Im preg and only 15!!!! omg help im suicidal.. jk but help!?!


Question: Im preg and only 15!!!! omg help im suicidal!.!. jk but help!!?
hey im jessica and im 15!. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we started having sex 4 or 5 months ago and i just found out im 2 months preg!. I am so scared i dont no what to do!! please help! i havent told ANYONE!! i dont no what to doWww@Answer-Health@Com


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hi honey dont worry you will be ok i was also there when i was 15!. i you would like to talk to me you can im me at bubble2827@yahoo!.com i might be some helpWww@Answer-Health@Com

You need to tell your mom!. Mainly because if you wait, she'll find out on her own and be angry at you for not telling her!.

There's three options but you need to decide quick!. You can get an abortion, adopt the child out, or raise him/her yourself!. I would recomend adopting! Since you're only 15, having a child would mean that you would have to quit school to raise him/her!. Stay in school so you can have a high school diploma and go to college so you can earn enough money to stabilize yourself!.

If you want an abortion, then that's your decision!. Nobody is going to force you to abort or not!.!.!. unless your parents make you!. I believe that abortion is the parents' decision; not someone elses!. I do think It's really sad though!. But It's your choice!.

Good luck and I hope you take this advice!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, sometime or another, your going to have to tell your parents!. Sooo, the sooner the better!.
Are you able to keep the baby!? Are you ready to be a Mom!? If you don't think your ready, please don't jump at abortion!. Consider having the baby and putting it up for adoption!. It would be just like the movie Juno!. Abortion is a very sad thing and I would never do that unless it was a very very last resort or something was wrong with the baby (i!.e!. mental retardation!.)
Next time you have sex use protection!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

WOW!!!!!

So you haven't even told your bf!?!? Tell him first!. Well, there's abortion, adoption, having the baby!. But you're way too young!. Maybe you're mom could help you raise it until you turned 18!.

You need to go to a dr or make a appt with the health dept (free) in your county!. You should be on folic acid & prenatal vitamins!. They would have someone to talk to that could help you!. I would make an appt right away with them!. After you've seen them & told your BF, you'll have to tell your parents!. You could also talk to a minister if you wanted!.

Call as soon as you can to the health dept!. That would be your first thing, other than telling your BF!.

Good luck!.

PS!. If there's anyway you could keep the baby!.!.!.!.& not have the abortion!.!.!.do it if you're parents will support you!. I've been there, but was 19 when I had an abortion!. And I regreted it, every since!. But, of course that's just me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well there is abortion, but that is just wrong if you can live with knowing you killed ur child, after u spread and made it then go ahead!. Adoption sounds best, you and ur baby will have a better chance at being healthy and happy!. There is open adoption where u can see ur baby and recieve pics!. The firs step is to tell your parents!. You are going to need checkups to make sure the baby is okay, as well as your body so you need to do something A!.S!.A!.P also you cant abord after like the 4th month its considered inhummane!. If you dont get checkups you or ur baby can easily get sick!. best wishes to youWww@Answer-Health@Com

You need to tell your parents!. THat comes first!. They will probably be angry, but you made the mistake and now you have to deal with the consequences!. THe options you have are to abort the baby, give the baby up for adoption after it's born, or you can keep the baby and raise it yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

At being only 15, there is so much in life that you will miss if you keep the baby!.
I've been having the same problems, and then I just watched Juno!. That pretty much solved all!. Haha
Anyways!. You could either go through with the pregnancy or have an abortion!.
If you're going to abort, I'd say make the decision fast!. The later in the pregnancy it gets, the more dirty the job is!.
Do lots of thinking!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Go to Planned Parenthood, now!.

They will help you understand your options!.
Do not try to raise this kid!. Either abort it, or adopt it out!.

16 year old humans are not qualified to be parents!. You will only ruin your and the child's life if you try to raise it, at such a young age!.

