I can't believe im typing this...please be serious?!
Question: I can't believe im typing this!.!.!.please be serious!?
okay i really dont wanna go into details but i just don't know what to do!.!.!.i feel helpless and i cant sleep!.!.!.i wanna stop cutting myself and starving myself so i need to fix this issue
in december i told that i had been sexually abused and we are going to court next month!.!.!.the thing no one knows is he wasn't the only one (sure he was the worst but he wasn't the only one) but the thing is!.!.!.i feel bad like i owe him because he saved me from being rape (the thing is he doesn't even realize he did it) and i feel like i cant get him in trouble because he saved me!.!.!.its complicated what happened but the man was beginning to take my clothes off when the other man called for me and it was my excuse to have the door unlocked and me to run!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
in december i told that i had been sexually abused and we are going to court next month!.!.!.the thing no one knows is he wasn't the only one (sure he was the worst but he wasn't the only one) but the thing is!.!.!.i feel bad like i owe him because he saved me from being rape (the thing is he doesn't even realize he did it) and i feel like i cant get him in trouble because he saved me!.!.!.its complicated what happened but the man was beginning to take my clothes off when the other man called for me and it was my excuse to have the door unlocked and me to run!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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The first thing you need to do is to start loving yourself!. Every morning, look in the mirror and say "I love myself!." Do it every morning until you believe it! Loving yourself brings confidence and allows you to love others even more!.
*hugs* Sweetie, if he did the deed, then he deserves to get in trouble for it!. Bar none!. He did it to you!. Don't blame yourself because he was the one harassing you!. You owe him nothing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
*hugs* Sweetie, if he did the deed, then he deserves to get in trouble for it!. Bar none!. He did it to you!. Don't blame yourself because he was the one harassing you!. You owe him nothing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If he stopped another man from abusing you, then abused you himself then you don't owe him anything at all!. He abused you and that makes him a pig! A horrible dirtbag so please don't feel bad for him! Either way you would have been abused!.!.!.!.
Do not feel guilty, you are a victim in this situation and do not owe anybody anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do not feel guilty, you are a victim in this situation and do not owe anybody anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So!.!.you were going to be raped and this other man called for you and you run away but then he raped you!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
you need to tell somebody and take both of these guys to court!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
whats the question!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
first of all!.!.!.
you need to have self control, know that theres nothing you cant overcome,,,cutting and starving yourslef isnt the solution, when you are doing these kinds of things think about how your family, friends, and love one feels, if you feel sad or feel like crying , let it all out!.
as for your friend he saved you from being rape, you should thanks him, but if he is one of the people that did it, then you shouldnt feel bad for him,, saving someone is a great deed sure but if he is one of the people that hurt you in the first place, then he shouldnt be forgive, as for the court thing i suggest you say everything to the judge, and give the guy that saved you a little lesson, so he never doest it again, but if you want to repay him for saving you, then tell the judge that he saved you and give him a lighter punisherment
P!.S dont cut or starve yourself, theres nothing you cant over come ^ ^Www@Answer-Health@Com
you need to have self control, know that theres nothing you cant overcome,,,cutting and starving yourslef isnt the solution, when you are doing these kinds of things think about how your family, friends, and love one feels, if you feel sad or feel like crying , let it all out!.
as for your friend he saved you from being rape, you should thanks him, but if he is one of the people that did it, then you shouldnt feel bad for him,, saving someone is a great deed sure but if he is one of the people that hurt you in the first place, then he shouldnt be forgive, as for the court thing i suggest you say everything to the judge, and give the guy that saved you a little lesson, so he never doest it again, but if you want to repay him for saving you, then tell the judge that he saved you and give him a lighter punisherment
P!.S dont cut or starve yourself, theres nothing you cant over come ^ ^Www@Answer-Health@Com
you need to see a counselor!. if you don't get this all straightened out in your mind and heart, you will never have a fulfilling healthy relationship with a man!. trust me my step-father molested me when i was 15 and I'm 25 and still have issues with it, because i never dealt with the emotion issues involved with it!.
it doesn't matter if he saved you from being raped!.that's like one person trying to steal your soul, and the other person did it instead!. you will never be the same because of what he did to you regardless of the small deed he did in helping you, which was just a coincidence!. he should pay for it!. don't pitty him!. he is garbage!Www@Answer-Health@Com
it doesn't matter if he saved you from being raped!.that's like one person trying to steal your soul, and the other person did it instead!. you will never be the same because of what he did to you regardless of the small deed he did in helping you, which was just a coincidence!. he should pay for it!. don't pitty him!. he is garbage!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If he saved you, then raped you then he didn't help you at all!. Both men are horribly people, and that's not your fault!. You should talk to your parents or a counsellor!. They will help you, but you need to know that what happened isn't your fault!.
edit: that's different!. Your details helped!. If bob's sexually harassing you, then that is no ok!. If you are greatly depressed by bob's comments, then he deserves to go to court!. If they don't matter to you so much, then probably not!. You should get the guy who tried to rape you in court!.
I also read about this girl on Yahoo Answers!. She said that she used to cut herself, but the way she stopped was by giving herself good pain, like doing push ups or crunches!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
edit: that's different!. Your details helped!. If bob's sexually harassing you, then that is no ok!. If you are greatly depressed by bob's comments, then he deserves to go to court!. If they don't matter to you so much, then probably not!. You should get the guy who tried to rape you in court!.
I also read about this girl on Yahoo Answers!. She said that she used to cut herself, but the way she stopped was by giving herself good pain, like doing push ups or crunches!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I myself was abused as well!. Not the same situation, but similar!. And even though my abuser didn't save me, I still felt guilt, he was in his early 20's and I couldn't help but think he had his whole life ahead of him!. And the bottom line is he still violated you and no matter what he did to "make up" for it!. Its still a violation that will haunt you for the rest of your life and he deserves to pay for that along with anyone else who did it!.
Good luck to you and I'm sorry you had to go through such terrible events!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good luck to you and I'm sorry you had to go through such terrible events!.Www@Answer-Health@Com