Defloration?!
Question: Defloration!?
yes the spelling is correct!. anyway i want to know because my girlfriend really wants to have sex!. its our first time!. we are both virgins!. i can handle it, but i know it hurts for them!. she can barley take 2 fingers, so can anyone give me answers except "take it slow"(btw, i know that, we were going to do it but it hurt her so i stopped) "lots of foreplay" (we did) "use lubricants" ( we!.!.!.didnt!.!.!.) and "dont do it at all"!.!.!. c'mon, do i need to explain the last one at all!? besides, i really love her, so its not like i'm going to hit it then quit it!. my birth dad did that to my mom!.!.!.!. so ya!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
The first time will hurt no matter what!. Your best bet is to use LOTS of KY Liquid lube and, instead of taking it slow, give one hard fast thrust to break the hymen!.!.!. after that it shouldn't hurt so much!. Right now you're probably just bumping into her hymen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
how old are you both!? if you think you're bothe ready then go ahead!.!.!. just be very gentle to her and control yourself!. listen to what she feels!.
my first time was so painful coz we didnt use lubricants!.!.!. i was bleeding for 2 days!. but dont let this scare you off, every woman is different, others just dont bleed at all!
good luck to both of you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
my first time was so painful coz we didnt use lubricants!.!.!. i was bleeding for 2 days!. but dont let this scare you off, every woman is different, others just dont bleed at all!
good luck to both of you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Actually it wont hurt as much for her if she really REALLY wants to do this!. If she is relaxed and really wants to with you, her lower muscels down there will relax to!. It will make it better for both of you!. Good luck to you! oooh and use KY his and hers jel!Www@Answer-Health@Com