I am 15 and a virgin, if I have sex with my boyfriend what should I expect?!


Question: I am 15 and a virgin, if I have sex with my boyfriend what should I expect!?
Me and my bf have talked about having sex!. And I am not sure of the pain to experience or what to expect!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I'm 15 as well, and my friends and I have talked about this subject before!. And I know, some people here are talking about being too young, and not knowing about love and everything!.!.!.!.but I think that we can know what love is!.
Just trust yourself, if you have any second thoughts, then don't do it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First Off, I hope you have some type of protection (birth controll pills, condoms) from STD's and pregnancy!. I know you wouldnt want to be a mommy at 15!?

AnywaYS Sorry about that ^

Many girls worry that it will hurt when they have sex for the first time!. It can hurt, but often not a lot, and some girls do bleed a little bit!. The bleeding usually occurs because the girl has a hymen which breaks the first time she has sexual intercourse!.

The hymen is a small piece of thin skin which goes across the opening of a girl's vagina and protects it when she is young!. It has some gaps in it where the blood can come out when she has her period!. Sometimes a girl might already having broken her hymen without knowing about it - this can happen as a result of playing sports or horse riding!.

Sex the first time shouldn't hurt for a boy, but he can make it easier for his partner by being gentle and taking it slowly - try to make it special for you both!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Expect that you are still too young!. Make sure your boyfriend isn't pressuring you into doing this!. Your first time should be w/someone you truly love, and I hate to say it to you, but at 15 you barely know what love is!. I waited til I was 19 and still felt young!. Once you have sex, you'll keep having it, and that risks you getting STDs and pregnancy too!. Remember that STDs like HPV are in 1/4 women and the most common STD!. It can lead to cervical cancer and other probs!. Not all STDs are curable, and not everyone knows they have one!. Some people lie about not having them, and then you get it!. Condoms aren't 100% safe either!.
You won't really experience pain the first time tho!. It should be fine, just a new experience!. Just know that it opens up a whole new door in your life, so be sure youre ready for that!. It's a lot to handle and a lot of responsibility!. Just be careful!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't want to sound preachy, but wait a little bit longer!. I did it for the first time at 17 and I regret it at that age!. The first time does not feel good and you'll probably stop after a few minutes!. And maybe it was just me, but I felt a little empty inside, like I lost a part of myself!. I'm not saying NEVER have sex, but at 15 that's a lot of emotional baggage to take on!. But maybe that was just me!.

But I guess if you feel truly ready, take all the contraception precautions you can!. And ask yourself if your boyfriend left you the day after it happened, would you be ok with the decision you made!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

nobody can say how much it will hurt or anything!. besides you may not be a virgin if you we're a dancer (phisical virginiti)!. anyway the real question is: DO YOU WANT TO DO IT!? not if u're ready or anything but if you want it :) u can never be ready for the first time :P btw if he's gentel he can "relax" you before the sex so it would be a little easier!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

i was 15 when i frist had sex to!.
u should expect dat it will hurt a little but will start to feel good after a while!
dnt feel pressered only do it if you really want to!
and if you really trust the guy!
but if you decide dat you want to the just relex and possibly hold his hand when he puts it in!.
good luck!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

dont fall for this plz!.!.!. hs going to dump u soon enough i know men!. wait a few more years to know if he really cares anout u!. i dontwant you to regret losing ur virginity!. it is sacred, well atleast to me!. but it does hurt a bit!. i hear girls have to grind their teeth bcuz of the pain!. just dont do anything regretful!. good luck^^Www@Answer-Health@Com

the first time is nothing special you wont enjoy yourself, and it hurts!. If you do decide to go forth with this please be smart and have safe sex!. I was 15 when i first had sex and I got pregnant!. She is now almost 9yrs!. Not something you want to go through at this stage in your life!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it all really depends on ur lifestyle if you exercise and stretch alot it may not urt as much, but realtively it hurt mildly due to the whole nuthing in the vaginal cavity concept but its toleratable,,ur going to have to expierience it eventuallyWww@Answer-Health@Com

It's better to just see for yourself, if you are ready to have sex, then protect yourself and go for it because sex is different for everyone no one can give you a good answer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wait a few years!.!. seriously!.!.!. trust me!.

If you are going to do it you MUST protect yourself!. Hopefully your boyfriend will be very gentle and understanding with you!.!.!. but seriously, please wait till your 16 or 17!.!.!. really!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Expect to regret it later!. Not everybody does, but a lot do!. Im 19 and several girls i know say they wish they waited longer!. They did it around the age of 15-16 too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You should expect him to dump you a few weeks after he gets what he wants!. No matter what he says this is what he will do!. All of them!. Always!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

expect pain both emotional and physical!.You may regret it later and you will feel uncomfortable around the guy as well!.Expect to grt knocked up if you don't use protection!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you need to task this question, you shouldn't be having sex in the first place!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

wow thesongfairy!.!.!.
!.!.!.somebody sounds bitter lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

15 is too youngWww@Answer-Health@Com

you souldnt do it! u can get STDs and become pregnet!

you should say NO!

if he does keep pressuring you!. u should break up with himWww@Answer-Health@Com

it might hurt a little the first time but will feel gud after wordsWww@Answer-Health@Com





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