My wife is 3 months prego?!
Question: My wife is 3 months prego!?
and I know emotionally its difficult feeling your body grow at such a fast rate!. She is only 5-1 118 right now but as she says weighs like 200lbs!. I want to make her feel beautiful no matter what her weight his during this time!. Just wanted some ideas from women and see what made them feel/be comfortable!. ThanksWww@Answer-Health@Com
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There really isn't any magic combo of words- boy don't I wish there were!. Mostly it's just daily reassurance that you think she's gorgeous and you love her more than the world, and think the pregnancy just makes her glow!. Remind her every pound on the scale is that much more of the baby to love, and that the weight gain is temporary!. As the pregnancy goes on, expect more hormonally driven nuttiness- it happens to all of us!. Don't take anything to heart, just give her a hug and kiss!. Surprise her with little things- flowers, dinner out, clean the house yourself, little love notes for her to discover in different spots- it all helps!. Lay in a supply of worn out tennis balls for low back rubs later on, almond oil for massages of the feet and lower legs, and a store of things to talk about when she can't sleep at night!. Those will be needed from about 6 months on- moreso near the end!. Don't wait for her to reach the point she can't put her shoes on- start jumping in to help with the laces and such now!. Stay close to hand to help her when she needs help reaching things, don't make her ask for help, learn to anticipate it a little!. Be conscious of messes you make and leave- and don't!. Learn to clean the bathroom, if you don't already know how!. Stay aware of smells- as she will be a lot more sensitive to them, and what doesn't smell bad to you may be gnarly to her!. Especially old socks and laundry- possibly raw meat, and the garbage!. Good luck there, dad-to-be!. Go selective deaf for the time being, and practice patience!. Growing little humans is a challenge for you both sometimes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
She's only 3 months pregnant - she probably hasn't even gained a couple of pounds yet from the pregnancy and most of it is just increase blood volume!. At 3 month the baby only weighs about the amount of a small apple!. She needs to also know that pregnancy isn't not a green light to go and eat everything under the sun!. I see so many women do that and they gain 50+ pounds thinking that when they give birth it'll *poof* off of her!. Then they learn a hard lesson when they have to lose the baby weight!.
Perhaps exercise more with her!. Take brisk walks on nice days!. Get a membership to a gym or a swim club!. Eat healthier and perhaps she'll still feel normal until she really starts to gain weight after the 5th and 6th month!.
In the meantime tell her that at 118 or 200 lbs you'd still love her the same (and mean it!) Take her out, do things, be proud to be her husband!. Get her gift certificates every month for manicures and pedicures so that she can get a little pampering herself!.
To top it all off she's hormonal and mood swings are terribly normal (boy do I know myself right now!)!. They should start to pass in the 4th month and come back the last few months!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Perhaps exercise more with her!. Take brisk walks on nice days!. Get a membership to a gym or a swim club!. Eat healthier and perhaps she'll still feel normal until she really starts to gain weight after the 5th and 6th month!.
In the meantime tell her that at 118 or 200 lbs you'd still love her the same (and mean it!) Take her out, do things, be proud to be her husband!. Get her gift certificates every month for manicures and pedicures so that she can get a little pampering herself!.
To top it all off she's hormonal and mood swings are terribly normal (boy do I know myself right now!)!. They should start to pass in the 4th month and come back the last few months!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
hi there
it's soo nice to hear a man saying he loves his partner whatever the size!. most women feel huge even when they aren't!. when i was prego, i wanted help with personal things like shaving my legs and washing my hair!. this was soo personal and i and my partner thoroughly enjoyd it!. he was helping me do something i could no longer do!. it was just a me and him thing!. offer to give massages and feet rubs too!.
good luck with the future!. enjoy parent hood!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it's soo nice to hear a man saying he loves his partner whatever the size!. most women feel huge even when they aren't!. when i was prego, i wanted help with personal things like shaving my legs and washing my hair!. this was soo personal and i and my partner thoroughly enjoyd it!. he was helping me do something i could no longer do!. it was just a me and him thing!. offer to give massages and feet rubs too!.
good luck with the future!. enjoy parent hood!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell her she's beautiful, buy her a gift voucher for a funky maternity boutique, send her off to a day spa, and let her know how awesome it is that she's doing the most amazing thing ever!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell her shes beautiful every day!.!.!.and just let her know how u feel about her!.!.!.!.dont let her put herself down!! and i doubt she'll hi 200lbs!. your really only gain around 25-35 lbs!. just depends on her body!.!.!.!.well good luck and hope all goes well!! oh and CONGRATS!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just keep telling her she is beautiful and be understanding when she feels like a train wreck!. Your understanding will bring you two closer than will ever know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
awww you're a sweet husband!. Not every guy is so considerate!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell her that generally when ur pregnant you do get fat!.
!.!.!.!.!.!.and that she's still beautiful (:Www@Answer-Health@Com
!.!.!.!.!.!.and that she's still beautiful (:Www@Answer-Health@Com