My teacher made me feel kind of uncomfortable...?!


Question: My teacher made me feel kind of uncomfortable!.!.!.!?
She is female, just a little background information:
-about 6 months pregnant
-VERY nice
-really pretty
-kind of round, pearish lol
ANYWAYS!.!.!.she was explaining something to my group, and she casually laid her hand on my bra strap, and then over to the side, like where the breast starts under the arm!.!.!.I have pretty small breasts (only 7th grade), but I don;t think she did this purposely!.!.!.what do you think!? She is really nice, and don;t think she would ever do that!.!.!.she's the kind of person who likes to travel and stuff!.!.!.social studes teacher!.!.!.She's like a mom to me, although she doesn't know it,and i know that she thinks i'm a good student, but i don't know if she wanted to touch me on purpose!.!.!.please give me your opinion, if she was doing this in a sexual way or not!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Hi Dear!

I don't think she might have done this deliberately, to make you feel uncomfortable!. She is your teacher and as you mentioned, a nice teacher, and is expecting a baby in two-three months!. Probably, it might be the motherly affection she might have felt for you!.!.!.!.and not only you, but for all her students, whom she think of as obedient, loveable, intelligent and good-at-studies!.

But the age which you are going through, all the boys and girls become very very critically conscious about their appearance, about the breasts, about height, hair color, pitch of voice, pimples on the face, etc, etc!. Even a small unintentional touch causes ripples of sensations throughout the body!. And believe me, it is very natural!. Every person on this earth goes through this phase of life!. Your parents, my parents, grandparents, great grandparents!.!.!.all crossed the "not-adult, not-child" grown-ups!.

I'd advice you to take your teacher's gesture in a casual way, just as a expression of love from a motherly teacher to a childish student!. But yes, if she continue to touch you the way she did that day, it becomes a matter of concern!. In such a case, take your parents / guardians into confidence and tell everything to them!. Cheers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

she may have had her mind so much on what she was saying and teaching she really wasn't aware of where she was touching!. I think if she wanted to make a pass at you she woudn't do it in front of the class!.

Give it a week and see how you feel!. The same thing happened to me at work and it was bothering me all day, but a week later i forgot about it, and i realized that it wasn't something i should be concerned about!.

if it happens again, then thats the time to start worrying!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It doesn't sound like it was on purpose though only you can read your gut, and really know what it is telling you!. have a chat with your mum, or a school psyche about what happened, it should put your mind at ease!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It was probably jsut an innocent accident!. Don't look to far into it, but don't forget it!. if she does it again, tell someone because she may be doing it deliberately!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

See if it happens again!. Has it occurred with other girls in class!? At this time, I'd say it was innocent affection!? But a teacher should not touch a student anyway!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If i were u i would wait a little while and if anything happens then go to the counselor or something!.!.!.u definently dont want to be wrong and accidently get her fired!.!.!.so just give it a little time <33Www@Answer-Health@Com

If she does it again, report it to several other teachers!. Don't just tell one, tell many!. One of them can then confront her and stop anything before it gets started!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Listen to your intuition! It could have been an accident, report immediately if you feel this way again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

she probably didnt mean to!. but if she keeps doing it, then u have a problem n u have 2 tell someoneWww@Answer-Health@Com

I don't know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

No, I don't think she was!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

nah!. she sound cool!. I dont think she did it on purpouseWww@Answer-Health@Com





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