First Time Sex?!
Question: First Time Sex!?
me and my gf are havin sex for the first time (both virgins)!. We have been dating now for 8 months!. I have fingered her before and she has given me a bj and hj before!. So we are both somewhat familiar with each others' body!.
Well, I have a few questions!.
1!. *I hear mixed opinions on this*
--Will this hurt for her!?
---What can i do to make it hurt less!?
2!. What is the best lube to use!?
-- I have been recommended a few different types
a!. Astroglide
b!. WET (original or light [if you recommend this, please recommend original or light])
c!.Pjur EROS Original Body Glide
(i hear this is hard to clean though because it is silicone)
3!. What is the best condom for max sensitivity!?
--I have been recommended
a!. Crown Skinless
b!. Durex Extra Sensitive
c!. Beyond Seven
d!. Trojan Elexa Ultra Sensitive
Now we are just worried about pregnancy!.
We are both clean (no STDs, no STIs, etc!.)
BUT PLEASE PLEASE,
explain why you recommend whatever you do!.
& it can be any, not just what i listed!.
Thanks!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, I have a few questions!.
1!. *I hear mixed opinions on this*
--Will this hurt for her!?
---What can i do to make it hurt less!?
2!. What is the best lube to use!?
-- I have been recommended a few different types
a!. Astroglide
b!. WET (original or light [if you recommend this, please recommend original or light])
c!.Pjur EROS Original Body Glide
(i hear this is hard to clean though because it is silicone)
3!. What is the best condom for max sensitivity!?
--I have been recommended
a!. Crown Skinless
b!. Durex Extra Sensitive
c!. Beyond Seven
d!. Trojan Elexa Ultra Sensitive
Now we are just worried about pregnancy!.
We are both clean (no STDs, no STIs, etc!.)
BUT PLEASE PLEASE,
explain why you recommend whatever you do!.
& it can be any, not just what i listed!.
Thanks!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
1a) It might hurt, but the experience differs from woman to woman!. for some it may be extremely painful for others not!. in many instances the woman has already broken the hymen (tampons, being fingered etc)!.
b) use a lot of lube (will come back to this point)!. Take it slow!. follow her directions!. go slower if she asks you to, or to stop when she is uncomfortable!.
2) when considering lubricant, look for a water based lube (KY jelly) is an excellent option since it is waterbased!. waterbased is better because the efficacy of the condom isnt compromised!. oil based lubes can weaken the condom causing it to break, so stay away from them!!!
3) for extra sensitivity!.!.!.!.!.i'd go for durex extra safe!.!.!.the condom is a bit thicker but it also has a bit of extra lube!. that might put the both of you at ease when it comes to pregnancy!. although no condom is 100% effective!. i can also recommend durex ribbed condoms!. it has different textures which hightens pleasure!. durex also makes different lubes, which could enhance pleasure for both of you, like tingle or hot - they should be water based!.!.!.just double check!. Always remember to follow the instructions on the box for condoms to work more efficiently:
- check for expiration date on the condoms
- no not bite or cut open the packer, use the tear things to open it
- remember to squeeze out the air of the tip of the condom when putting it on, and make sure no air comes into the condom when putting it on!.
- do not use a condom more than 1 time
- put on a new one EACH time you have a go at it
- expose of the condom properly
be safe, good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
b) use a lot of lube (will come back to this point)!. Take it slow!. follow her directions!. go slower if she asks you to, or to stop when she is uncomfortable!.
2) when considering lubricant, look for a water based lube (KY jelly) is an excellent option since it is waterbased!. waterbased is better because the efficacy of the condom isnt compromised!. oil based lubes can weaken the condom causing it to break, so stay away from them!!!
3) for extra sensitivity!.!.!.!.!.i'd go for durex extra safe!.!.!.the condom is a bit thicker but it also has a bit of extra lube!. that might put the both of you at ease when it comes to pregnancy!. although no condom is 100% effective!. i can also recommend durex ribbed condoms!. it has different textures which hightens pleasure!. durex also makes different lubes, which could enhance pleasure for both of you, like tingle or hot - they should be water based!.!.!.just double check!. Always remember to follow the instructions on the box for condoms to work more efficiently:
- check for expiration date on the condoms
- no not bite or cut open the packer, use the tear things to open it
- remember to squeeze out the air of the tip of the condom when putting it on, and make sure no air comes into the condom when putting it on!.
