooner the better!.

Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell her NOW!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Im so sorry!.!.!.!. you should tell her before yall meet up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The sooner the better!. Just imagine!.!. things can spiral out of control!.!. one minute you're on the phone, the next minute you're in bed together!.!. and I can't think of anything that would ruin the sexual appetite more then a partner telling me about their STD right before we're getting ready to do it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You say that maybe you should wait to tell her because she will get to know you more and be more understanding!.!.!. that could be true, but at the same time, she might be really upset that you took such a change and strung her along for your own benefit!.

Personally, I think she deserves to know, and deserves to know right now!. She is planning out her life with you, in her head, and you owe it to her to tell her!. I am far more upset with people when they hold things back, for however long, than when they just tell me straight up!. Just tell her!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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