Is losing you're virginity reallly that painful?!


Question: Is losing you're virginity reallly that painful!?
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Hi hun, everyone is different and to be honest it depends on whether your hymen is broken already!. Some activities such as horse riding or inserting a tampon can break your hymen anyway!. When you have sex for the first time, it's more of a discomfort than a pain because obviously your vagina will be tight and if your hymen may not be already broken, that's what causes the pain!. It is also not uncommon to have a bit of bleeding after your first time again for the same reason, but that is completely normal and doesn't last long!. Another thing you could do to minimise any discomfort is use a lubricant as even though ordinarily you will be moist as you will be turned on, probably on your first time you'll be dry because you're apprehensive and not relaxed so lubricant can help!. Make sure you're ready and don't feel pressured into doing it or do it on a whim because you think you should be doing it by now!. At the risk of nagging, make sure you use protection to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy and STD's!. Your first time will be special as it's your first time, but don't expect fireworks, it gets better the more you practise!xWww@Answer-Health@Com

Depending on your age, it's likely to be painful!. It's worse when you give your virginity to someone who won't respect you enough to wait until you both are married though!.

Stay pure in this sex-charged world!

P!.S!. And it's not neccessarily the hymen breaking that hurts (that happens once and for all), it's the muscles of your vagina expanding to accomodate the penis that hurts!. These muscles can contract again after a long period of sexual inactivity!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It was for me, the first few times in fact!. My current boyfriend is quite big too, so it hurt all over again with him, as the hymen had to break again!. So it is not always just the once that it will hurt, unless you are one of the lucky ones!.
But don't worry about it, it is one of those things that's going to have to happen if you want to have sex!. Worrying about it is just going to make it worse!. If you relax it is probably a lot better - have trouble relaxing myself so can't say for sure!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Depends!.!.!.!. some women will experience pain and others wont!. Also if you are active in your day to day life you might find it isnt as painful!.!.

there is a small piece of membrain skin that is in place high in the vagina!.!. this is the heinman and can bleed when you loose your virginity, but it doesn mean you will feel pain just because you bleed!.

might be a few spelling mistakes in my answer!.!. sorryWww@Answer-Health@Com

It might be uncomfortable for a few seconds but it shouldn't hurt at all, if somebody told you it did then they were going about it the wrong way!. You just need to be ready for it, relaxed and turned on and you will be fineWww@Answer-Health@Com

People make a big deal of this and blow it out of proportion, sometimes it may be a tiny bit, but nothing to be scared of so don't worry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if you are relaxed and happy to be with that person then it may be a bit uncomfortable at first but then it will be ok!. take it slow and make sure you are doing it all for the right resons!Www@Answer-Health@Com

no , its just the uncertainty of it that's scary in actual fact a lot of people are left feels a little deflated after there first time !.!.!. you think is that it !?!?!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

It should not be if you are with a man who knows what he is doing!. If it's done correct by the time you lose it you should too turned on to care or noticeWww@Answer-Health@Com

it depends on your hymen mostly, however there are a number of different factors which can affect this each factor is different for each person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wouldn't say painful!.!.!. just slightly uncomfortable the first time!.!. but I think if I'd relaxed more then it wouldn't have hurt at all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If its painful then u aint relaxed and ready there is no hurry to lose it keep it aslong as you can!!! be safe!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

depends how nervous you are!. the more relaxed you are the more you will enjoy yourself!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Didn't hurt me, mind you I was too much under the influence of alcohol to rememberWww@Answer-Health@Com

no painful even i had 1st time i was 13 its a enjoyable job but slight bleeding is possibleWww@Answer-Health@Com

Make sure you have a considerate lover and all should be well,Www@Answer-Health@Com

It wasn't for me but everyone is different!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

was a lil bit but a kinda nice pain which didnt last long depends on the person thoWww@Answer-Health@Com

It was for me, but after a while it dont hurt as much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It didnt hurt me!. Its not the same for everyone though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Depends how active you are in your normal life!.!. But can beWww@Answer-Health@Com

When the time is right it's perfect!.

Be safe make him wrap up xWww@Answer-Health@Com

sometimes but not always!. its a nice pain!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

not for me!.!.!. tho maybe i should thank playtex for that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yah i think so!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

feel it!. u might get pleasure and pain bothWww@Answer-Health@Com

no, its pain freeWww@Answer-Health@Com





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