How can I make sex less painful?!


Question: How can I make sex less painful!?
My boyfriend and I have had sex two times, and it's hurt both times!. What can I do to make it hurt less, or not at all!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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make sure he pays a lot of attention to turning you one!. however i've had sex with my boyfriend like six times now and it still hurts!. but make sure he fingers you till your like dripping wet then make sure he puts lub on the condom but the pain gets better everytime!. and by now it should just hurt to put it in and after that it'll feel uber good=]Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's possible that you're too tense, not lubricated enough ky silk buy it at walmart (it's great) Considering you have not had sex much yet you might just not be use to it yet and are just too tense and stressed about it!. Sex is usually not that great the first few times that you have it because you are so nervous!. make sure that you are doing forplay first!. Maybe you were just not ready to have sex yet!. The choice is always yours!. best of luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Relax!. After the first time it is likely that you expected it to hurt, when you are tense the muscles in your vagina are tense and that can make things difficult!.

Also make sure you are properly lubricated down there!. Make sure you are fully aroused before letting him enter you, or even use store bought lube, although you are likely to feel more pleasure if you are aroused enough to lubricate yourself!.

Be aware that not all women 'come' through vaginal intercourse, so it might be that penetration just isn't doing it for you!. If you still want to do it for him, make sure you use plenty of lubrication!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This is normal when you first start having sex, but if you don't feel like doing it and you tense your vaginal muscles during sex then you may not be ready to do it yet!.

I don't know how old you are, but if you are mature enough to have sex and want to enjoy it then just relax and make sure you have lots of foreplay, and use a little lubricant!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Use birth control because giving birth sure hurts more than sex! No glove no love!. LOL

Also, more foreplay and non-oil based lubes!. BTW, your vagina doesn't stretch out like someone else said!. You get used to having sex (after you have a baby that is a different issue all together)!. Tell your sweetie it hurts, get him on this boat with you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

well, if you relax more your vaginal walls become more relaxed so it will feel better!.
was it your first time!?!? your first few times are meant to hurt, mine did, but then the 3rd or 4th time was great and the pain felt good!? haha!.

maybe use some lube :]
hope this helps you!.
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It's possible that you're too tense, not lubricated enough or just not used to it yet!. So, depending on what you think is the most likely: relax (deep breaths or something), get some lube/have more foreplay, or wait it out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

the first few times you have sex, it may hurt!.

make sure you're actually turned on before you have sex!. and make sure youre wet enough before he sticks it in!.

if necassary, use a store-bought lubrication,Www@Answer-Health@Com

He needs to be slow and very gentle!. It may hurt because your body isn't used to having something in it, and perhaps your hymen hasn't completely broken!. Just take it easy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Lube!. Try Astroglide or KY Intrigue!. They're both thin and good quality!. You can get them in drug stores or Wal-Mart next to the condoms and stuff!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Aside from practical issues such as lubrication, you may simply need to relax!. If this problem persists, you should consult your physician!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

sorry but its just the way it happends after a bit it wont hurt anymore but your just not use to it and your vagina needs to streach out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

smaller boyfriend, better boyfriend at arousing you or more lubrication (store bought if necessary)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Try KY and if it still hurts you may have something wrong going on and need to see a doc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

lubricant, tell him to slow down and more foreplay!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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