Should i get my tubes tied??!
Question: Should i get my tubes tied!?!?
I am 23 years old!. Happily married!. I have 3 children under 3!. We own our home and both own companies!. we do really well financially!. The problem is that I cant take the pill, because of the link to breast cancer (my mother had it at 22) , I cant take the shot because I got depression on it!. I have had the iud twice and the first time I got pregnant while it was in , and the second time it fell out a couple days after they inserted it!. I seem to concieve every time i have a baby that is 9 months old!. I hate being pregnant but i love my children!. what would you do!? I dont think we want anymore kids (3 is alot) but its scary to be this young and make this decisionWww@Answer-Health@Com
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It sounds like you've got a full and busy life with everything flying every which way!. It also sounds like maybe this isn't the best time to be making major life altering decisions!.
Decide on a waiting period between you and your husband (e!.g!. six months or a year) at which point you can make the decision then when you've had time to let life hopefully calm down a bit (and get a bum or two out of diapers :-) You never know what life will bring, and at 23 most of your life is still ahead of you!.
Maybe, try something like a diaphragm and then double up with something like the condom!. If you do decide to get things permanantly snipped, consider a vasectomy (sorry guys!) instead of tubal ligation!. Its much easier to reverse and is much less invasive and probably costs less too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Decide on a waiting period between you and your husband (e!.g!. six months or a year) at which point you can make the decision then when you've had time to let life hopefully calm down a bit (and get a bum or two out of diapers :-) You never know what life will bring, and at 23 most of your life is still ahead of you!.
Maybe, try something like a diaphragm and then double up with something like the condom!. If you do decide to get things permanantly snipped, consider a vasectomy (sorry guys!) instead of tubal ligation!. Its much easier to reverse and is much less invasive and probably costs less too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
In my opinion a woman has the right to decide how many children she wants to have in her life!. As I see, you are not completely sure of getting your tubes tied , you should talk with your ob/gyn maybe the contraceptive implant is good for you (it last 5 years) there are other options like the cervical cup and the diapraghm!. since you are very young i recommend you a reversible method and wait until you get older to have your tubes tied!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i wouldn't get them tied!.!.!.!.!.my friend was in a similar situation she had 2 kids pretty early and she got her tubes tied!. now she is 30 and her kids are older and she would love to try for more children, but the reversal surgery doesn't always work and its expensive!. you could try getting an IUD or something else besides the ones that have hormones in it!. but i wouldn't get them tied unless you are ABSOLUTELY sure you never want any more childrenWww@Answer-Health@Com
Heya
I really dont think you should have your tubes tied due to the fact you might not want children now but when your 30 and your children are growing uo you might change you mind!. I would have the chip that disolves after 3 years!. If your sure you dont want anymore children then get your tubes tied but make sure its really what you want!.
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I really dont think you should have your tubes tied due to the fact you might not want children now but when your 30 and your children are growing uo you might change you mind!. I would have the chip that disolves after 3 years!. If your sure you dont want anymore children then get your tubes tied but make sure its really what you want!.
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You have 3 beautiful children and when you make the decision that you definitely don't want more then tying your tubes might be a good option!. Until then use condoms since they wont have any of the side effects that you had problems with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you said you dont THINK you want more kids!.!.!.you answered your own question!. If you are not sure than dont do it!. when you can say you KNOW you dont want anymore kids then do it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
if you and your husband has made up your mind not to have anymore kids, then get your tubes cut, burnt and tied, that way you will know they wont come untied!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wouldn't your husband consider vasectomy instead!? Condoms around ovulation!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
3 kids are plenty for any one Get them tied or get your man to get sniped, I think it is easier on the manWww@Answer-Health@Com
you may try telling your husband to use condomWww@Answer-Health@Com
tie them!.!.!. 3 is enoughWww@Answer-Health@Com
I would talk to your doctor and tell him how you feel!. Maybe he could give you something that doesn't fall out or gives you depression!. Also there are a couple things like Mirena, which works for 5 years or less, if you decide later you may want another baby!. The only thing that would worry me about getting your tubes tied at 23 is that you are young for it, and if in a few years you may want another one, and can't!. I would wait a few more years and see if you have a change of heart and if not then i would go ahead with getting them tied!. But you should also know that ever if you get them tied there is a small chance of getting pregnant still, Mainly in the first year!. But before you do anything i would talk to your doctor, he can talk more about pros and cons about everything!. Good Luck with everythingWww@Answer-Health@Com
This is probably one of the biggest decisions you potentially could make, and should definitely not be taken lightly!.
23 is really young, and not to be pessimistic, but your current situation could change, and you may want children in the future!.
Seeing as you have problems with forms of contraceptive, have you "tubes tied" is a possibility, for both you and you husband!. Keep in mind that whilst the procure is currently totally irreversible for you, for men it can be done!. Perhaps it's something you and you husband can decide!?
If you do decide to have them tied, I really would suggest having some eggs frozen, in case later in life you decide that you and your significant other would like to have more children!. It may not seem like you want to now, but you have no idea how things will change and you have a long life in front of you!.
I just remembered, have you considered!.!.!.!? I have heard of a sort of female implantable condom that you can leave in for a number of months, can't recall the name but perhaps another option you can look into!?
Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
23 is really young, and not to be pessimistic, but your current situation could change, and you may want children in the future!.
Seeing as you have problems with forms of contraceptive, have you "tubes tied" is a possibility, for both you and you husband!. Keep in mind that whilst the procure is currently totally irreversible for you, for men it can be done!. Perhaps it's something you and you husband can decide!?
If you do decide to have them tied, I really would suggest having some eggs frozen, in case later in life you decide that you and your significant other would like to have more children!. It may not seem like you want to now, but you have no idea how things will change and you have a long life in front of you!.
I just remembered, have you considered!.!.!.!? I have heard of a sort of female implantable condom that you can leave in for a number of months, can't recall the name but perhaps another option you can look into!?
Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com