Help, I can't lose my virginity..its impossible! ??!
Question: Help, I can't lose my virginity!.!.its impossible! !?!?
Hi, I'm 26 and just got married last Friday!. My husband and I are both virgins, we wanted to wait for marraige!. I've only used a tampon once!.!.!.
We have tried SO many times, but I can't lose my virginity!.!.it won't go in!.!.!.and when it goes in slightly, it hurts and we end up not doing anything!. I've tried the lubricants, I've tried the wine, I've tried forplay, and I've tried being relaxed!.!.!.give me something new to work with!.!.!.what position would be least painful!? Could I put numbing creme on me!?
Why won't it go in, are my legs incorrectly placed!?!? Help!Www@Answer-Health@Com
We have tried SO many times, but I can't lose my virginity!.!.it won't go in!.!.!.and when it goes in slightly, it hurts and we end up not doing anything!. I've tried the lubricants, I've tried the wine, I've tried forplay, and I've tried being relaxed!.!.!.give me something new to work with!.!.!.what position would be least painful!? Could I put numbing creme on me!?
Why won't it go in, are my legs incorrectly placed!?!? Help!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Hi, here is what I did (lost my virginity at 22) I had a similar problem as you! and i didnt use tampons!. Im sure your normal and dont feel stressed about this ok!? It will take some time but that can be a fun positive thing if you make it!. over a period of time (weeks,months) get very turned on firstly!.slowly allow your partner to use his finger(just one) or a small toy!. get use to this, little at a time!. use alot of lube!. it will go in VERY VERY SLOWLY if u practice!. if its overwhelming wait till a different day or get turned on more!. it shouldnt hurt too much :) dont rush, it will happen eventually!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe his penis is that huge!? i am married and when we don't have sex for a little while, i have a hard time because i get so tight and he is so huge!. I think the Best position is missionary or you on top, you slowly slide on him!. It doesn't hurt as much when your the one putting it in instead of him putting it in!. Maybe foreplay will help!. you have to go with the finger for a Little bit!. the first guy i had sex with had a tiny penis so it wasn't that painful!.lol!. Good for you for waiting!!! A Lot of people don't succeed in waiting!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It does hurt your first time, I will not lie!. In fact you will bled a little and thats normal!. No girl's first time is pleasent!.
If you have a very low pain threshold then try playing around like use message oils on you and your partner!. Start kissing and what not, you will (should) get 'wet' if you are turned on use some lube, or as sex therapists say there is never enough put some on you and some on him (have him wear a condom, it will glide in better)!.
IF this doesnt work (there will be pain still, it should be minor) see your gynochologist!. They can help you!.
Happy Marriage!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you have a very low pain threshold then try playing around like use message oils on you and your partner!. Start kissing and what not, you will (should) get 'wet' if you are turned on use some lube, or as sex therapists say there is never enough put some on you and some on him (have him wear a condom, it will glide in better)!.
IF this doesnt work (there will be pain still, it should be minor) see your gynochologist!. They can help you!.
Happy Marriage!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It may sound strange, BUT, try candles in various sizes, starting over a period of time!. Lubricate the smallest size first and gradually increase until the labia stretches out some!. (It may take a couple weeks to get it to the right comfort level for you) Meanwhile try other ways to please your man until then and make it enjoyable for each other while using candles!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well first of all u waited to long so now take the pain if not ure gona stay a virgin!ask ure self this question can i be a virgin for the rest of myu life if not take the pain have sex once a day ure vegina is gona get used to it and get wider and open and one day its gona feel amazingWww@Answer-Health@Com
Missionary i reakon is best for first time it does slightly hurt when you lose your viginity about all you can do use lot's of lubricant just try and relax because when you panic you are probably tensing muscles which wouldn't help don't stress you'll get thereWww@Answer-Health@Com
For your first time, lift your legs up slightly while lying on your back!. Have him finger you and such before he goes in, make sure your hot and ready for him!. It might also help if he held your legs up and placed them on his shoulders!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Calm down o!.,o!. Just force it in !.!.!. and yea i know it hurts, but the pain wont last long it will go away very quickly!. Just bear the pain for a few second and enjoy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
GO for it just DO IT dont think of it
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the first time will be painful!. You might try being on top so you can be the one in control!. Once you get past that first time it will be much more enjoyableWww@Answer-Health@Com
its gonna hurt the first time regardless it will be better after it goes in!. The second time will get better and better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Calm down!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Everything takes time !._!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Medical help is needed else things may go out of handWww@Answer-Health@Com
See doctor!. They can fix the problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
take it *****!. stop being a pussy and take your husbands huge cockWww@Answer-Health@Com
well we believe the best option is that you should try stretching it with your finger first!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you can't break your Hymen with your fingers or your husband's penis ; you will need to see a doctor and Gynecologist , to have it surgically removed !. When my elder son was born , the gynecologist told my wife that she was still a virgin until that point !. Maybe if you work at it by yourself , first with warm water and then with a good water based lubricant , you might be able to get in there without pain , increasing the number of fingers as you go ; or get a good vibrator/dildo the size of your husband or bigger !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I can't answer your question but I can lend some support because I seem to have the same problem! I'm 20 and I don't understand it, I didn't think sex was supposed to be hard! lol Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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