Take care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

honestly you'll have to tell your parents sooner or later!. you can
1!. get an abortion, but this is extremely painful and there is a chance you wont be able to have kids when you get older
2!. have the baby and keep it, but if your 15 it probably wont have a good life bcuz ur parents will be taking care of it
3!. find a family who is interested in adopting, like in juno!. u should watch that movieWww@Answer-Health@Com

aww sweetie!!.!.!. dont go get an abortion!!.!.!. giving up your child may be a choice now!.!.!. and it might seem like a good choice but when you get married and have a child, you will always wander id he looks like their older sibling, or if they are ok ( if you give it up for adoption)!.!.!. tell your mom!.!.!. she will help you raise it!.!.!.



ohh and by 2 months, the baby has fingers toes eyes and lips!.!.!. we just learned all this in biology!.!.!. keep your child!.!.!. u might regret it at first because there is 2 girls in my high school and they considered abortion/ adoption and they kept theri child and wouldnt change their decision for the world!.!.!. email me @ smileitskaitlyn@yahoo!.com if oyu need help

GOOD LUCK SWEETIEWww@Answer-Health@Com

As hard as it is you need to tell your parents!. You need to make an informed decision as to whether or not you will keep the baby!. But i personally think adoption is your best choice for this but like i said YOU need to tell them so you can make a decision soon!Www@Answer-Health@Com

well one!. tell your bf!. you have to!. and then 2, tell your parents!. again, you have to!. theres a lot of options now a days so dont freak out!. you'll be okay!. sit down with ur parents and explain to them that you know ur too young, but if you have to, you're willing to be responsible and take actions for your mistake!. it happens to a lot of young girls now!. i got pregnant at 17 with my bf of 3 years and im 18 now with a healthy beautiful 4 month old baby girl!. and im doing fine!. i finished highschool, and im still going to college!. me and my bf worked it out so i would go in the afternoon after feeding the baby and caring for her, and he goes in the morning!. he works at full time job still but he works late hours, (7pm - 3 am)!. we were scared too, very very scared!. but our families helped us through it and we made it out ok!. and now we have a beautiful family, soon to be married in august =)

but if keeping it isnt an option for you!. discuss it with your parents, you could always go through adoption!.

and if its not against your morals, even thought i think this is very wrong!. there's always abortion as your last resort, but you're only limited to a certain amount of weeks!. so you need to talk to people and think of what you're going to do!.

i hope everythigns goes well!.
good luck hun!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Face the music!.!.!.it won't be the first time something like this has happened in history!.
Talk to your mom!.!.!.see a ob/gyn and learn about your options!.
I am not an advocate of abortion, so if you can't handle it!.!.please consider giving child up for adoption!.
Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

YOU KNOW WHAT HONEY ABORTION IS NOT NOT NOT THE WAY TO GO DONT LISTEN TO THESE PEOPLE!. GOD PUT THIS BABY IN THE WORLD FOR A REASON, EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE!. TELL YOUR PARENTS!. AND GO SEE YOUR DOCTOR!. BUT PLEASE DONT GET AN ABORTION!. EVERYONE DESERVES A CHANCE AT LIFE!. I AM TRYING SO HARD TO CONVICE AND I CAN'T BECAUSE I HAVE PCOS!. I WOULD LOVE TO ADOPT!. PLEASE MAKE YOUR CHOICE WISELY!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

1!. Tell your parents immediately!!
2!. You're still a minor!.!. your parents WILL find out sooner than later!.
3!. Kids shouldn't be having kids!.!. so don't even think about raising this kid!.!. you'll ruin your life and your kid's!. Either get an abortion or give up your kid for adoption!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

there's nothing funny about being suicidal!.!.!.dont see how thats related!.

um so!.!.!.
u can get an abortion!.!.!.but you're young so you'd have to tell your parents so either way you have to tell your parents!. might as well tell them now before they just find out!.!.!.soon you'll be showingWww@Answer-Health@Com

You need to tell your mom, and see a doctor!. If you're not ready for motherhood, there are thousands of people who would love to adopt a baby - including my cousin! You have some big decisions ahead of you - good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

options-
abortion, adoption, raise the kid yourself!.
tell your parents!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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