Need support after miscarrage?!
Question: Need support after miscarrage!?
for other women who have experienced this!. im only 17!. my ex boyfriend raped me and that is how i got pregnant!. regardless, i was going to keep the baby!. when i told him he got really mad and he beat me!. he hit me across my face pushed me down, and kicked me in the stomach!. 3 days later i lost the baby!. i didnt have to have a d&c thankfully!. but, im just wondering if anyone has any similar stories, or support!. i know im not the only one!.!.!. but i feel like im alone in this!. if you dont mind sharing, i know its hard, how did you feel!. emotionally and physically!? i dont know how im supposed to be feeling!. if what im feeling isnt that bad, or what!. im just in a really confused state right now!. please only answer if youve been in my situation or are close to someone who has!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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well i have been in a simular situation!. I found out i was prego last July and my boyfriend did not want to have it at all!. He bitched everyday about me getting an abortion and would get relly pissed when I told him that was not going to happen!. At the end of august i went for an ultrasound at 8 weeks and they could not find a heart beat!. The doc ended up doing a DnC!. I think me and my man argued worse after we found this out!. I was scared and very lonely and sad!. But what really messed me up was the emotion he started to show when I told him the baby was dead!. That really confused me!. But i pretty much went through everything alone eventhough he was still around!. He dropped me off at the Hospital BY MY SELF, the back at home , he left me by myself!. I really had to look to god and my friends to find a place that I could let go!. It is not easy but just dont give up!. My doc put me on some antidepessants afterwards but I really didnt take them for long because I still haf a 4 year old to raise, I had to work and go to college, the meds just doped me up and made it so I couldnt really do anything productive!. That is when I turned it all over to God and things turned around!. I still have bad days and probly will for a long time but that is when you ask God to help even more!. saying the serinity prayer helps me, i know it sounds rediculous but after I say it I really feel like a wait has been lifted from me, give it a try what can it hurt!. YOu can email me if you want to chat snwwht82@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com
hunny, if you can face it, go to tell the police what happened to you,x!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i havent gone through that but my sister did!
poor thing!
is he in jail!?!?!? he should be
freaken bastard!
stay strong !!!!
(:Www@Answer-Health@Com
poor thing!
is he in jail!?!?!? he should be
freaken bastard!
stay strong !!!!
(:Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had a miscarriage, but I didn't even know I was pregnant!. My husband was on the road (he's a truck driver) and I was at work!. Stressed out because he was never home!. I was working and I started to get cramps!.!.!.work called an amblance to get me to the hospital!. I didn't want to wait in the ER (5hrs) any longer!. I went home!. But the next day was the worst!. I started to hemriage and had to be rushed back to the hospital and have an emergency d-and c!. I was there alone!. No one to wait for me in the waiting room!. It was a hard time!. I didn't know how to feel either!. I already had 3 kids and I thought I was done!. But I would have loved the baby!.!.!.and the kids would have loved it too!. But when I was feeling so alone, and sad, I kept thinking that maybe it just wasn't meant to be!. I had my hands full with my 3!. Finding a babysitter was hard enough!. And I was angry at my husband for not being there for me!. He didn't know ANYthing about it until 3 days later!. So there was alot of anger there and sadness!. Just a bunch of mixed feelings!. I understand how you feel!. Sorry for your pain!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am so sorry for your loss and hope that man is in prison for beating you and for the death of your baby!. I was in a terrible car wreck and lost my baby!. I had two boys and the one i lost was a girl!. my youngest boy was paralized from the neck down and his kidneys quit working!. He was 16 months old!. My husband was killed instantly and i broke my neck, crushed my left arm and broke my pelvis bone!. I had slivers of glass stuck in my head face neck and chest!. Thanks to a family who believed in the power of prayer my baby boy came out of his paralysis!. his kidneys started working again and i finally recovered!. even though i lost my wonderful husband and my unborn baby girl i had so much to be thankful !. i still had my two small boys!. you will never get over the loss of your baby but it will get easier withtime!. will keep you in my prayers !. may God bless you and give you comfort!.Www@Answer-Health@Com