I'm 17 and want a baby bad?!
Question: I'm 17 and want a baby bad!?
I know I'm young and I'm NOT having kids until I get married!. I just can't stop thinking about it!. I know I am NOT ready!. I know it would be a big mistake!. It's just a lot of girls at school are pregnant!. I guess I'm a little jealous because I wanna be a mom!. I have always wanted kids since I was a little girl!. I talked to my mom and said said it's just a phase and hormones!. I'm a virgin btw!. How do I not think about babies!? Please don't yell at me because I'm not going to get pregnant!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Ava I have baby fever too!. Go to a day care and see if you can help out!. I did that now I know I'm not ready!. There is nothing wrong with wanting a baby!. Just wait!. Kids need a mom and dad!. Btw I think it's your hormones too!. Believe me you DON'T want to be a teen mom!. My friend Chelsea spends her nights feeding a baby & changing diapers!. You're a smart girl!. Like I said I want a baby too!. We have more then enough time to become mothersWww@Answer-Health@Com
ok well to fix your baby longing i suggest you ask your friend, who has a baby, to spend the night at her house and everytime the baby crys during the night you get up and take care of the baby ,about every 2 hours, instead of her and then go to school the next day id say spend the night at this friends house for about a week and that will fix all the problems!.
i was 18 when i first got pregnant with my daugther zoe who now is 2!. which now leaves me at 21 years today!. i feel sufforcated because not only did i have her but had another child who is only 15 month apart from zoe!. she is now 1!. you do not want to throw every freedom you can ever have, out the window just cuz you saw some other kids at school with babys
belive me i know cuz i did that and now i feel sad and mad at myself for it!. it wasnt the only reason!. but it did happen for me and now my life will be put on hold for at least 5-10 years litterally + when the get older the start throwing fits everywere and they take off there diapers and you can only guess what happens thenWww@Answer-Health@Com
i was 18 when i first got pregnant with my daugther zoe who now is 2!. which now leaves me at 21 years today!. i feel sufforcated because not only did i have her but had another child who is only 15 month apart from zoe!. she is now 1!. you do not want to throw every freedom you can ever have, out the window just cuz you saw some other kids at school with babys
belive me i know cuz i did that and now i feel sad and mad at myself for it!. it wasnt the only reason!. but it did happen for me and now my life will be put on hold for at least 5-10 years litterally + when the get older the start throwing fits everywere and they take off there diapers and you can only guess what happens thenWww@Answer-Health@Com
i wouldnt yell at you!.
this feeling can come and go your whole pre-menopausal life!. i am in my 30's have 3 kids and i still have days i want more!. i know it sounds crazy!.
i also felt that way at your age!.
from myown experience let me say this- its good you acknowledge your feelings, but to help get past and thru it- keep focused on your future- school work, whatever!. maybe in 5 years you will find yourself married with a partner and a little family on its way!.
personally i think its sad that young girls are looking at the pregnant girls and being jealous!. believe me, they have lost their youth!. i guarantee they would rather be in your shoes!. giving birth is so stressful and the younger a person is, its harder!.
you will be a great mom someday!Www@Answer-Health@Com
this feeling can come and go your whole pre-menopausal life!. i am in my 30's have 3 kids and i still have days i want more!. i know it sounds crazy!.
i also felt that way at your age!.
from myown experience let me say this- its good you acknowledge your feelings, but to help get past and thru it- keep focused on your future- school work, whatever!. maybe in 5 years you will find yourself married with a partner and a little family on its way!.
personally i think its sad that young girls are looking at the pregnant girls and being jealous!. believe me, they have lost their youth!. i guarantee they would rather be in your shoes!. giving birth is so stressful and the younger a person is, its harder!.
you will be a great mom someday!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is probably what your mom said!. And I have no idea where you go to schooI, but that is totally not normal for so many teenagers to be expecting!.I am 29 and we are just starting to try for our first one!. Don't worry, you have plenty of time!. Enjoy your youth and your 20's! You can never get those great years back! Think about all the fun stuff that you can do that those other girls can't!Www@Answer-Health@Com
omggg i have the same issue!. i was reading about it online and its just like a phase or whatever!. but like i see little babies when i'm with my boyfriend (of almost a year) and i'm like awww baby look i want one so bad hahaha but of we're waiting till we get married plus i work in a preschool for my school and it doesnt help any lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
Haha I suggest becoming a full-time babysitter or try sitting someones child for a while!. You wont have many feelings like that anymore!. You will immediately wish for less responsibilies and want your life back!. I suggest finding a stray animal and caring for it, or checking craigslist for pound bound pets for the meanwhile!. You need something more to love!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
As fantastic as babies are, they aren't accessories to match outfits!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com