Low-self esteem?!


Question: Low-self esteem!?
Well, I always point out the flaws in me and when I try to deny them, they just haunt me!. I honestly think I'm ugly, brown hair, blue eyes, no chest, big nose, I can't wear makeup, but i look better without it and I don't look 14, I look 6!.

Yeah, and I need help getting rid of that lowness I guess!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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First of all, you probably think this way because of that wonderful thing called media!. The media entertains us, gives us news, and educates us!. It also determines in society who looks good and who doesn't (believe me I'm a sociology major in college I know)!. The only reason you aren't happy with yourself if because someone else decided what you look like isn't what's attractive!. Did you know just a couple hundred years ago being severely overweight and pale was attractive!? It meant you had wealth so men were attracted to the direct opposite of what's attractive today!. And I am sure your peers don't help either!. But guess what!? Women with big boobs and tiny waists are incredibly unhealthy!. The big boobs come from implants (it's rare to get them otherwise), which can cause problems in their own!. Big boobs are also at a bigger risk of cancer, and gives you a higher risk of back problems!. Also there are studies that say men actually like smaller chests because it looks better on the body and that they stare at big chests because well, if you saw something disproportionate wouldn't you want to stare and wonder what they're like!? The small waists, that's from eating disorders!. It takes years to get healthy small waists like that so most of the people you see are either 16 and haven't lost their metabolism or aren't eating!. That's unhealthy because when your body doesn't get enough nutrients, it eats itself!.!.!.and it eats it's heart!. So, yah know what!? Don't feel bad for not looking how you want because who you are is healthy!. Now for the best part of this, you're only 14!. In the next three years, your body will change!. It is perfectly normal for the small chest at 14!. And by the time you're 16 or 17, all that will change!. As for the brown hair and blue eyes!.!.!.!.what is wrong with that!? Brown hair and blue eyes is abnormal!. Most people aren't born with a combination like that!. And in fashion these days, that's attractive!. It's ok to look the way you do, In fact, it's better than ok!. Love yourself for who you are!. And in a few years you'll mature anyway and I'm sure you're be beautiful!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are in cycle - you think you are ugly, hunch over, hang your head, find all kinds of flaws!.!.!.
Start exercising - you will hold your head high, straighten your shoulders and a smile will show in your face - you will radiate from the inside out!!!!!!
Most brown haired people have brown eyes - your blue ones are a nice contrast!. Wear the same color, it will intensify the blue!. You don't need make-up, but take good care of your hair!.
I have a big nose, I keep my hair combed out of my face, it makes a big difference (the right haircut will do the trick)!. Teenagers faces don't always grow evenly, your face and your chest will change proportions soon!.

So, go work up some good perspiration on a regular basis and you will not recognize yourself - I promise!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

start slow, take nice hot baths!. and listen to the radio!. and get to your inner self!. because being around other people is not going to help!. plus don't put yourself down in front of people if you do they will do it to youWww@Answer-Health@Com

u alredy said it for urself hun '' u look better without makeup !.!.!.;u jus need to do wats makes u happy!.!.!.u'll feel gd!.!.!.plus im guessin ur a gurl!.!.!.n ur puberty is probably kickin in!.!.!.!.!.''dnt b to hrd on ur self!.!.!.!.if u need a friend jus holla im sure all u ened is someone 2 tlk to

blessWww@Answer-Health@Com

You should hang out with me, I can change that for you!. You should always feel sexy, no matter what!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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