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I think that even though some men prefer thin women over larger women!. What should really matter is the compadability between the two for the true beauty lies within oneself!.Unfortunately so often someone will want not what they need ,and end up with something else not good for anyone!. We all see the models and TV personalities and sometimes wish that we could or should be able to pick however if I have learned anything it is that the most beautiful women usually suffer with self-image falter and with just a little exercise and change in diet can attain their wishes!. I was chubby my whole life until I started a more healthy living regimen and, now still carry my reserves but don't worry about image as much as the next person!.What is important is that you are happy and not miserable all the time!. We all suffer with pressures of this world and the only way to handle it is day by day by day!.The thing you have to ask yourself is are you living a Christian Life and all the rest will follow afterwards!.Don't worry about what people think for there is only one that matters anyway,and I don't care what anybody says about that! Jesus loves you and will show you to your goals!.God bless you and help you be content with all !.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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I was very thin most of my life!. So for me I think it has to do with likes being attracted to each other!. Overweight can mean many things!. In our youth I think we are attracted to fit women because to a certain degree it is part of nature that we pick the best, strongest, and most fit partner to make babies with!. I think that is a throw back to the cavemen days when making strong babies was important!.

What I don't like about overweight women is the fact that they often have addictive personalities!. I've been attracted to women from thin to very large, (300lbs)!. But I need the stability of a non-addicted person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Hon, don't worry!. Not all guys prefer thin women!. Positive attitudes and self confidence is a lasting attractiveness!.

I know!. I used to be very slender (36 23 36) and while I received a lot of attention, I found that I was only concentrating on how I looked, was insecure and needed constant external validation to feel happy with myself!. In other words very high emotional maintenance!.

I ended up gaining 40 pounds due to a medical condition, and was so mortified with my appearance, I wouldn't leave the house for quite awhile as I did not want anyone to see me like that!.

Surprisingly, once I started going out again, I noticed that I was still getting attention from men!. After having all my beliefs shattered, I asked some of them why they asked me out!. The response was always that they liked my appearance, sense of humour and my smile made me seem more approachable!. One even told me that he knew I wouldn't be taken out for an $80!.00 meal and only eat two croutons lol!.

I have slowly been loosing some of the weight and I have still maintained my sense of humour now that I know that there is a big difference between first glance pretty and all around beauty!. I am more confident, happy and dating men that treat me well and look beyond the superficial!.

One thing to keep in mind is that men are visual and it is natural for them to instinctively choose a thin woman as they appear to be younger and more fertile!.

There is definitely a new revolution starting for women!. We are not expected to be anorexic thin like we once were!. Models are gaining weight, songs are made for larger women, women are learning that the old idea of perfect size and beauty is totally unrealistic and we are appreciating our uniqueness more and more especially to shows such as "how to look good naked" !. If you get a chance watch it!. It is very female friendly and positive!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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b/c they are retarded and don't realize that they are making girls go anerexic!. i'm really not sure why!. i guess that some men like women w/ a little more fat on them; but most of them just think that skinny girls are hot!. why do they care so much!? beauty shouldn't be about what someone weighs; but about personality and what they are like on the inside!.good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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if you are overweight and a guy turns you down for your weight,don't worry about it!. that guy is a jerk for only thinking about the out side!.

Anyways some guys like skinny girls (they always turn out to be mean) and some like pudgy girls!. I've herd that more like them pudgy though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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most guys do, but some love BBWs (Big Beautiful Women)!.!.!.personality really matters, or at least it should!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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