- do not use a condom more than 1 time
- put on a new one EACH time you have a go at it
- expose of the condom properly
be safe, good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
How old are you!? I was just wondering!.
It will hurt somewhat, it is different for everybody!. Maybe less for her since you have already fingered her!.
Just take it slow and if she says stop or slow down, do it!.
Use whatever lube you like!.
Trojan is always the best!.
I'm glad you are asking about her and caring instead of just being excited your going to "score"!. If only all guys were like this!. =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
It will hurt somewhat, it is different for everybody!. Maybe less for her since you have already fingered her!.
Just take it slow and if she says stop or slow down, do it!.
Use whatever lube you like!.
Trojan is always the best!.
I'm glad you are asking about her and caring instead of just being excited your going to "score"!. If only all guys were like this!. =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
1!. it's going to hurt her and the only thing you can do is be gental!.
2!. don't use a lubricant, there's lube already on condoms and most lubes have an ingredient that can cause a yeast infection from hell (found that out the hard way)!.
3!. trojan are definetely the best, try ultra thin, it's just as efective as regular but feels A LOT better!.
btw, i didn't think anyone waited that long to have sex anymore, i mean the age not 8 months together!. i was only 16!. and i'm not with that guy anymore!. but, i've only been with 2 guys!. but congrats on not making that mistake!. just make sure that you really love her and want to be with her for the rest of your life before you go through with this!. and just to give some hint as to how to set the mood!. get a nice hotel room, dim the lights, lights some candles (careful not to knock them over) you can't tell her you love her to much!. good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
2!. don't use a lubricant, there's lube already on condoms and most lubes have an ingredient that can cause a yeast infection from hell (found that out the hard way)!.
3!. trojan are definetely the best, try ultra thin, it's just as efective as regular but feels A LOT better!.
btw, i didn't think anyone waited that long to have sex anymore, i mean the age not 8 months together!. i was only 16!. and i'm not with that guy anymore!. but, i've only been with 2 guys!. but congrats on not making that mistake!. just make sure that you really love her and want to be with her for the rest of your life before you go through with this!. and just to give some hint as to how to set the mood!. get a nice hotel room, dim the lights, lights some candles (careful not to knock them over) you can't tell her you love her to much!. good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
okay!.!.well, it hurt for me my first few times so it probably will for her since she's a virgin!.!.so just take it slow and if she says its hurting, then stop!.!.make sure you let her know its okay to talk to you and let you know when it hurts or if she cant go any further!.!.be comfortable with each other!
i personally have never used lube because my bf and i have never needed it!.!.!.our bodies make plenty of lubrication on their own lol!.!.but if i were to try one, i think id get that new KY one thats designed to pleasure both you AND her!.!.or a lube that warms cause that just seems cool!.
my bf and i always use durex and havent had a problem yet!.!.the extra sensitive feel good for both me and him so we see no reason to try anything else!. ive never heard of crown skinless or beyond seven so based on that alone, id use either trojan or durex!.
i think its really sweet of you to take into consideration how your gf is gonna feel and that you want to take all the necessary precautions before having sex!.
good luck and have fun because sex is such a special thing!.!.and remember, you can only lose your virginity once so make sure this is what both of you want!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i personally have never used lube because my bf and i have never needed it!.!.!.our bodies make plenty of lubrication on their own lol!.!.but if i were to try one, i think id get that new KY one thats designed to pleasure both you AND her!.!.or a lube that warms cause that just seems cool!.
my bf and i always use durex and havent had a problem yet!.!.the extra sensitive feel good for both me and him so we see no reason to try anything else!. ive never heard of crown skinless or beyond seven so based on that alone, id use either trojan or durex!.
i think its really sweet of you to take into consideration how your gf is gonna feel and that you want to take all the necessary precautions before having sex!.
good luck and have fun because sex is such a special thing!.!.and remember, you can only lose your virginity once so make sure this is what both of you want!Www@Answer-Health@Com