Bad trouble in bed?!


Question: Bad trouble in bed!?
me and my girlfriend have sex regularly but there are a lot of positions we cant do because she gets a "weird feeling" and immediately starts to cry!.!.!.!.she says its not really from pain its just a feeling!.!.!.its causing a lot of trouble!.!.!.anyone have any help!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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*was she abused!?*
does she feel guilty for having sex!?
is she having a deep body feeling that may not be painful, but it is bad!?

i had a friend who had a tampon stuck in her for 3 months and now that it's out she can't have sex at all because it causes her so much discomfort!.

maybe she has a tilted cervix, and at certain positions you're pressing on her the wrong way!?

you should have her see a doctor for a pelvic exam, and you should also just try the positions that bother her!. just be very gentle with her and go slow and when she needs you to stop, stop!. then talk it over with her!.!.!.

best of luck!.
give her lots of love, okay!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

maybe she is just the kind of girl that is not into all the positioning and stuff!. Try one position at a time and see if she is comfortable with it!. Ask her, very important, if she is comfortable with it!. I am a woman and like sex, but I do not like all the different kind of positions!. It is uncomfortable and makes me feel like an animal!. Some girls just like good making love, even if it means missionary
position or sitting on top of you(facing you, of course)!. I say it makes her feel uncomfortable and slutty!. Respect her for her opinion as well!. For all the guys out there!.!.!.!. most woman find 'dirty talk' not as arousing!.Please do not ask her about sexual abuse or trauma, because it will only add up more problems and make her feel uncomfortable!. She'll tell you if she is ready,but I doubt that is the reason!. Try missionary position the next time and if she cries, then you know something is wrong and you could ask her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

She probably has experienced sexual abuse/assault at some point in her past!. Be patient with her!.!.!. and maybe talk about it when the two of you are not in the bedroom!.

Also, I would suggest you stop having sex!. This will remove the pressure from her, and your relationship!. In this way, you will really be able to understand what is bothering your girlfriend!. And the two of you can develop real intimacy!.

God bless!Www@Answer-Health@Com

hehe that's strange to me but idk if its not pain i cant really say much unless idk maybe she doesn't wanna have sex hehe!. imo talk to her and find out wat it is because we can babble on of wat we think it might be but u would only know for sure wen u ask her!. make her feel comfortable and talk!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If she is young, then maybe she gets intimidated with some positionsWww@Answer-Health@Com

then dont do them positions she probably had trama what does it matter the possioton newayWww@Answer-Health@Com

talk to a counselor to get to the root of the problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Cry!?! A feeling that makes her cry eh!?
I don't suppose it would be a lube problem!. Very difficult problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

send her for proper training in positioning ,Www@Answer-Health@Com





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